Body count in the hobby? What made you start?

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

throat_fucker said:
How long have you been hobbying (what year did you start), and roughly how many providers have you seen since then?

I started seriously 1.5 years ago. Before that I had one sloppy drunk backpage hookup and one drunk Chinese MP visit, both in 2014. It wasn't until I got out of a toxic BPD relationship that I considered this.

My first real session, I walked into a parlour, asked for full service, got a legit 10/10 for $450. Blew my mind. Money spent with no drama, no arguing, no emotional fallout. Fast forward to now and I'm at 26 companions. Still pull civilian girls when I want, but the hobby gives me an adrenaline rush + guaranteed access to beautiful women with zero strings. No pregnancy scares, no crazy exes ... just fuck, CIM, peace out, maybe hit my favorite spot for food after.

PSA - This is not meant to be a dick measuring contest. Just curious to know your stories.

Started about 20 years ago when I realized that no matter my relationship status I wanted to keep sowing my wild oats when it comes to sex. I'm not interested at all in cheating with civilians outside the hobby. As the old saying goes, you don't pay women for sex, you pay them to leave after.

My first 10 years in the hobby I did MP only about twice a year and had an amazing time. In around 2018 I went to a spa in Edmonton that I had no idea was FS and was shocked when the girl asked me to fuck her lol. In Toronto in a subsequent year I ended up getting talked into "extras" at an MP location and then for the first time in 2025 I booked an SP and had a great time. Booked an SP again last week, had a phenomenal time again.

When it comes to FS my body count is 12 civilians and 4 SP for a grand total of 16 ladies, with the vast majority of civilians fucked when I was between the age of 20 and 25 and somewhat hot lol. When it comes to MPs I've lost count but I would estimate about 40 HJs from MPs. So total body count of women who have helped me blow my load to date is about 55.

I'm 42 and I plan on seeing one SP about every 18 months and an MP about every six months and I never repeat so assuming I do this until I'm 80 I hope to have another ~100 beautiful women bring me to orgasm before I die. And if I ever get divorced I plan on trying to start a small porn company with me as the main actor to live that dream (probably old and young type stuff by that point similar to Oldje for those familiar) so we will see, but I'm also of course hoping that divorce doesn't happen so a win-win either way I guess ( my wife is unaware of my hobby and I've never been caught). Other than this secret and our mediocre sex life (the quality is there but she is demi-sexual and only wants to fuck like once every 2 months) we have a good marriage. I test regularly to keep her safe and the reason I only see SP so infrequently and favour MP is to reduce the STI risk in the long run, which would almost certainly result in divorce. Just trying to manage the risk of having my cake and eating it. Time will tell if it works out or not.

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

Nickelodeon said:
Started in the mid-90's....lost count along the way. Used newspapers and Yellow Pages in the early days before TERB came along. Some great memories, eg. many MP's here in Toronto, getting rimmed for the first time in a Montreal hotel outcall (wow...what was that?) and an amazingly beautiful Russian hooker working the Athens hotels.

The only downside with this track record is that I'm in my mid-70's and my best hobbying days are behind me.

Thanks for sharing. As someone who intends to hobby into my 70s and beyond, do you still get good service at your age, or are you starting to encounter ageism? I certainly hope not, but an inquiring mind wants to know. All the best on your continued hobbying journey!

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

33333 said:
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desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

countd said:
Probably 300-400 First was in Atlantic City New Jersey In the 70's

After going to a freak show on Coney Island and having a bunch of Jersey girls cheering me on as I sat piggyback on the back of the Amazon Woman as she jumped up and down on broken glass, I've always been attracted to the accent. Never had the pleasure tho, closest was one of my university girlfriends was from upstate New York. She was amazing in the sack.

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

wonderingeye said:
When I started with an affair was having sex at home. Crazy having sex with your lover in the morning and wife at night.

At this point within this world, I have not had that 'thrill' that I would have with a new lady. Nothing wrong with them. Sessions were nice. Just missing that 'it' factor. So that is a sign that perhaps time to find a new hobby.

