Recently turned 21 and I’m looking to lose my virginity to someone who is experienced and put together, I would probably only look for hh since I don’t have much money maybe like 120hh please leave any recommendations nothing too expensive money us tight. Also not really interested in any of the Asian parlors
SPs to lose my virginity to
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Save your money and find any girls you know who will fill your needs. Or ask any of your male friends/co-workers who might be able to help you down the right path and the cost will likely be less than seeing an SP which already sounds almost too expensive for you.
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I would say it's a bad idea to do this through the pro route as it probably changes your expectations and approach towards non-pro women. I do see the benefit of not having that label attached to yourself though and if you feel that going to the well once will help you with confidence then I wouldn't cheap out on who you are going to see for 120, especially if you aren't interested in an Asian. Save your pennies and spend a little more on quality.
Yeah, losing the virginity to a pro is going to ruin you lol. You're not going to want to put the effort in to getting it "for free" (which also has its costs). I agree that if you don't want an Asian experience, then it's going to be tough getting decent value for 120. Quality SP's generally are a little older and aren't going to see someone your age. Quality in your age range is more money than you want to spend. One lady I see a lot in London is in her mid 30's and has had a few early 20's guys recently try to see her and she just isn't into that age range. She refers them to Ashlynne, who is in her mid 20's, and is well reviewed. No idea if @ashlynne is interested in taking someone's cherry, but she's 250 for the half hour, just to give you an idea of what price range you are looking at for a quality 20-something. I shudder to think of the experience you would get for 120 for a 20's SP, probably send you to the priesthood lol.
I strongly recommend booking an hour or 90 minutes. I know you said money is tight but if I were you I would just wait until I’d have more saved. Also, not trying to play big brother here but being 21 I’d wait a little longer and not think about losing my virginity right away and just enjoy life for a while. I did the same thing as you, but I was 29 not 21. You can do whatever you want with respect. Just think about it bro. Good luck bro. I have recommendations but it’s in the 350/400 hour range. But it’s 100 percent worth it. Don’t book a half hour it’s a very big event in your life.
honestly i was just kinda naive about prices i can spend more i just thought 120 was the going rate for hh, please let me know your recommendations i can figure out the money part
i’m in windsor is there anyone like that in wjndaor, i understand the money part now and 120 isn’t realistic for a good service
You're probably going to get a lot of "don't do it, this isn't the right way" comments, and that's fair (there's some validity to it), but you've got your reasons. We all have different journeys. Personally, I lost my virginity the same way---and at about the same age---but to a streetwalker, rather than an SP. No matter who you end up with, you'll have a better experience than I had. 
(Editor's Note: Insert "and I turned out fine" comment here.)
I agree with booking longer than 30mins, though. You don't have to turn this into a whole thing if you don't want to, but it's still more than just running out for a burger. If you can wait and save up a bit more it'll be a better experience. (Especially true if you're not interested in Asian agencies. They're sometimes cheaper.)
You'll also want to look for the term "GFE" or "Girlfriend Experience." (I don't hobby in Southern Ontario very often so I don't have recommendations.) The difference is difficult to describe, but it's there; be with a girl who'll make you feel like she enjoyed the experience as much as you did.
One final piece of advice (unless this turns into a flamewar and I come back for more lol): I'd avoid telling her it's your first time. Some girls will be fine with it, some will be honoured to be your first, and some will be freaked out. You won't know how she's going to react in advance, so personally, I wouldn't burden her with the information. They get lots of inexperienced guys so you don't have to pretend like you know everything; feel free to tell her you don't have much experience and leave it at that.
If you get a bunch of SPs coming out of the woodwork with offers, you can disregard everything I said.
(Editor's Note: Insert "and I turned out fine" comment here.)I agree with booking longer than 30mins, though. You don't have to turn this into a whole thing if you don't want to, but it's still more than just running out for a burger. If you can wait and save up a bit more it'll be a better experience. (Especially true if you're not interested in Asian agencies. They're sometimes cheaper.)
You'll also want to look for the term "GFE" or "Girlfriend Experience." (I don't hobby in Southern Ontario very often so I don't have recommendations.) The difference is difficult to describe, but it's there; be with a girl who'll make you feel like she enjoyed the experience as much as you did.
