How much of their "socializing needs" do escorts fulfill through this job?

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A few cuddle providers have told me that one of the benefits of their job is that they get to meet new people and socialize

That got me thinking. Many escorts do not have actual real friends. Many do not have female friends either. They spend alot of their time with clients

They also see their clients in a light that opposes the typical stereotypes. Clients are just people from all walks of life.

Literally any normal person you can see walking on the sidewalk. Clients aren't some mysterious and shady sex obsessed character that you only meet in the dimly lit parking lots of shady motels / alleyways, as depicted in movies.

They're just normal people. Normal people who don't just barge into the room and start fucking without a word. Normal people who actually say hi, exchange pleasantries, communicate in body language etc. They also talk and cuddle after sex

So since escorts end up spending alot of time with clients, who are just normal people from all walks of life, and not the stereotype, I imagine that escorts are able to fulfill a lot of their socializing needs from clients

The only thing that would make me think the opposite is that clients are of the opposite gender, so there's a whole thing around that; gender war etc

So that's my question. How much of their "socializing needs" do escorts fulfill through this job?

I know when I visit a cuddle provider, all of my cuddling and socializing needs for the week or even month are fulfilled
 

Oblaster

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It's hard to tell because some will make fake back stories to tell their clients. But from the ones who are genuinely truthful about their lives, as in we follow each other on personal social media, I'd say 70% have friends. Maybe 30% don't?
 
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xmontrealer

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OMG @reviewer_person, sincere or not, I can't continue to read, or keep replying to your posts.

You are now on "ignore", as far as I am concerned.

Maybe others have more patience than I, but you're just too troll-like for me.

Have a nice life, and if you are not trolling us, I hope you find what you're looking for, both in the sex industry and with civvies.

Btw you have just joined my extremely small "ignore" list, apart from quite a few members in the Politics forum.
 

xix

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La la land

xix

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I know when I visit a cuddle provider, all of my cuddling and socializing needs for the week or even month are fulfilled
If they were fulfilled you wouldn't be here sealioning posting.
 

Shaquille Oatmeal

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OMG @reviewer_person, sincere or not, I can't continue to read, or keep replying to your posts.

You are now on "ignore", as far as I am concerned.

Maybe others have more patience than I, but you're just too troll-like for me.

Have a nice life, and if you are not trolling us, I hope you find what you're looking for, both in the sex industry and with civvies.

Btw you have just joined my extremely small "ignore" list, apart from quite a few members in the Politics forum.
I called it on another thread @xmontrealer .
He is spamming the board and engagement farming.
 

OntGuy2010

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OMG @reviewer_person, sincere or not, I can't continue to read, or keep replying to your posts.

You are now on "ignore", as far as I am concerned.

Maybe others have more patience than I, but you're just too troll-like for me.

Have a nice life, and if you are not trolling us, I hope you find what you're looking for, both in the sex industry and with civvies.

Btw you have just joined my extremely small "ignore" list, apart from quite a few members in the Politics forum.
While I would not have put it so "directly", actually have been thinking the EXACT same thing! :mad:
@reviewer_person you seem to have too much time on your hands for too much "thinking"! 😱
 

Reec

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I didn’t even realize that the spam threads posing as philosophical questions all came from the same user. I agree with the frustration. While I haven’t been on TERB for long, I still got to enjoy chatting with folks and The Lounge certainly isn’t as fun with all this clutter.
 
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I didn’t even realize that the spam threads posing as philosophical questions all came from the same user. I agree with the frustration. While I haven’t been on TERB for long, I still got to enjoy chatting with folks and The Lounge certainly isn’t as fun with all this clutter.
Okay sorry, I will stop the posts. I thought I was posting at an okay rate. I'm just a very curious person
 

sanjor

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Not really next to none to be perfectly honest. It's a job like any other and they probably socialize a lot more outside of it than in it.
 

Ryan_Coke

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OK, I'll play just because I have nothing better to do right at the moment. Most of the escorts I engage in conversation with sound like they lead more or less the same type of lives away from work as anyone else does. Some sound like they have more friends than others, which is the same as if you grabbed any other group of people and broke down the stats. I just don't think you can generalize in this.
 
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