One of the principles of Feminism is that every woman should have the right to prevent a man from having sex.
Clearly this is happening in many marriages, based on the replies in this thread. In some cases, the male submits without resistance. In other cases, he rebels.
In my partially written screenplay which I can't get anyone to read, there's a scene where a cop is being given a test on the witness stand, to determine whether or not he possesses 'the equivalent of a grade 12 education'.
One of the questions is:
Bull is to steer as man is to ___________ ?
The correct answer is eunuch, but in the script, 'Jack, who asked the question, says "I would also have accepted 'Happily Married Man' or 'Family Man'.
The term 'animal husbandry' is used frequently in farming, with reference to farm animals. I worked on a dairy farm as a summer job in 1976/77. As with almost every dairy farm, there are multiple female cows, (heifers), but only one bull. The heifers' job is to produce milk. An heifer produces milk after giving birth to a calf, and continues to do so for approximately two years afterward, provided that the milk is removed from its body twice daily. The bull's only purpose is for procreation. Where I worked, he was always in his stall, standing, with a secure collar around his neck. I think the bull slept while standing. The only time the bull was released from his stall was when one of the heifers was scheduled for breeding. Each heifer was on a different schedule. If the barn had 48 heifers, two would be bred each month.
Cow sex lasts for about five seconds, and a lot of the bull's semen ends up on the barn floor. There's no foreplay.
The farm has no need for more than one bull. A good bull is expensive to buy, in the same way that a pedigreed dog is much more expensive to buy than one of a litter of mutts sold from a cardboard box on a street corner, or any thoroughbred race horse sired or foaled by a champion.
When the heifer is due to give birth, the farmer will usually keep her in the barn, rather than grazing with the other heifers. He doesn't want her to give birth in the field, because she might try to hide the calf, or it may be difficult to capture the calf and bring it back to the barn.
After the heifer gives birth, the calf is immediately separated from her, to avoid bonding between them. Cows are so stupid that within a couple of days, they have probably forgotten that they had given birth.
The newborn calf is kept in a separate pen, and where I worked, it was fed milk from a bucket for a few days, until a truck arrived to take it away.
If the newborn calf was female, I'm presuming that it might be raised until it reached sexual maturity, then sold as a heifer to some farmer. If the newborn calf was male. he would be butchered for veal. The male calf's only reason to exist was so that the heifer would produce milk. He would not be considered worthy for 'bull status', because he would have genes deemed inferior for reproduction. He's not from beef cattle stock, so there would be no reason to prolong his life while he grew and gained weight. Veal is delicious in my opinion, and that opinion is shared by many. Some people morally object to eating veal, because it comes from 'baby cows'. Those same people don't realize that the milk, butter and cheese that they eat could not be produced without the veal calves.
Yes, there is a point to all of this. There are feminists who 'feel' that animal husbandry techniques should be applied to humans. Their opinion is that only 'breeding males' should be having sex, and they should only be having sex when attempting to breed. Look on YouTube, and you can find videos of feminist women espousing this philosophy.
A similar situation exists with many older feminists who do not have a man in their life from whom they can ration or deny sex. What often happens is that they become 'crazy cat ladies' - they have multiple male cats living in their home, all of which have been neutered, and the euphemistic term they use is 'fixed'.
Un-neutered male cats will not peacefully share an enclosed space with each other. They will fight for food, and use urine to mark territory. These natural traits of the species are suppressed when the testicles are removed, and the house cats become relatively docile 'living stuffed animals'.
For the crazy cat lady, tending to the needs of her cats is a form of surrogate motherhood. A have an older sister who is a crazy cat lady, so I have been able to observe the behavior patterns first hand. The changes in behavior between an intact and a gelded male cat prompt many feminists and their sympathizers to believe that if a similar practice was applied to men, the world would be a better place - for them at least.
A problem exists for feminist women who have similarly been deemed 'unfit for reproductive purposes' by most men. This would include many women who are not facially attractive to a man, women with unappealing body shapes, most older women who are past their 'best before' date, and all women whom men believe do not possess genes that a man would want to pass on to offspring for which he planned to invest time, money and effort to raise them to maturity. Invariably, the majority of women who fit that profile do one of the following things:
Either they 'settle' for less than they wanted to 'own a man of their own', or they become lesbians or feminists, or sometimes both.
When a man ejaculates within a woman during vaginal sex, there are chemicals released which affect the dopamine centers of a woman's brain, leading to a euphoric feeling not dissimilar from that felt by ingesting narcotic drugs or eating chocolate. This is part of the reason why many women who are getting little to no sex are fat. They use different stimuli to receive the same 'high'.
There was one major change during the past 40-45 years which has swelled the number of women within that group: HIV.
Prior to the early 1980's, casual sex without condoms was the norm, and the percentage of Baby Boomers born before 1960 or so who have never had any STI is probably very low. Older members of this board such as
@xmontrealer would be able to confirm that many prostitutes active in the 1970's and earlier routinely provided BBFS, and they would usually squeeze the guy's dick before the act, to see if there was any discharge, (a sign of gonorrhea). AIDS changed all of that. There are probably many women currently aged 60 or less who have NEVER had vaginal sex with a man who was not wearing a condom. I believe that that factor in many ways contributes to their anger, which makes men that much less likely to want to 'know them
Apache style'.
Political Correctness Is...
How bitter women use sex as a weapon against men who don't want to fuck them.
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