Anyone sick of dating apps and just stick with Escorts?

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aznzenzation87 said:
Anyone find dating apps exhausting like you have to match then plan and spend money on dates and many times you don't even get laid.
I find with escorts atleast I know what I am getting up front and the time and energy savings is just so worth it. Both cost money, but one drains time and energy as well.
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I don't think its bad to see escorts while you continue to search for something real but don't let this be your end all be all bruh. Dating ain't easy for anyone but when you find the right one (even if its not permanent) its usually worth it for that time, it won't feel as transactional (at least i hope it dont 😂) and you'll feel more fulfilled.

And I know sometimes you might think "what if I date her" or "if only she was mine", keep in mind they may care about you genuinely and as cool as you can be with her: odds are that escort not tryna date you. Not saying that its impossible but don't give up on conventional dating yet fam. The best things usually take longer to get 🙏🏿
 
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Unless you’re are tall, photograph well and in top 10% of looks, you won’t get matches with women you want. Notice I didn’t say anything about your ethnicity, income or profession. None of those matter for getting matches and dates.
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Apps are brutal for men and most are better off not being on them, if only to keep sane (let not even get into the apps incentives). The very nature of them don't let men feature all of their traits that would help in attracting women. Remember, porn for men can be a simple photo, porn for women is a 500 page book.
 
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If you're going into dating apps not for the purpose of finding a long term relationship it has proven to me more costly...wining and dining is more expensive.... escorts need less effort...you're guaranteed to fuck even if it might not be the best fuck...civvies aren't guarantee of a good fuck either...also feel civvies expect you to be their dream date....escorts don't. yeah...i will stick with the ladies of the night...just be clean and get yourself tested regularly.
 
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darkskynboe said:
I don't think its bad to see escorts while you continue to search for something real but don't let this be your end all be all bruh. Dating ain't easy for anyone but when you find the right one (even if its not permanent) its usually worth it for that time, it won't feel as transactional (at least i hope it dont 😂) and you'll feel more fulfilled.

And I know sometimes you might think "what if I date her" or "if only she was mine", keep in mind they may care about you genuinely and as cool as you can be with her: odds are that escort not tryna date you. Not saying that its impossible but don't give up on conventional dating yet fam. The best things usually take longer to get 🙏🏿
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I'm not blind to the fact is 💯 transactional but atleast I know what I'm getting. My math for dating civies is if I'm going on multiple dates multiple times, it starts to add up. Many dates don't end with an encore and I rarely have them go that well I'm getting laid on the first date. Maybe I'm just jaded 😂
 
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Yup. I’ve tried the dating scene not my thing. You wine and dine someone for maybe a peck on the cheek.

Meanwhile I’ve had escorts give me their personal number after a handful of sessions and have gone out to dinner plus one nighters with reduced or no fee. Hell some escorts have given me birthday presents lol
 
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richaceg said:
If you're going into dating apps not for the purpose of finding a long term relationship it has proven to me more costly...wining and dining is more expensive.... escorts need less effort...you're guaranteed to fuck even if it might not be the best fuck...civvies aren't guarantee of a good fuck either...also feel civvies expect you to be their dream date....escorts don't. yeah...i will stick with the ladies of the night...just be clean and get yourself tested regularly.
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Im open to long term relationship but there are so many duds out there. I've sat through too many dinners pretending I'm interested in work drama. First dates don't really excite me, I'm at the point in which I dread them.
 
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Jeeboy678 said:
Yup. I’ve tried the dating scene not my thing. You wine and dine someone for maybe a peck on the cheek.

Meanwhile I’ve had escorts give me their personal number after a handful of sessions and have gone out to dinner plus one nighters with reduced or no fee. Hell some escorts have given me birthday presents lol
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It's definitely more freeing, don't need to worry about planning dates or texting between dates and remembering everything they said previously. I just need to show up and pay with an escort.
 
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aznzenzation87 said:
Im open to long term relationship but there are so many duds out there. I've sat through too many dinners pretending I'm interested in work drama. First dates don't really excite me, I'm at the point in which I dread them.
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you can do both....find a relationship and fuck escorts on the side....when you're single....the sky is the limit. and you better have a deep pocket.
 
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Dating apps are generally used for either hookups or a relationship which is not comparable to booking an escort for 45mins
 
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aznzenzation87 said:
Anyone find dating apps exhausting like you have to match then plan and spend money on dates and many times you don't even get laid.
I find with escorts atleast I know what I am getting up front and the time and energy savings is just so worth it. Both cost money, but one drains time and energy as well.
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At some point in my life, having sex with more women really didn't enhance my life in any meaningful way. It's definitely a lot easier than dating app and I still enjoy it, but dating and sex are two different things.
 
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Let me add to while I suggest you quit dating apps as it's a waste of time and a humiliation ritual for all but the most attractive men, I know full well that meeting women is near impossible now a days outside the apps. If all you want is to hookup then seeing an escort is more time and cost efficient than trying to do it via apps/IRL/the old fashion way.

Now If you want a romantic relationship and ultimately a wife and kids. Well that's another question, and don't want to type up walls of text right now.
 
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