This is Part 1 of Ahri's answers in this thread (due to character limit). Bonus: i posted a links to all posts with pictures from Ahri.
Posts where Ahri shared her selfies/photos:
1. Her new magic wand: (link)
2. Her typical Costco hoeul: (link)
3. Ahri’s pokemon collection and her little sexy feet: (link)
4. Ahri’s manga collection and her OOTD for work and casual: (link)
5. After long winter, Angel warms her wings outside with her puppy: (link)
6. Super Sexy Asian Angel Ahri in the gym: (link)
7. Two Ahri’s best pokemon cards and outfits for home/baseball game: (link)
8. gamer Ahri’s tities and her and her latina girlfriend outfitties: (link)
1. If someone wanted to give you the most intense oral orgasm, what would you recommend they do (details appreciated).
(link) I would want someone to take it real slow at first. Make out with me and slowly go down kissing my whole body. Suck on my nipples lightly switching between back and forth. Go down on me and eat my pussy for a little bit until I beg you to start eating my clit. Put two fingers inside me and hit my g spot while eating my clit and you’ll give me a full body shaking orgasm. I promise it’s not hard to make me cum hard haha
2. Does being a sex worker affect how you feel about sex in your personal life?
(link) It does quite a bit!! I have a lot of sex at work so it makes me not want to have sex with men outside of work (sorry guys ) I find that lately I have been playing with girls a lot more outside of work. Hell me and Anaisha played outside of work tons of times. While I do get horny and want dick all I need to do is wait a day or two for my next shift and I’ll get my fix lol but in reality work takes a lot out of my sex drive so unless I’m insanely horny I don’t tend to really cum when I’m at home alone
3. No offence but why did you become a SP in the first place when you can just get on a dating app and essentially get any guy you like including millionaires? Both your physical and financial needs can be easily met on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble.
If I could get women easily on Tinder and have my bills paid too I wouldn't even work LOL
(link) I became an SP for two reasons the first one is I just have had a naturally high sex drive. I was going to Oasis pretty frequently while I was in university since I had some friends who were already working girls. We loved to go to oasis on sapphic nights to avoid the usual “creepy” crowd and I slowly just got more and more involved in sex work because of my friends (I used to help my friends film their content) I guess they rubbed off on me. The second reason I became an SP is to be financially independent because of this job I was able to get into real estate and not just a shoebox condo but an actual home that I can see my self living and growing old in. I wouldn’t say finding some guy on a dating app will satisfy all my physical and financial needs because that would be their money and not mine.
The original plan was to keep being a SP until I graduated university but you guys kept on seeing me and I progressively got promoted to a higher and higher tier so I think I won’t be quitting for a while Since I have more experience now with how this job works I have been genuinely enjoying my time being a SP and I hope nothing changes regarding that in the near future.
However, with that being said I do have a backup plan if I do choose to leave this industry and that back up plan is to finally use my degree that I earned that I haven’t made of use yet.
4. After years of reading people so quickly, what they want, what they're really after, can you still tell the difference between someone being genuine with you versus just giving you the right signals? And has that made you sharper at spotting the real ones, or more suspicious of everyone? Something I was always curious about: how much do SP's actually talk to each other in details about clients? Agencies will of course be involved in protecting against abusive clients and so on, but do the providers have their own "lists" of worst clients / best clients / etc.?
(link) We do talk to each other regarding our clients though what I realized is our client base is completely different from SP to SP.
There is a blacklist amoung agencies and TERB even has a SP only section where SPs can warn other SPs about potentially bad clients. The one thing I do like about working in an agency though is the agency can pre-screen clients for me and that itself adds another layer of protection which I like
I feel like I can definitely read people a lot better because of this job for example when I have nights out with girlfriends I can usually tell which guys are genuine and which guys just are trying to hook up by the way they talk , act and etc. I wouldn’t say it made me more suspicious of everyone but it definitely made me a lot sharper.