One final piece of advice (unless this turns into a flamewar and I come back for more lol): I'd avoid telling her it's your first time. Some girls will be fine with it, some will be honoured to be your first, and some will be freaked out. You won't know how she's going to react in advance, so personally, I wouldn't burden her with the information. They get lots of inexperienced guys so you don't have to pretend like you know everything; feel free to tell her you don't have much experience and leave it at that.
If you get a bunch of SPs coming out of the woodwork with offers, you can disregard everything I said.
thank you so much i apprecia
te the adviceYou're probably going to get a lot of "don't do it, this isn't the right way" comments, and that's fair (there's some validity to it), but you've got your reasons. We all have different journeys. Personally, I lost my virginity the same way---and at about the same age---but to a streetwalker, rather than an SP. No matter who you end up with, you'll have a better experience than I had.
I agree with booking longer than 30mins, though. You don't have to turn this into a whole thing if you don't want to, but it's still more than just running out for a burger. If you can wait and save up a bit more it'll be a better experience. (Especially true if you're not interested in Asian agencies. They're sometimes cheaper.)
You'll also want to look for the term "GFE" or "Girlfriend Experience." (I don't hobby in Southern Ontario very often so I don't have recommendations.) The difference is difficult to describe, but it's there; be with a girl who'll make you feel like she enjoyed the experience as much as you did.
One final piece of advice (unless this turns into a flamewar and I come back for more lol): I'd avoid telling her it's your first time. Some girls will be fine with it, some will be honoured to be your first, and some will be freaked out. You won't know how she's going to react in advance, so personally, I wouldn't burden her with the information. They get lots of inexperienced guys so you don't have to pretend like you know everything; feel free to tell her you don't have much experience and leave it at that.
If you get a bunch of SPs coming out of the woodwork with offers, you can disregard everything I said.
Not really, to be honest I'd suggest you take the train up to Toronto for a day because it's pretty slim pickings in Windsor if you are not willing to deal with the Asians. There are many great escorts who do visit Windsor however I've been noticing over the past few years that their visits are becoming much less frequent and you may have to wait much longer before one is available in town. You can get an early train up to Union Station and be back around midnight at the latest which gives you plenty of time to see an escort who is worth the effort to see.
I'd budget around $650. $150 for the train there and back and $500 for an hour with the escort of your choosing and definitely go for the hour with an independent escort. Save the agency girls for the future if you decide to continue with this lifestyle. As for disclosing the fact that you are a virgin, I would personally do it but I don't think it would be wrong for you to simply say that you are inexperienced. Definitely do your research as well in the review section though before you start reaching out to make an appointment
Most are different for hh rates. The really good ones charge over 200 for only half hour so you might as well do an hour plus first time. Yes I agree with other comments here, some would be very honoured by it, but if you want to reveal that you are to the provider, it’s up to you. I did reveal to the person myself lol. I don’t have any good recommendations here at the moment except Breanne Banks. She’ll be here this month. She’s great. Pretty slim in Windsor right now tbh. I’ve been to Toronto a couple times and so many amazing people there. Definitely expensive tho lol. Good luck!
Good sex comes from your mind being in the right place…not just your junk.
Losing your virginity sound like a great idea but I would recommend you wait and find love the natural way first. If you go to an inexpensive pro, there is most likely a reason they are inexpensive. AND then you rush to it…. and get too excited your session might be 10 minutes. Then.. What have you accomplished? you lose confidence and feel worse. You have your life ahead of you. Enjoy the journey.
Losing your virginity sound like a great idea but I would recommend you wait and find love the natural way first. If you go to an inexpensive pro, there is most likely a reason they are inexpensive. AND then you rush to it…. and get too excited your session might be 10 minutes. Then.. What have you accomplished? you lose confidence and feel worse. You have your life ahead of you. Enjoy the journey.
Go to London and book with dreamgirls. Get an hour with who ever is your type. Pay the 300-400 for the hour, its worth it. Don't go to some random you know nothing about. It is easy to get a lousy experence if you are not very careful.
Careful, this is how the rabbit hole starts 
It’s your first time, but that’s how you end up getting addicted to an expensive hobby. Like other said if you decide to pay for it, you don't want shit service, maybe even go to Toronto
It’s your first time, but that’s how you end up getting addicted to an expensive hobby. Like other said if you decide to pay for it, you don't want shit service, maybe even go to Toronto