Interesting thing happened to me...What should I do now? (confused)
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Having been to 12 step programs. I can tell you some people are terrific at keeping three personalities going concurrently. It' a matter of time and I seen one do it for 3 years, and 20 years.
In the end... you have to keep us posted. She may know all the dating / relationship hacks.
Just ask her straight up....also...imagine she's reading these forums? You have been way too specific
Exactly what I was thinking. "Is that 50 bucks the test for me he posted about?" lol
Why not be an adult and actually communicate whats going on and have an open mind? Tell you you have been enjoying the time you're spending together and that you feel something real with her. Obviously be wary but also be open, especially since it seems you do have chemistry and connection.
Have fun as much as you can but remember just as you are wary that she may be leading you on, perhaps she's wary that she'll be kicked to the curb after all of this too.
Instead of flashing the car or whatever, maybe just have a simple movie date. Enjoy each others time. And if she seems like shes in it for what you provide, then you have your answer.
Remember, at the end of the day she's a human being. If she's out to harm you, she can. If she is really into you, this can blossom. But if you are operating out of fear from the get go, I don't see any scenario where this ends well.
Have fun as much as you can but remember just as you are wary that she may be leading you on, perhaps she's wary that she'll be kicked to the curb after all of this too.
Instead of flashing the car or whatever, maybe just have a simple movie date. Enjoy each others time. And if she seems like shes in it for what you provide, then you have your answer.
Remember, at the end of the day she's a human being. If she's out to harm you, she can. If she is really into you, this can blossom. But if you are operating out of fear from the get go, I don't see any scenario where this ends well.
Be extremely cautious. You might just be the mark she's been looking for.
You're attracted to her physically, but do you even really know this person?
You can be upfront and state what it is you are looking for, and frankly, that's what I'd do.
You want to pursue a relationship. Tell her. Do not play games. You're an adult.
You're attracted to her physically, but do you even really know this person?
You can be upfront and state what it is you are looking for, and frankly, that's what I'd do.
You want to pursue a relationship. Tell her. Do not play games. You're an adult.
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Ok guys I met up with her again last night she arrived late and I did call and Uber for her. She brought me some food from her restaurant as promised.
In addition to the physical we did have a talk and I asked her why she's interested in hanging out with me now when 10-12 years ago she made it clear to me it was only about business.
She said at the time she was in an abusive relationship with a guy who pushed her into dancing and sex work. she said she felt a connection with us but obviously because her situation it wouldn't work and I agreed. She has since left the guy and last years been building herself up to be independent.
I told her I was raised to be a gentleman and a provider but that doesn't mean I let myself get taken advantage of women so if shes looking for a sugar daddy she is not going to get that with me.
In addition to the physical we did have a talk and I asked her why she's interested in hanging out with me now when 10-12 years ago she made it clear to me it was only about business.
She said at the time she was in an abusive relationship with a guy who pushed her into dancing and sex work. she said she felt a connection with us but obviously because her situation it wouldn't work and I agreed. She has since left the guy and last years been building herself up to be independent.
I told her I was raised to be a gentleman and a provider but that doesn't mean I let myself get taken advantage of women so if shes looking for a sugar daddy she is not going to get that with me.
Lol i would never do that test. If someone went from driving a nice car and days later lost it all and had to take the bus I would never blame someone for not being wanting to be with a person like that.
You're right i edited the original post to remove some of the more specific details.
I’m actually very invested in this I hope this works out well for you 
Did she seem genuine when you asked her?
Left on us on a cliff hanger ? Hello ??? Is this a Netflix show ? & for the love of God !! Tell us what car this is ! FFS