5. But I'm curious about the flip side, the weight of always being "on" and tuning into other people's needs. What does it take to protect your energy and your sense of self? And what can clients do to make that lighter rather than heavier?
(link) Honestly I would have to give credit to my support systems and @SexyFriendsTO I have wonderful friends who are in the industry with whom I can decompress/vent with if I ever had a hard day at work . I also have a good and supportive agency - I have been with SFT since I started and have had lots of other agencies try to recruit me to their roster. Also it took me a while to find the perfect balance when it comes to work. I find that the best thing for me to avoid burn out at work is to work short 4-5 hour shifts about 4-5 days a week and what can clients do to make make things easier? Simple come in respectful, clean and ready to have fun I’m here to provide a service and all I am asking is for you to come in with good positive energy and don’t push boundaries! I really don’t think you guys should focus on making things “lighter” for me as you guys are the ones using your hard earned money to spend time with me so sit back relax and let me take care of yall
6. In your civi life. Have you ever hooked up with a man that you didn’t find attractive & wasn’t your type, but had a vibe & humour that made you do it eventually ?
(link) Yes I have and honestly I know a lot of girls that are even in relationships with guys who aren’t even their type to begin with but because their vibe and humour was enough to erase “preferences”.
In terms of hooking up the last hookups I have done were guys totally not my type honestly being at the right place and right time plays a huge factor at least for me in terms of hookups I think it’s because I see so many guys at work I care more about the vibes/personality rather than the looks.
One thing I’ve learned from work is you really can’t judge someone’s performance by their looks. Sometimes the average-looking guys with average sized dick end up giving me the best time… if you know what I mean
7. So has it ever happened that someone you knew, from the civi world, well enough that there’s no way you don’t recognize each other, ended up making an appointment
(link) This has never happened to me thankfully but the chances of this happening is also very unlikely as I have a small circle when it comes to my group of friends and only my immediate family lives within the GTA so I’m not too worried about this
I do want to add though!! I have ran into a client at a music festival no awkwardness - we chatted for a bit and parted ways.
8. Have you watched Jojo?
(link) I watched a bit of it but haven’t finished - my top three animes are:
One Piece
Hunter X Hunter
Apothecary Diaries
9. Which pornstar you resemble.
(link) I get a lot of Lulu Chu and Vina Sky (FYI I think vina sky is so hot )
10.Can you speak Chinese ?
(link) Yes but it’s very broken
11. Do you do bbbjcimsw?
(link) I do BBJCIM no swallow cause sometimes the guys “juices” taste bad
12 . Who’s your favourite Pokémon?
(link) I’ll give you my top 3 I’m a huge nerd from video games - to anime:
- Ninetails
- Gengar
- Moltres
13. How do you stay fresh between clients? What are your hygiene practices in between sessions?
(link) I appreciate you asking this. Usually after a client we have 20-30 minutes to get ready for the next client. My routine would be shower, Vagisil, brush teeth and mouthwash. After that I would need to prepare the bed and bathroom which includes changing sheets, getting fresh towels and some cleaning
I do have some concerns though that I need to bring up to my dentist because I brush my teeth so much. I feel like I may be over-brushing my teeth
13. The author of the memoir "The Modern Whore" writes that one of her favorite regulars was a man in his early 70s (she was in mid 20s). Did you have such experience? how do you generally feel about older men?
(link) Yes I find that older gentleman leave their ego out the door. They come in and know exactly what they want. I have mentioned this before and you guys can even check my post history, I don’t think I really had a bad experience with an older gentleman. Some of them don’t want FS and spend the whole time pleasuring me LITERALLY nothing bad I can say about that. I actually would say the best clients are the ones who can easily communicate what they are looking for in a session - Remember I’m here to please it’s my job!! so make it easy we for both of us tell me what you want dammit! and don’t make me guess.
