You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.
On the subject of dating and DATY, one of my jokes:
A man and a woman who had been platonic friends in university meet by chance years later. Both recently single, they decide to date, and romance blossoms. On the night when they're going to have sex for the first time, the guy is about to perform oral sex when he remarks "You have a beautiful pussy, it's so symmetrical.". She says "What are you, a gynecologist?", and he says "No, I'm a guy you went to college with".