Body count in the hobby? What made you start?

DesRicardo

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Been full-time at this about 9 years, but including strip clubs closer to 21 years. Probably 120 count.

I made the decision to completely jump in because It's cheaper to go right to the source.
 

Ryan_Coke

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For those counting strippers, are you counting those you had dances with, or only ones you may have had some form of sexual contact with?
 

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For those counting strippers, are you counting those you had dances with, or only ones you may have had some form of sexual contact with?
That is kind of relevant. Along with what gets counted as sexual contact. I've probably had a kilo-tit of stripper boobs in my mouth...
 

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Kilo-tit! We need to have that added to the dictionary!
He he... If counting lowest common denominator sexual contact then some guys that were there from the beginning of the $20 era probably have astounding numbers. How about guys that got off from the grind, or over the fabric rubbing? Or are we just counting "direct release"?

In any case I couldn't even guess. I never much liked cumming in my pants, and I was never really an extras or takeout guy, but plenty of stuff went down.
 
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klick

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Easily upwards of 150-200 at a minimum. That includes massage room bangs/hjs, BJ Bars, and of course regular escorts.

Within these, most are just one-time bangs, some repeats in massage room, but I do have a few regulars that I've been seeing again and again.
 
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BiggerTitsTheBetter

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In any case I couldn't even guess. I never much liked cumming in my pants, and I was never really an extras or takeout guy, but plenty of stuff went down.
Same here
I always liked the grind and the edging more than the release. So many times I went home with a raging erection and my blood boiling!
Strippers alone, my count is probably more than 200, in about 10 different countries (US, Canada, Europe)
Best stripper shows - US
Best grind - Czech Republic (all strippers there also tended to be escorts and strip clubs were fronts for paid sex, so no surprise really)
In Canada, before Covid, many strip clubs had a decent balance between the entertainment factor and the quality of the grind. But things went downhill big time since then ☹
 
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I always liked the grind and the edging more than the release.
If I wasn't in a monogamous relationship I was all for a release. I just didn't want a wet spot in my pants. At least in the middle period of the $20 era in Ontario, even if you weren't an extras guy, a guy with a good stripper nose could often get a release included in the price of songs on a good sit in the VIP. To me that always felt more enjoyable than a rushed extra.

FWIW, I think we're currently in the post apocalyptic era of SCs in Ontario.
 
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Ryan_Coke

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If I wasn't in a monogamous relationship I was all for a release. I just didn't want a wet spot in my pants. At least in the middle period of the $20 era in Ontario, even if you weren't an extras guys, a guy with a good stripper nose could often get a release included in the price of songs on a good sit in the VIP. To me that always felt more enjoyable than a rushed extra.

FWIW, I think we're currently in the post apocalyptic era of SCs in Ontario.
I've never paid extra for busting in my pants. Other than if I got it in my mind that I wanted to and maybe needed another song to make it happen. It's not something I generally ask her about though. If she gets me good and hard in the first song and I actually want to cum, then I'll just kind of signal with how I hold her hips that I want her to keep riding on me and I let it happen. Sometimes, even if the girl is super hot, her dance just doesn't do it for me and I would hate to commit to a certain number of songs or ask about her making me bust. Several years ago, I had a regular dancer that I saw at a club in London and I mentioned to her one night that she made me cum during her dance. I managed to hide it pretty well from her that it happened and she said she liked that I did but to tell her next time that I want to cum and she will work her dances towards that. This soon led to me suggesting there should only be latex between us, not cloth and it wasn't long before I was just going to her apartment and having sex with her instead of leaving a mess in my underwear at the bar lol. I never did anything in the London clubs but there were many of the girls I did end up meeting with away from the club for extra fun. Several went on to just advertise on London Sugar and step away from dancing altogether. The other local club outside of Woodstock though, tons of extra fun to be had there. If the girl takes you to the booth behind the stage, that's almost a guarantee she is going to offer to bang you right there. Only the girl on stage can see what's happening there (if anything) and there's something extra hot having a girl sitting on your lap with your dick inside her and a girl on stage looking right at you and knowing what's happening. The only post-covid problem there is the fact they are only open 3 days a week now instead of 7.
 
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I've never paid extra for busting in my pants.
Yeah, if things happened during songs, from the grind, or if things otherwise came out to play, that was generally considered to be included. The latter is what I preferred. As opposed to negotiating terms for an extra. I never much liked that-- Always rushed, plus a dancer tended to turn into a dead fish if you declined the extra.

I know the club you mentioned. I even reviewed it. ;) Though you might want to edit your post to remove the club name. Your post is against TERB rules, and the place always had some LE heat on it (especially for drinking and driving). The golden rule, that TERB will usually let slide, is to never link a direct release (including most extras) to a currently open club, or a currently active dancer. The actual TERB rule is a little stricter, but the mods will usually let things slide if you follow to above golden rule (as it lets old guys tell stories).
 
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I’ve been seeing SPs for about three years now. I’ve seen 12 in total, and I tend to repeat the ones I really like. I’ve gone back to three of them multiple times, including one for overnights.
 
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This was the post that convinced me to go to a random address that was texted to me from a leolist ad 4 years ago.(her ig was in the ad.) Unfortunately it was one of the best times of my life.
 

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First time was in early 2020. I was in Amsterdam so it was kind of a "when in Rome" situation. While that experience wasn't great - girl was insanely hot but it was very transactional - I had more positive encounters elsewhere in Europe later on that trip and during the two that followed. Finally made my first visit to Toronto three years ago and haven't looked back. I come out for a few long weekends each year to see as many SPs as I can manage (typically 4-6), and have also visited Montreal and Thailand in the last 18 months. Believe I'm up to around 50 in the hobby now versus about 20 civvies.
 
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