Lost my count of ladies that I was able to spend time with. Would love to do a goodbye tour with some of them.

The only affair I've ever had was an "emotional" one and it happened accidentally. My wife never found out but it left a mental scar and fucked me up pretty good for about three years. And I didn't even get any sex out of it. Better to stick to the professionals for me I think.

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

Meekfreaks said:
I got chlamydia once from an ex girlfriend, other than that these women are cleaner

I've never caught anything. On the other hand I have a friend better than me with the ladies who has a civilian body count about equivalent to mine including SPs and he caught chlamidya from civilians 4 times.

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

WetSeeker said:
I would agree, I love pussy slides before sex, that is the one area when I am a bit nervous, agency ladies know they have to be clean to keep on schedule and earning income.
Some ladies get tested frequently and some indies even post their results, obviously keeping their personal details private. I wonder if agencies require regular testing or leave it up to the ladies.

I get tested every few months. And for the reasons you mentioned I'll keep an eye on the schedule of the girl I saw for a month or two after a booking. If they don't drop off the schedule for a long time during that time, that gives me a little peace of mind that they are probably good as if they became symptomatic or a recent client did they would probably need significant time off.

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

chuckster said:
Around 270 (lost count) since around 2001
100+ in Montreal
Maybe 20 White girls in Toronto
Maybe 150 Asian girls in Toronto
I'm almost exclusively Asian now. I have evolved that way.

After a trip to Japan and finding out about the very reasonable rates to record a session I've added an Asian place to my TDL to make some porn. We will see if I get hooked...

Nickelodeon · Sep 24, 2026

desperateent said:
Thanks for sharing. As someone who intends to hobby into my 70s and beyond, do you still get good service at your age, or are you starting to encounter ageism? I certainly hope not, but an inquiring mind wants to know. All the best on your continued hobbying journey!

I don't think I've encountered ageism...most MP's I see now appreciate the respect I show to them. At some point, I might hit a wall with ED or taking too long to come....but no complaints so far.

High Octane 99 · Sep 24, 2026

desperateent said:
I plan on trying to start a small porn company with me as the main actor to live that dream

Way to go my man.

My plan too is to be like this dude [Jake Fucks Brazil]. But I dont think I have the courage to go to a different country and do it with all the beautiful girls. I will stick to Canada.

desperateent · Sep 24, 2026

High Octane 99 said:
Way to go my man.

My plan too is to be like this dude [Jake Fucks Brazil]. But I dont think I have the courage to go to a different country and do it with all the beautiful girls. I will stick to Canada.

Oh dude that's a classic I totally forgot about. Thanks for the memories. I think that's the one where the guys said they did it so they have something to jerk off to when they are old. Legendary.

My screen name is actually short for what I hope to call my production company one day (Desperate Enterprises) because I would love to make porn themed about desperately horny old men (mostly me) getting incredibly lucky with hot young women. For now, I live that fantasy through the hobby from time to time. I'm still fairly young but not for long.

I have heard that in Eastern Europe and South America you can basically have orgies with beautiful women for peanuts but I also lack the balls and funds to do it at this point. I do want to go hobbying in Budapest or Prague one day. Goals. All the best to you!

Muchadoaboutnothing · Sep 26, 2026

desperateent said:
Started about 20 years ago when I realized that no matter my relationship status I wanted to keep sowing my wild oats when it comes to sex. I'm not interested at all in cheating with civilians outside the hobby. As the old saying goes, you don't pay women for sex, you pay them to leave after.

My first 10 years in the hobby I did MP only about twice a year and had an amazing time. In around 2018 I went to a spa in Edmonton that I had no idea was FS and was shocked when the girl asked me to fuck her lol. In Toronto in a subsequent year I ended up getting talked into "extras" at an MP location and then for the first time in 2025 I booked an SP and had a great time. Booked an SP again last week, had a phenomenal time again.