14. Has your opinion of men changed? Are you more understanding of why some men go this route and that not all men who see escorts are bad? some are good genuine guys? and shouldn't be stereotyped as trash for seeing one ?
(link) My opinion hasn’t really changed since before I started working this job as a SP. If anything, it’s made things even clearer to me how much harder guys have it compared to us women.
I already knew dating apps were stacked against the average guy, but seeing my male friends my age struggle really reinforces that —especially when you consider how many women in these dating apps have unrealistic expectations for example the 666 dating rule that always get mentioned in social media.
15. Other than the obvious reasons of enjoying sex and money, can you tell us more about what you love about this job?
(link) One of the things I love most about this job is the flexibility. I can choose how many days and hours I want to work, and I can schedule everything around my personal plans. If I know I have dinner plans during the week, I’ll plan ahead and work at a location that’s close by - I also like how there’s multiple locations available so I can coordinate with my regulars who wants to see me at their favourite/most convenient SFT location.
16. You mentioned in a previous response about having to vent to other SPs about difficult days (so glad to hear that you have a solid support system!), can you tell us more about what makes for a challenging day at work for you?
(link)To be honest there’s not much challenges I face at work. I do have to deal with stubborn / annoying clients here and there but that’s not really a challenge and it’s just a part of the job. The one thing that truly gets me angry regarding work is how bad the traffic is in Toronto LOL sometimes it takes me 30-40 mins just to leave downtown after an afternoon shift.
17. If there’s one thing you could change about your job or this industry, what would that be?
(link) Easy just make it legal - no grey areas like what we have right now
18. Let's say a guy asks you in a session for something you are not comfortable with, and you decline. Does this color the rest of the session negatively? Assuming he is respectful of that boundary, doesn't press his luck, etc.
(link) Definitely not! I always encourage people to communicate what they’re looking for before a session
The worst I can say is no — and as long as a client isn’t pushing boundaries or repeatedly asking after being told no, I have zero issues with requests. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: the key to a great session is communication.
19. What’s your favourite date night spot in GTA?
(link)My fav spot in the GTA is Koh Lipe it’s a Michelin star Thai restaurant and honestly their Pad Thai is the best I ever had and for a Michelin star restaurant it doesn’t break the bank at all
20. Favourite brand of clothing where you shop usually? (not one you wish to, but the one you always end up going)
(link)Honestly, Lululemon is my go-to brand. I wear their clothes everywhere, whether I’m at the gym, at work, or relaxing at home.
21. Favourite perfume?
(link) Fav perfume is Flower Bomb by Viktor&Rolf
22. Have u ever been booked by a woman?
(link) I’ve been booked by women twice, but sadly both canceled last minute which sucks because I’d totally be down. I have seen couples before though, and it’s always a great time I wish more couples would see me though lol
23. Do you ever get the feeling other tenants in the building know what's going on, or the concierge guys?
(link) Oh yeah, definitely. Our Vaughan location wasn’t the most discreet and I felt like some of the neighbours knew something fishy was going on. Most downtown locations however, are pretty discreet, and in my experience the concierge has never given me a hard time.
24. You mentioned how difficult dating is for men in today's world. You see their struggles and vulnerabilities in a way most people don't. What are some things you've learned about men that you wish they understood more themselves? Maybe it's things they can't see clearly, or maybe they refuse to?
(link) Honestly, one big thing I’ve learned is that a lot of men are way more sensitive and emotionally deep than they may lead on but they’ve been taught to hide it. They don’t always realize that their vulnerability can actually be attractive, not a weakness.
I also think a lot of the guys I see are pretty timid and shy—hell, some of the guys who book me can’t even look me in the eyes though that might just be my client base. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again confidence is incredibly attractive. A lot of men stop trying after being rejected too many times, and you can feel it right away. My biggest advice? Work on your social skills, communicate clearly, and learn how to read body language.
