To Dine or not to Dine at the Y

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To the guys, how much does DATY matter? Do you expect it all around or after a certain price point? Is it a deal breaker to the experience?

To the ladies, how common is it for providers to not offer? And how often do guys ask? And of that how much do you think need it for the session?

I've been seeing some indys and am curious about others' experiences since services often aren't discussed beforehand. And wonder if it's different in Toronto vs elsewhere
 

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For GFE providers worth seeing worldwide, it should just be an automatic yes, it is offered without even a discussion. Of course, if she is sore and says no, or if directs you to move up or down, that must be respected.

But there will always be lower-end ladies who try to limit services and access to try to get the guy off as soon as possible and get him out of the room. Those aren’t the kind of ladies most of us want to see.
 

Ryan_Coke

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It's something I enjoy doing with a woman who is receptive to it and isn't going to quickly launch into the fake orgasm routine 30 seconds after I start. I have a couple regular ladies that I do this with every session and they tell me (and they have no reason to lie to me at this point) that they get off from it and they look forward to how I do it. One told me a few weeks ago at the start of a last minute booking that she just rubbed one out an hour before I got there so she didn't think it was worth my effort to eat. I just asked if it was okay if I did a little bit, just to help warm her up for the main event a bit and she said "go ahead, don't be mad that I don't bust". So I started, did it for a few minutes and started to kiss my way up her body. She said "Maybe just do that a little more", so back down I went and the usual timeframe later, she coated my face with some nice juice and she said "OK, I wasn't expecting that to happen".
 

wpgguy

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That’s my one must have, I totally understand ladies restricting activities they just don’t like so anyone not offering DATY I just pass on. I also won’t pay an upcharge for DATY. I get an upcharge for Greek, CIM and a couple of other things but DATY should, IMHO, be included in basic GFE service.
 

Robert Mugabe

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Just had a session a couple of weeks ago with a provider who was hyped as the "bomb" in a review. First time I ever had the experience of a provider picking her nose for the 4 or 5 minutes I was doing the act.

To Dine or not to Dine at the Y

Not to dine. Nuff said.
 
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Haggy64

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To the guys, how much does DATY matter? Do you expect it all around or after a certain price point? Is it a deal breaker to the experience?

To the ladies, how common is it for providers to not offer? And how often do guys ask? And of that how much do you think need it for the session?

I've been seeing some indys and am curious about others' experiences since services often aren't discussed beforehand. And wonder if it's different in Toronto vs elsewhere
For me it’s a must along with excellent hygiene,BBBJ , DFK and MPOS. For most SPs I see, I’ve researched extensively and only see providers reviewed as offering this as a minimum.
 

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One of my favorite things, honestly.
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Just had a session a couple of weeks ago with a provider who was hyped as the "bomb" in a review. First time I ever had the experience of a provider picking her nose for the 4 or 5 minutes I was doing the act.

To Dine or not to Dine at the Y

Not to dine. Nuff said.
You were that bad eh
 

BiggerTitsTheBetter

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I don't consider it a must.
But then I don't consider any acronym a must.

The only thing that is a must for me and will dictate whether I see that lady again or not, is mutual enjoyment. In a session I am happy to focus on the acronyms that are well received. That doesn't mean I don't have some "favorite" activities. And the best sessions are those when she happens to be into the same things. But if the encounter is mechanical and/or I don't see any kind of interest on her part, I will move on.
 

Ceiling Cat

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I might piss at a public toilet, but I surely would not rub my rectum on the seat.


Red runny rash, go-go-go-go, go away!


I walk along, and I wonder
What went wrong when I did cuna-linga
The odor was so strong
As I still walk on, I think of
The things I've done wrong
My desire was so strong

I'm a-walkin' in the rain
I can feel the pain
Wishin I had not done the things, I did.
I - want - to - end - this misery

I wonder, I wah-wah-wah-wah, cry
Why, why, why, why, why, why
And I wonder, where I can go-o
To have this rash, a-go-go-go-go, go away

I'm a-walkin' in the rain
Tears are fallin' and I feel the pain
Wishin' had not done what I have done
To end this misery

I wonder, I wah-wah-wah-wah-wonder
When this rash will go away
And I wonder if it might stay-a
Red runny rash, go-go-go-go, go away

Go-go-go-go, go away
Go-go-go-go, go away
Go-go-go-go, go away

 
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goalie000

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Definitely enjoy it when the lady is fresh down there. You can tell if she’s liking it to when things last more than a couple of minutes and the fake orgasm starts! Had a session with an MPA and she came twice!!
 

Ahri

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I love getting my pussy eaten and I’m not afraid to instruct you on how I enjoy it since every girl is different. I’ve had sessions where the entire session was DATY 🤤🤤 also not offended if you don’t DATY if you’re not into it.

If a provider doesn’t allow daty they should absolutely provide that info on their profile.

You’re the client who’s paying for a service at the end of the day and even if you don’t DATY that’s totally fine for me 😊but also there are clients who totally get off when they are able to make the girl cum.
 

Endurance2024

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I love getting my pussy eaten and I’m not afraid to instruct you on how I enjoy it since every girl is different. I’ve had sessions where the entire session was DATY 🤤🤤 also not offended if you don’t DATY if you’re not into it.

If a provider doesn’t allow daty they should absolutely provide that info on their profile.

You’re the client who’s paying for a service at the end of the day and even if you don’t DATY that’s totally fine for me 😊but also there are clients who totally get off when they are able to make the girl cum.
The entire session you say .. hmmmm .. I'm up for a challenge but little Endurance would not forgive me ;)
 
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SexB

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I used to love eating out one lady I used to see.

I was one of the first clients she saw after she got a boob job and I was more excited about going down on her than I was about seeing the new girls.
 

i am one

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One of my regular SPs takes a good 20+ minutes of DATY to cum. I didn’t know that the first couple of times because I thought I just wasn’t good at eating pussy. But she told me that’s normal for her even when she masturbates.

Anyways by the time i was done on the DATY i saw that we were almost halfway through the hour and I hadn’t received my fun yet. I got my shot but msog was off the table because of time. Honestly it kind of made me rethink to be more selfish. But now i’ve seen the girl enough times that she expects DATY from me.
 
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Endurance2024

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One of my regular SPs takes a good 20+ minutes of DATY to cum. I didn’t know that the first couple of times because I thought I just wasn’t good at eating pussy. But she told me that’s normal for her even when she masturbates.

Anyways by the time i was done on the DATY i saw that we were almost halfway through the hour and I hadn’t received my fun yet. I got my shot but msog was off the table because of time. Honestly it kind of made me rethink to be more selfish. But now i’ve seen the girl enough times that she expects DATY from me.
2hrs then lol
 
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