Similar story. Once the kids arrived, things diminished from there. Decades later I had enough and walked.
Sexless marriage
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I saw G Love and Special Sauce twice at The Opera House in the late 1990's. Their show was like one long song which lasted for an hour and a half, but I mean that in a good way. They had a lot of good songs and they played well, but they didn't have any hits.
Try these links guys,, covered so many times..
I watched a French movie Young & Beautiful (Jeune & Jolie, 2013) - student life and sex work
The female lead says - sexless marriage is a form of control by a women (men) too.
Try also Elles 2011
I watched a French movie Young & Beautiful (Jeune & Jolie, 2013) - student life and sex work
The female lead says - sexless marriage is a form of control by a women (men) too.
Try also Elles 2011
Lol
I started a reply, lost the page and couldn't find it to finish what I started. I didn't know that part was posted.
So subtext is that @Sonic Temple is my freaking hero. He's always helpful, positive, and has seen just about every top provider in the GTA. His reviews have guided me to some wonderful SPs. i.e. Kate Collins, and others.
I suspect he owns an NFL franchise or traffics drugs for the Sinaloa Cartel because he clearly has more disposable income than anyone I know. He's seen them all for multiple hours and duos. So, to answer your question....PENIS. I wish I could be reincarnated as Sonic's penis.
He's had more top-grade AAA premium pussy than Johnny Sins. A TERB legend.
^^^^^^^^
That would make a face to face meeting somewhat awkward.
That would make a face to face meeting somewhat awkward.
I have talked to quite a few clients who are in that situation, and it's unfortunately common. I think the truth of the matter is people change, evolve and priorities shift. The person you marry, will not be the same person you are with in 10, 20 years down the line. Life tends to get the best of us, and for many as they age, take on more responsibilities, sex gets left on the back burner. Honestly this is one of my own fears if I ever walk down this path as I'm extremely high strung lol
There are many older couples who still enjoy sex together and get along well. It's about finding the right partner. Which has worked for some and not for others. Such as myself and others ITT. I know for a fact after my marriage ended the men my ex started stuff with got action. There's no denying that. She also broke up with 2 guys after me whom I talked with since I tend to be easy going and approachable.
I think deep down if 2 people really enjoy one another they make it work. You can tell when one person is just with the partner due to finance or the sake of it maybe due to kids.
The odd times I go to Walmart when it's busy the amount of ladies venting at their partner to stop pushing the cart is funny af. And the way they say it. Then I see couples who get along well and there's no piss match. Or more so one person being pissy about it.
Once the so-called honeymoon stage is over people should openly see what their partner is like and should get a better idea if that's who they want long term. I'm glad my marriage ended sooner than later. I never cheated and stayed loyal regardless sex went down a lot. Overall not a fun experience especially getting crapped on for no reason, especially doing more as a man than what most guys do when they get home from work. Single life and stress free unless I meet the right person is well worth it. Lots of SPs out there and civie ladies to enjoy a fun time with.
If a partner denies you of sex more than 3 or so times in a short period of time you don't know what that mentally does to someone unless you experience it. That implies to both men and women.
I think deep down if 2 people really enjoy one another they make it work. You can tell when one person is just with the partner due to finance or the sake of it maybe due to kids.
The odd times I go to Walmart when it's busy the amount of ladies venting at their partner to stop pushing the cart is funny af. And the way they say it. Then I see couples who get along well and there's no piss match. Or more so one person being pissy about it.
Once the so-called honeymoon stage is over people should openly see what their partner is like and should get a better idea if that's who they want long term. I'm glad my marriage ended sooner than later. I never cheated and stayed loyal regardless sex went down a lot. Overall not a fun experience especially getting crapped on for no reason, especially doing more as a man than what most guys do when they get home from work. Single life and stress free unless I meet the right person is well worth it. Lots of SPs out there and civie ladies to enjoy a fun time with.
If a partner denies you of sex more than 3 or so times in a short period of time you don't know what that mentally does to someone unless you experience it. That implies to both men and women.
not saying this is for everyone
but maybe the issue isnt the marriage
its the whole one person has to be everything thing
get a couple more girlfriends
one for the talks one for the laughs one for the bedroom
everyone wins
im not a monogamy guy anyway
im half joking
but maybe the issue isnt the marriage
its the whole one person has to be everything thing
get a couple more girlfriends
one for the talks one for the laughs one for the bedroom
everyone wins
im not a monogamy guy anyway
im half joking
Many women don't enjoy vaginal sex, but they see it as a 'necessary evil' to achieve the goal of motherhood. For women like that, sex serves no useful purpose for them when they have no desire to produce additional offspring.