25. If you have a boyfriend, would your boyfriend get jealous of the work you do?
(link) No I don’t have a boyfriend I actually never had a relationship while working this job I been in a few “situationships” that never amounted to anything.
26. A lot of ladies in this biz say they get like 70-80% regulars?
(link)Yup you’re pretty spot on! I would say my regulars are about 60-70%
27. Ahri, are there any guys in this thread that you would be curious to meet and have you messaged them ever, if not, will you?
(link) Actually a few guys on the thread are my regulars LOL I recognize their TERB handles so yeah
28. Hi Ahri, do you have a sex toy collection? What is your favorite toy?
(link) I like this question! I’m mostly a wand girl myself my favourite wand is the Doxy and in my opinion way better than the OG magic wand
Fun little story my first one broke and I was really horny so I ended up going to the sex store at 10pm to buy a replacement one the days I’m not working I tend to cum on my own a lot so I definitely need a heavy duty wand like this lol
29. Have you participated in an orgy?? If so, please tell us about it!!!
(link) It was an MFMFFF orgy that happened at Oasis this summer, and honestly—it was so much fun. We went on sapphic night, and it was actually the first group experience I’ve had where everyone involved was bisexual, which made it even better. We started with drinks by the pool, then rented a private room. It was also my first time having a strap used on me Definitely an experience I won’t forget.
30. Are you apart of the Mile High Club? If so, what was that experience like? Where were you flying lol?
(link) Unfortunately, I’m not part of the mile-high club. Airplane bathrooms are just way too tiny to actually enjoy anything, and they’re kinda gross However, I did have sex a couple of times in my university’s accessible bathroom back when I was in school… lol. I would then go to class after getting fucked in the bathroom like a good girl It was always so nerve-wracking walking out of the accessible bathroom and hoping no one noticed
31. Do you have a bucket list related to sexual experiences??
(link) There are a few things on my list. Even though it doesn’t happen often I’d love to do more duo sessions with my friends from SFT—Scarlett, Anaisha, and Angelina. I’ve also been meaning to check out Birdhaus since I’ve heard really good things about it. And I really want to check out Hedo or another lifestyle resort someday but only if I can convince another girl to come with me lol.
I would also want to have another all female 3sum!
That’s all I can think of for now, but I’ll update this if more comes to mind later
32. Another question, but since you’ve mentioned maybe getting your boobs done have you had any other work done, or anything else you’d want to do?
(link) The only other “work” I’ve had done is a complete laser hair removal, which honestly has been the best investment I’ve made while working this job. It saves me sooo much time, and I love always feeling smooth and having a hairless pussy.
33. How many guys did you have sex with before you made it your trade?
(link) Believe it or not only 4
34. Are there any SPs you would do a duo with that’s not from your agency?
(link) I don’t have the chance to interact with much girls outside of SFT but I would love to do a duo with @kittykellykat and make someones dream ABG threesome CUM through (if you guys can handle it)
35. Do you have a favourite type of cuisine?
(link) I love all cuisines but my taste buds just have a preference of Asian food. My top Asian cuisines are Chinese and Japanese while my top non-Asian cuisines are Italian and Mexican.
36. How long do you see yourself working as a SW’r?
(link)I definitely see myself doing this job for quite a while at least the next 5 years for sure. I genuinely love what I do, and I think I’m pretty damn good at it. If I wasn’t an SP, I’d probably be working in a field related to what I studied in university. I’ve flirted with the idea of taking a break and getting a “real” job, but honestly… it just didn’t make sense. Right now, I still feel like I’m right at the peak of my SP career and I’m enjoying every bit of it. I have loyal clients who I genuinely love spending time with and even message during my time off at work
37. How much would it be for tat that covers the entirety of one of my pecs? Just asking for your insight since you’re pretty tatted from my understanding.
