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Why do SP's need to know what we do?

Paying for sex in this field or line of work; it's where one must be anonymous; and if they wish to hide their identity good for them. They are just following A CODE.

Both genders lie, for many different reasons, and here we notice some guys don't want anything coming back to them. Also if men here go tell people (SW) they are a doctor and are really a machinist, that individual has some real mental issues. Or they are just Jekyll & Hyde adventurer.

I can see the man saying he design parts which is close to his line of work if he is a tool and die maker.
 
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These guys want to appear to be more impressive to women and sometimes men

Once I was sitting at the bar in a Halifax tourist area.when a guy there told the bartender he was former Canadian Special Forces and that he provided security for Stephen Harper. Less the 60 seconds later he asked the bartender if there was any dishwashing jobs available at the establishment.

After the guy was kicked out I mentioned to the bartender that this guy has taken quite the fall. Special forces and security for an active PM to enquiring about dishwasher openings. The guy wasn’t drunk but he did say he was from Scarborough so it checked out for me
 
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I white lie my name of course, where I came from (usually telling ladies a place an hour or two away) and for work I generally mention retail or come up with some other mid job when most of my background has been white collar.

Personally if I was a doctor or something else including a car mechanic I wouldn't disclose it and want someone bothering me asking questions and such. It's a key reason why I use a texting app or the odd time a burner phone.

And plenty of men lie at bars even around other men to big themself up. Including stories about meeting famous folks and such. Some people have that mentality of doing fake storytelling cause deep down they really don't have much going on for them. I guess it helps with their socializing since a fake entertaining story is more pleasing than something boring of course.
 
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JohnHenry said:
How long does the data live, and who has access to it? This would appear to be in the same category as Flock cameras.
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Data is at the MAC level. Lowest level of the IP stack.
We dont listen to anything above that, and it is hash anonymised before heading out as a proprietary packed message via the public cel network.

Once in the fish bowl data lives for about 12 minutes and it lives in a live memory pool, never anything non volatile.
As that is not fast enough to read back for the auto agent to trawl though at a way fast speed, looking for timely matches.
If it scans any data older than 12 minutes, its flag is set as open memory, and overwritten by the OS with new incoming data.
The fishbowl folks dont know the hash formula, whch changes based on a key (and I think also GPS date of year tag).
The fish bowl operator has a rather tight data security requirement with written in contract breach clauses that are the sharp and expensive end of a spear.

So it is just alphanumneric data points pouring in, not meaingful trace back ID's.
Un- decodable in the time before they are killed off if you were nuts enough to try to work it backwards.
And had the monster amount of costly fast memory to hold it all to find what you hope to find.

The same passing cel data gets sent out in the clear where cel towers hear it.
They hear it, and negotiate with adjacent towers, as to who has the stronger signal, and be its trustee until the next strength poll.
I think cel carriers do track this phone ID hand off between towers for QOS internal use to verify cel tower antennas are working properly among other factors.
And also beleive LE inquires as to where a court authorized search phone number was generaly seen, and when.
 
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Kurt said:
wasn't there an SP who asked for LinkedIn profile as a screening?
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Many do now.

redshank said:
After the guy was kicked out I mentioned to the bartender that this guy has taken quite the fall. Special forces and security for an active PM to enquiring about dishwasher openings. The guy wasn’t drunk but he did say he was from Scarborough so it checked out for me
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...wait I'm from Scarborough!
 
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As a UTSC alumni, I’m still young enough to pass as a student so I just tell them that if they ask what I do. Thankfully, my Asian genes prevent me from growing facial hair so that helps mask aging.

But I certainly wouldn’t boast about a prestigious job that I don’t have because there’s no pride in that. The medical field is tough, so claiming to have any med school credentials feels more like lying to myself when I saw firsthand how hard my classmates studied (they were always carrying me in group projects) for them to eventually get into grad school while I myself barely scraped by to finish my undergrad degree.

However when it comes to small talk in general, I would always try to shift to topics like pro-sports. At least then, I am honest about my passions
 
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SinnamonFairbanks said:
It's one thing to show up to an appointment and not tell someone what your job is and withhold information, but why do they come up with some fantastic version of themselves like I'm not going to figure it out.