When it comes to FS my body count is 12 civilians and 4 SP for a grand total of 16 ladies, with the vast majority of civilians fucked when I was between the age of 20 and 25 and somewhat hot lol. When it comes to MPs I've lost count but I would estimate about 40 HJs from MPs. So total body count of women who have helped me blow my load to date is about 55.

I'm 42 and I plan on seeing one SP about every 18 months and an MP about every six months and I never repeat so assuming I do this until I'm 80 I hope to have another ~100 beautiful women bring me to orgasm before I die. And if I ever get divorced I plan on trying to start a small porn company with me as the main actor to live that dream (probably old and young type stuff by that point similar to Oldje for those familiar) so we will see, but I'm also of course hoping that divorce doesn't happen so a win-win either way I guess ( my wife is unaware of my hobby and I've never been caught). Other than this secret and our mediocre sex life (the quality is there but she is demi-sexual and only wants to fuck like once every 2 months) we have a good marriage. I test regularly to keep her safe and the reason I only see SP so infrequently and favour MP is to reduce the STI risk in the long run, which would almost certainly result in divorce. Just trying to manage the risk of having my cake and eating it. Time will tell if it works out or not.

Hopefully you and your wife have update gardasil. She could die of cervical cancer and you get outed via diagnosis

desperateent · Sep 26, 2026

Muchadoaboutnothing said:
Hopefully you and your wife have update gardasil. She could die of cervical cancer and you get outed via diagnosis

We use condoms as birth control and both get tested for STDs regularly (she goes to a women's clinic where that's standard practice even for married women) and she gets regular pap smears/ cervical screening. We were both very sexually active prior to getting married so the chances are almost 100% we've both already been exposed to HPV. I actually had genital warts about 25 years ago that were treated and have not come back and she knows that.

Numerati · Sunday at 4:34 PM

From 2004 to 2015 a total of 43 women. In 2012 just saw four and they were porn stars in Vegas. Made a brief return in 2015 and saw four regular girls.

desperateent · Sunday at 5:18 PM

Numerati said:
From 2004 to 2015 a total of 43 women. In 2012 just saw four and they were porn stars in Vegas. Made a brief return in 2015 and saw four.

Who were the porn stars?

Numerati · Sunday at 5:37 PM

desperateent said:
Who were the porn stars?

New World · Sunday at 6:38 PM

Started in 2013. Never booked an escort. But if Dancers count as part of the hobby approx qty 100 ladies

desperateent · Sunday at 7:21 PM

Numerati said:
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Amazing.

Numerati · Sunday at 7:40 PM

desperateent said:
Amazing.

Except for Sienna West. She was also why I stopped seeing porn stars. In a way that was good as she saved me tons of money if I continued going down this path. When I saw Sienna she did not age well with tons of nasty tats and her attitude and service were not worth the $3,000 for two hours. Well just glad I got the need to see porn stars out of my system and move on with my life.

The best out of the four though was Veronica Avluv. She was exactly like her scenes. Nonstop action covered in sweat with her mascara dripping down and she just kept on going like a champ. Had to cool off and asked her to clean up her mascara lol.

Whoasexy · Monday at 7:17 PM

not that many, I am going to try to stop and think about it

started about 10 years ago and I do it very infrequently because I am in a relationship and it is hard to safely schedule it, also I am kind of conscious of the money aspect

let me see.. kind of weird to list them out but I’ll try and it’s quite a random list (most were booked < 2 hours before the appt!) I will try to go in approximate order
Heidi van horny
Taya
Sultry sofia
Brandy mirage
Courtney mason
Daisy hush
There was this black girl with glasses at hush who was cute, I am sorry I forgot your name

Grace reverie
Alexis mirage
Veronica page
Agness
Justice mirage
Candii sft
I might have missed a couple but those are the ones I can think of chronologically

all amazing sessions. Just a few repeats in that group though
Best BJ if anyone is wondering is actually Courtney mason, I am sad she moved to Ottawa lol

Damn now I want to go see an SP…

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