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(link) I would say yes but not in a while my last serious relationship was a couple years back
39. What kind of safety precautions do you usually take to avoid STDs/STIs?
(link) I have a REALLY good relationship with my Gynecologist I am fully transparent about my job and she does not judge at all. I get frequent testing done about every 3 months which sucks cause I absolutely hate getting my blood drawn but I gotta do what I gotta do to be safe.
I am also on PrEP for HIV protection and need to get injected twice a year for it and of course I’m on Birth Control I may switch it to IUD though in the future but that’s something I need to discuss with my doctor and of course safe sex with condoms always.
40. How do you prevent dry skin & skin ph getting wrecked ? It’s winter & you shower frequently. Frequent hot showers feel so good, but they ruin the skin. How do keep the olfactory intact ?
(link) Honestly, I probably go through a bottle of lotion a week. My Costco hauls are hilarious sometimes I just go for packs of condoms and Aveeno lotion. I’m pretty sure the Costco employees checking me out get a laugh when they see my haul . I just try to do my best to moisturize a couple of times during the workday to keep my skin in good shape maybe I should start getting my clients to rub lotion all over before each session to help keep me moisturized.
41. Are you saving money?
(link) Yes I do. I have a maxed out TFSA and have a pretty decent emergency fund that would last me 6 months of my living expenses. Financial literacy is something that I learned on my own through YouTube videos and reading money management books. I like to lurk a lot and read on the financial threads too here on TERB
42. So, you have never been in LTR but have been in a serious relationship. What is the difference?
(link)Well my most serious relationship was around 8-10 months I only consider LTR to be over a year at least
43. What is your favorite porn scene that gets you off all the time?
(link) I don’t really have a favourite porn scene but I do have favourite genres of porn I love either watching MFF threesomes or Gangbang videos but also sometimes I like to switch it up a bit and cum hentai I’m weird like that I guess. I also like scrolling on Reddit when I’m horny, I have a throwaway account that follows all the porn subreddits
44. You can only choose one option from the list to watch for the rest of you life, which one would you choose?: 1: Gays porno 2: Lesbians porno 3: Straights porno.
(link) As much as I would consider my self bi I would have to choose only watching straight porn for the rest of my life. If I wanted to watch more girls I would just watch a MFFFFFFFF type of porn video
45.Do you watch porn while masturbating?
(link) Yes of course I don’t think I can cum with just my imagination I need to be either watching porn or scrolling through Reddit porn
bonus heres a sneak peak of the subreddits i follow for porn [go to the link guys]
46.Is there any area in sex where, you think, you need to improve?
(link) Yes!!! I want to give better handjobs. A client once told me the best handjob a guy ever gets is the one he gives himself… and I’m okay with coming second place when it comes to that wink
47.What is one thing you would change in a woman body?
(link) No periods… they suck makes me feel like shit and makes me skip work once a week every month
48.What is your all time favorite song?
(link) Sorry can’t narrow it down to a favourite song
49.What is your favorite song that was released this year?
(link) Anything from Sabrina Carpenters last album Man’s Best Friend
50. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
(link) I definitely see myself doing this job for the next five years, if you guys will still have me. I also want to start my own business by then and be able to do this on the side. One of my goals before I turn 30 is to own my own business.
51.What would you choose between these two options: "Option 1: You become 5 ft tall but get natural C cups" OR "Option 2: You become 5.7 ft tall but your ass gets small and cannot really grow unless you use BBL(sorry, otherwise you would just say you will grow it back in the gym)"?
(link)This is the easiest question ever I’m already 5ft2 so losing two more inches and get more boobies??? I’m all in for it
52.Was there any time in your SP career where you wanted to quit? If so, what happened to make you want to quit? (if not too personal, of course)
(link)Nothing has ever happened to the point where I seriously considered quitting, but there are definitely some downsides that come with the job—for example:
(link)Solid 9! It’s been a really good year for me. I was able to accomplish some big milestones, including owning my first property
54.What's something non-sexual that turns you on?