I have one guy who over the years claims to work at the hospital and claims to be a paramedic... Just lots of people claiming to work in the medical field , and it becomes very obvious from talking to them for a few minutes that they're completely full of c***.

They are almost always asking for unsafe services.

I just had a guy claim that he's only been with his wife... but then said he gets tested every three months... If you're only with one person, there's no reason to be tested every 3 months.And then he tried to tell me it's a requirement of his job to get tested every three months 🙄.

I don't know why these people think I'm new.

I know that he was going to provide me some b******* papers to try and ask for the forbidden thing or whatever you guys call it, but I don't understand why they even bother, why don't they just go with the lady that does it all the time. There's a lady that does it all the time! Why don't they just bother that person?! 🤔

I hate liars and I don't understand why people choose to start off any type of business relationship with me by lying to my face and the expectation is that I pretend like I believe them.

I hate having to pretend to be stupid. I hate encouraging liars to lie. I hate letting them think that they've somehow pulled the wool over my eyes.

People who are only sexually active with one person don't need to be tested every three months... it's not the requirement of anyone's job to be tested every three months... He knew the lingo like a pro... people who have never done this before do not know the acronyms and they second guess themselves.

I don't know why people pretend to have never hired an escort before when it's very obvious that they do it all the time.

So I guess my question to everyone is... why lie?

I would much rather someone just withhold information and tell me straight up that they don't feel comfortable sharing that information, and I completely understand but it's a whole other layer to straight up, lie to my face and expect me to smile and nod when someone is clearly just lying about everything they're saying.

I would honestly much rather someone just not even talk.

Liars bother me so much. I would rather not even hear them speak 😅

They don't have to tell me everything.But when stuff doesn't add up and nothing , they say makes sense , I don't even know why they bother.

What is the point of small talk if everything they say is not true?

I mean i've had business relationships with people for years and not known anything about them.

If they choose to share something great , but i'm not gonna press them for information.

I don't know why people would make up fake careers and fake relationships and fake personas. It's a little weird. I don't even care that much.

I didn't even know what one person did until he left his badge at my house 😂

Let me tell you how my heart dropped into my asshole... but I still to this day know very little about this person and a lot of the people that I know.
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I had a regular that said he was a mortgage broker and a millionaire. He tried to date me and pursue a relationship outside of work.

He told me his first and last name. I googled him and he doesn’t even have a linked in 😂 When I questioned him about it he was in shock. Couldnt even reply or explain anything 😂

It’s hilarious to me truly. I laugh my ass off…. 😂😂👌🏻
 
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I had one say that he had a Ferrari, and a waterfront cottage and you could tell from looking at him that it wasn't true, but he had a skill set that I needed for a certain project so I spent a little bit more time with him than I should have because he was really weird and looked like a clown but without the makeup. I can't remember if he lied about his job, but he definitely lied about how successful his business was.

Anyway, we went to the movies or something and his "ferrari" was like an early 2000's shit box van. His waterfront cottage was a trailer at some mid park.

Some young russian bless her heart..
fell for his crap and came all the way from Toronto and was absolutely pissed and he played stupid the entire time like he didnt lie to her. he acted like he had no idea why she would be angry 🙄😂

Anyway, I got a couple dinners and paid sessions out of the guy and he rewired a bunch of stuff in my house.

Done and dusted. Every time I looked at him I half expected him to do some like a weird clown laugh or pull out a red nose.

I think he would have been more successful by just being honest. He had a valuable skill set and he was a hard worker. He made good money.

He could have just told the truth.

He was weird as f*ck and not very attractive , but I mean , who cares. There are plenty of women who would put out for a guy who works hard and makes good money.

The Russian was apparently was meeting him off the clock from a rub and tug... but could you imagine risking losing your job by meeting people outside of work... to go on some luxury vacation.... Just to find out it's a trailer in a crappy park and it's not even a good location 😂

I would have been furious , but I knew to limit my expectations. You could tell from looking at the guy that he didn't have any money.I just don't know what he was expecting to say when she arrived.

If I say , I live in a six bedroom house and I drive a luxury car... and people show up to a one bedroom apartment , and I ride a bicycle.... i think I would have a lot of explaining to do.




