I've hobbied off and on for longer than most of you have been alive.
There is nothing that comes close to an intimate relationship with a woman based on trust and common purpose/interests.
Hobbying should be a waystation not a destination. You are virtually guaranteeing yourself a life of loneliness and isolation if you choose hookers as your only interaction with women. It may not be now, but it will be in the future. You also inevitably start to see women as holes, tight pussies, and bodies, not as human beings.
Go look at stats of men who are alone in their later years versus men who have partners. It's not pretty for men who are alone.
There are no free lunches in whatever you choose in life, and for however long. Yes paid sex, much like dating apps, promise frictionless access to pussy. Great, what then? What happens after you scratch that itch for a year or two? You become transactional, critical, and stop being open to reciprocal relationship, which is where the soul lives. Just like hookers being changed by the transaction of paid sex, men are also changed–and neither for the better.
I've put up Wilt Chamberlain numbers in my life. But nothing beats good sex with a woman you love. The narcotic of that is impossible to calculate. I'm glad I put up numbers, but I'm also glad I grew up and have always had serious relationships.
Being disciplined about using hookers is the best thing you can do for yourself. There's nothing like hitting a stunner to revitalize your senses and feel more alive. But going from one paid encounter to another because you're terrified of risking intimacy become pathetic the more time goes on. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio: everyone thought he was a champ for hitting younger and younger women. Now he looks like a sad, older, mostly unattractive guy that can't meet a serious woman on her level. Pathetic, really.
There is nothing that comes close to an intimate relationship with a woman based on trust and common purpose/interests.
Hobbying should be a waystation not a destination. You are virtually guaranteeing yourself a life of loneliness and isolation if you choose hookers as your only interaction with women. It may not be now, but it will be in the future. You also inevitably start to see women as holes, tight pussies, and bodies, not as human beings.
Go look at stats of men who are alone in their later years versus men who have partners. It's not pretty for men who are alone.
There are no free lunches in whatever you choose in life, and for however long. Yes paid sex, much like dating apps, promise frictionless access to pussy. Great, what then? What happens after you scratch that itch for a year or two? You become transactional, critical, and stop being open to reciprocal relationship, which is where the soul lives. Just like hookers being changed by the transaction of paid sex, men are also changed–and neither for the better.
I've put up Wilt Chamberlain numbers in my life. But nothing beats good sex with a woman you love. The narcotic of that is impossible to calculate. I'm glad I put up numbers, but I'm also glad I grew up and have always had serious relationships.
Being disciplined about using hookers is the best thing you can do for yourself. There's nothing like hitting a stunner to revitalize your senses and feel more alive. But going from one paid encounter to another because you're terrified of risking intimacy become pathetic the more time goes on. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio: everyone thought he was a champ for hitting younger and younger women. Now he looks like a sad, older, mostly unattractive guy that can't meet a serious woman on her level. Pathetic, really.
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