(link) Good hygiene is everything! Showing up clean, fresh, and wearing a subtle cologne is hot, bonus points if you’ve got some sense of fashion too
55. Does this job exhaust your libido? If so, what do you do to recharge?
(link) This job doesn’t really kill my libido at all honestly, I think I’m just blessed with a naturally high sex drive. I need to get off at least once a day, minimum… otherwise I’m an absolute horny mess. This job can wear me out physically sometimes, which is why I switched from four 7-hour days to five shorter 5–6-hour ones there’s only so much dick sucking and riding I can do before I get tired but getting tired from having too many orgasms is rare for me
56.Any tips on making a threesome fun for everyone involved
(link)IMO the key to a good threesome is making sure both girls are actually into each other You can’t just pick two SPs and assume they’ll work well together I think chemistry makes all the difference.
It definitely helps if both SPs have experience with group play and it’s even better when they both have experienced playing with a women alone lol I like to put on a lesbian show and let the client watch us play with each other for a bit.
57.What would you like your next tattoo to be?
(link) I actually think I’m done with getting tattoos I got everything I wanted to get done but I may need to go in for some touch ups maybe sometime in the next year
58. What are 2-3 things you'd like to cross off your bucket list in the next couple of years?
(link) I would like to visit Europe for the first time. Start my own business. I want to go to my first Blue Jays game.
59. What are some non-negotiable traits you look for in a partner?
(link) Honesty and loyalty are a must for me, but I also need someone who’s genuinely comfortable with my job. I’ve noticed some guys think they can handle it at first, but things change over time. I like making my own money, and I want a partner who respects that.
60. With a sudden surge of money, and therefore large purchases; as you have mentioned, a property, did your immediate family and friends start to question how you are able to afford it? If so how did you talk your way around it?
(link) My family didn’t really question much. Even though they had to co-sign the mortgage, they were just happy that I was able to save up and afford a place. They do think I work a full-time job though.
My friends, on the other hand have started to question it a bit so I usually just say my parents help me out since that’s the safest answer. I tell my friends that my family using my place as an investment property and are paying for half my bills. I’ve also always lived well below my means, so it’s not like I suddenly started spending a ton of money overnight.
61. Have you ever or suspected you have had any clergy ( priest, rabbi ) or cops as clients?
(link) Ughhh, I actually did have a client once who said his job was something related to ‘“religion” but I didn’t ask for any details. If I remember correctly though… he did eat my ass and pussy good lol I’ve definitely seen a criminal lawyer before, but I usually don’t ask much about people’s jobs unless they seem open to talking about it. Most of the time I just keep it simple and ask, “What kind of work do you do?” But also I have had clients blatantly lie to me about their jobs to try to impress m
62. What do you do in your spare time? With a name like Ahri, do you game a lot per say?
(link) I’m a pretty simple girl I would say I’m a bit of a nerd I like watching Anime, playing video games and I recently got into collecting cards last year and it’s been really fun. I also try to go to oasis once a month with my SP friends to catch up and talk about what’s going on with our jobs. I like to bake and cook I have been going crazy with buying kitchen appliances lately lol maybe I’ll post the stuff that I make on here if you guys are interested in seeing that type of stuff lol. I do go to the gym a lot I’m trying to bulk up a little bit and gain 5-10lbs this winter and start cutting during spring time my goal is to get more visible abs this summer and a thicker ass
Posts where Ahri shared her selfies/photos:
1. Her new magic wand: (link)
2. Her typical Costco hoeul: (link)
3. Ahri’s pokemon collection and her little sexy feet: (link)
4. Ahri’s manga collection and her OOTD for work and casual: (link)
5. After long winter, Angel warms her wings outside with her puppy: (link)
6. Super Sexy Asian Angel Ahri in the gym: (link)
7. Two Ahri’s best pokemon cards and outfits for home/baseball game: (link)
8. gamer Ahri’s tities and her and her latina girlfriend outfitties: (link)