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I had a regular that said he was a mortgage broker and a millionaire. He tried to date me and pursue a relationship outside of work.

He told me his first and last name. I googled him and he doesn’t even have a linked in 😂 When I questioned him about it he was in shock. Couldnt even reply or explain anything 😂

It’s hilarious to me truly. I laugh my ass off…. 😂😂👌🏻
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SinnamonFairbanks said:
It's one thing to show up to an appointment and not tell someone what your job is and withhold information, but why do they come up with some fantastic version of themselves like I'm not going to figure it out.

I have one guy who over the years claims to work at the hospital and claims to be a paramedic... Just lots of people claiming to work in the medical field , and it becomes very obvious from talking to them for a few minutes that they're completely full of c***.

They are almost always asking for unsafe services.

I just had a guy claim that he's only been with his wife... but then said he gets tested every three months... If you're only with one person, there's no reason to be tested every 3 months.And then he tried to tell me it's a requirement of his job to get tested every three months 🙄.

I don't know why these people think I'm new.

I know that he was going to provide me some b******* papers to try and ask for the forbidden thing or whatever you guys call it, but I don't understand why they even bother, why don't they just go with the lady that does it all the time. There's a lady that does it all the time! Why don't they just bother that person?! 🤔

I hate liars and I don't understand why people choose to start off any type of business relationship with me by lying to my face and the expectation is that I pretend like I believe them.

I hate having to pretend to be stupid. I hate encouraging liars to lie. I hate letting them think that they've somehow pulled the wool over my eyes.

People who are only sexually active with one person don't need to be tested every three months... it's not the requirement of anyone's job to be tested every three months... He knew the lingo like a pro... people who have never done this before do not know the acronyms and they second guess themselves.

I don't know why people pretend to have never hired an escort before when it's very obvious that they do it all the time.

So I guess my question to everyone is... why lie?

I would much rather someone just withhold information and tell me straight up that they don't feel comfortable sharing that information, and I completely understand but it's a whole other layer to straight up, lie to my face and expect me to smile and nod when someone is clearly just lying about everything they're saying.

I would honestly much rather someone just not even talk.

Liars bother me so much. I would rather not even hear them speak 😅

They don't have to tell me everything.But when stuff doesn't add up and nothing , they say makes sense , I don't even know why they bother.

What is the point of small talk if everything they say is not true?

I mean i've had business relationships with people for years and not known anything about them.

If they choose to share something great , but i'm not gonna press them for information.

I don't know why people would make up fake careers and fake relationships and fake personas. It's a little weird. I don't even care that much.

I didn't even know what one person did until he left his badge at my house 😂

Let me tell you how my heart dropped into my asshole... but I still to this day know very little about this person and a lot of the people that I know.
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“Boys are cheats and liars, they’re such a big disgrace, they will tell you anything to get to second base-ball, baseball he thinks he’s gonna score!…”
 
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xix said:
Why do SP's need to know what we do?

Paying for sex in this field or line of work; it's where one must be anonymous; and if they wish to hide their identity good for them. They are just following A CODE.

Both genders lie, for many different reasons, and here we notice some guys don't want anything coming back to them. Also if men here go tell people (SW) they are a doctor and are really a machinist, that individual has some real mental issues. Or they are just Jekyll & Hyde adventurer.

I can see the man saying he design parts which is close to his line of work if he is a tool and die maker.
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You can give a field that’s super broad. Ie. finance. Entertainment. (Ie a clown) Automotive. construction.
 
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redshank said:
These guys want to appear to be more impressive to women and sometimes men

Once I was sitting at the bar in a Halifax tourist area.when a guy there told the bartender he was former Canadian Special Forces and that he provided security for Stephen Harper. Less the 60 seconds later he asked the bartender if there was any dishwashing jobs available at the establishment.

After the guy was kicked out I mentioned to the bartender that this guy has taken quite the fall. Special forces and security for an active PM to enquiring about dishwasher openings. The guy wasn’t drunk but he did say he was from Scarborough so it checked out for me
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Have you watched the movie I Tanya ? It’s based on a true story and it’s crazy. Her husbands friend lied on television about being a secret spy and that he was her bodyguard and orchestrated breaking a woman’s leg all based around this lie of being a spy
 
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