Withholding sex can also be seen as a form of empowerment. The women who don't want to have sex and also don't want their husbands to have sex without them are also the same demographic group most threatened by the sex industry. Their public motive in denouncing both males and females who participate in The Industry is meant to appear altruistic, but their private motive is purely self interest, although they would never admit that.
Women in a high social class often marry for reasons other than mutual love. This would include Royal families, or the children of '1%ers'. Those women often don't care if their husband 'strays', provided that it's done discretely, so that they are not publicly embarrassed among their social circle. Eleanor Roosevelt and Jacqueline Kennedy are two good examples of this
Withholding sex can also be seen as a form of empowerment. The women who don't want to have sex and also don't want their husbands to have sex without them are also the same demographic group most threatened by the sex industry. Their public motive in denouncing both males and females who participate in The Industry is meant to appear altruistic, but their private motive is purely self interest, although they would never admit that.
Women in a high social class often marry for reasons other than mutual love. This would include Royal families, or the children of '1%ers'. Those women often don't care if their husband 'strays', provided that it's done discretely, so that they are not publicly embarrassed among their social circle. Eleanor Roosevelt and Jacqueline Kennedy are two good examples of this
Once the so-called honeymoon stage is over people should openly see what their partner is like and should get a better idea if that's who they want long term
Why men lose interest in sex: Love; or, where men love they do not desire
This vid above perfectly explains my situation and my marriage. Love my wife but I don't see her that way anymore. Her decision to go poly for a year a few years ago after our son was born along with her postpartum depression and her annoying girl crew added to me just seeing her as a life partner to keep the home stable and a united front for our two kids. She kind of regretted her decision as she caught gonorrhea in her throat during her little escapade and stopped immediately.
This is also why I decided to return to the hobby since 2023 but have not pulled the trigger and saw any SP as I find the quality post-Covid to be meh and mediocre. Or maybe I am just getting old lol.
Wife knows about this and has accept as I have no interest in other forms of arrangements. Just going to spend my year once activated in the hobby and not many outings either.
This vid above perfectly explains my situation and my marriage. Love my wife but I don't see her that way anymore. Her decision to go poly for a year a few years ago after our son was born along with her postpartum depression and her annoying girl crew added to me just seeing her as a life partner to keep the home stable and a united front for our two kids. She kind of regretted her decision as she caught gonorrhea in her throat during her little escapade and stopped immediately.
This is also why I decided to return to the hobby since 2023 but have not pulled the trigger and saw any SP as I find the quality post-Covid to be meh and mediocre. Or maybe I am just getting old lol.
Wife knows about this and has accept as I have no interest in other forms of arrangements. Just going to spend my year once activated in the hobby and not many outings either.
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I tend the think the stat is higher than 20%. Not sure what the Google source is and what the definition was used for sexless.
Real number's higher. Self-reported surveys under-count — people won't admit dead bedrooms even anonymously, and a couple doing it once every 2-3 months won't even count themselves as sexless. Plus the truly sexless ones mostly divorced already, so they're not even in the sample. Some surveys say 26-33%. 20% is a floor.
i saw something that said a sexless marriage is if you’re having sex less than 10-12 times a year.
it is a shame but sometimes women do see it as a “necessary evil” for procreation and once that’s achieved they’re not interested
there’s a lot of talk about how women over the age of __ turn into “wildcats” in the bedroom but they don’t talk about the women whose libido is gone and literally dry up and sex that used to be amazing is now painful
i’ve had clients who went 10+ years with no intimacy before deciding to try seeing a provider - getting a divorce isn’t an option because of obligations but that doesn’t mean you as a man should live an unsatisfied life. it just creates unbearable tension in the family home
i think if you are going to step out on your partner the best way is seeing a provider - you are paying for discretion, intimacy and a place to relax and feel at peace (reputable providers arent going to go out of their way to blow up your life)
it is a shame but sometimes women do see it as a “necessary evil” for procreation and once that’s achieved they’re not interested
there’s a lot of talk about how women over the age of __ turn into “wildcats” in the bedroom but they don’t talk about the women whose libido is gone and literally dry up and sex that used to be amazing is now painful
i’ve had clients who went 10+ years with no intimacy before deciding to try seeing a provider - getting a divorce isn’t an option because of obligations but that doesn’t mean you as a man should live an unsatisfied life. it just creates unbearable tension in the family home
i think if you are going to step out on your partner the best way is seeing a provider - you are paying for discretion, intimacy and a place to relax and feel at peace (reputable providers arent going to go out of their way to blow up your life)