1. If someone wanted to give you the most intense oral orgasm, what would you recommend they do (details appreciated).
(link) I would want someone to take it real slow at first. Make out with me and slowly go down kissing my whole body. Suck on my nipples lightly switching between back and forth. Go down on me and eat my pussy for a little bit until I beg you to start eating my clit. Put two fingers inside me and hit my g spot while eating my clit and you’ll give me a full body shaking orgasm. I promise it’s not hard to make me cum hard haha
2. Does being a sex worker affect how you feel about sex in your personal life?
(link) It does quite a bit!! I have a lot of sex at work so it makes me not want to have sex with men outside of work (sorry guys ) I find that lately I have been playing with girls a lot more outside of work. Hell me and Anaisha played outside of work tons of times. While I do get horny and want dick all I need to do is wait a day or two for my next shift and I’ll get my fix lol but in reality work takes a lot out of my sex drive so unless I’m insanely horny I don’t tend to really cum when I’m at home alone
3. No offence but why did you become a SP in the first place when you can just get on a dating app and essentially get any guy you like including millionaires? Both your physical and financial needs can be easily met on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble.
If I could get women easily on Tinder and have my bills paid too I wouldn't even work LOL
(link) I became an SP for two reasons the first one is I just have had a naturally high sex drive. I was going to Oasis pretty frequently while I was in university since I had some friends who were already working girls. We loved to go to oasis on sapphic nights to avoid the usual “creepy” crowd and I slowly just got more and more involved in sex work because of my friends (I used to help my friends film their content) I guess they rubbed off on me. The second reason I became an SP is to be financially independent because of this job I was able to get into real estate and not just a shoebox condo but an actual home that I can see my self living and growing old in. I wouldn’t say finding some guy on a dating app will satisfy all my physical and financial needs because that would be their money and not mine.
The original plan was to keep being a SP until I graduated university but you guys kept on seeing me and I progressively got promoted to a higher and higher tier so I think I won’t be quitting for a while Since I have more experience now with how this job works I have been genuinely enjoying my time being a SP and I hope nothing changes regarding that in the near future.
However, with that being said I do have a backup plan if I do choose to leave this industry and that back up plan is to finally use my degree that I earned that I haven’t made of use yet.
4. After years of reading people so quickly, what they want, what they're really after, can you still tell the difference between someone being genuine with you versus just giving you the right signals? And has that made you sharper at spotting the real ones, or more suspicious of everyone? Something I was always curious about: how much do SP's actually talk to each other in details about clients? Agencies will of course be involved in protecting against abusive clients and so on, but do the providers have their own "lists" of worst clients / best clients / etc.?
(link) We do talk to each other regarding our clients though what I realized is our client base is completely different from SP to SP.
There is a blacklist amoung agencies and TERB even has a SP only section where SPs can warn other SPs about potentially bad clients. The one thing I do like about working in an agency though is the agency can pre-screen clients for me and that itself adds another layer of protection which I like
I feel like I can definitely read people a lot better because of this job for example when I have nights out with girlfriends I can usually tell which guys are genuine and which guys just are trying to hook up by the way they talk , act and etc. I wouldn’t say it made me more suspicious of everyone but it definitely made me a lot sharper.
5. But I'm curious about the flip side, the weight of always being "on" and tuning into other people's needs. What does it take to protect your energy and your sense of self? And what can clients do to make that lighter rather than heavier?
(link) Honestly I would have to give credit to my support systems and @SexyFriendsTO I have wonderful friends who are in the industry with whom I can decompress/vent with if I ever had a hard day at work . I also have a good and supportive agency - I have been with SFT since I started and have had lots of other agencies try to recruit me to their roster. Also it took me a while to find the perfect balance when it comes to work. I find that the best thing for me to avoid burn out at work is to work short 4-5 hour shifts about 4-5 days a week and what can clients do to make make things easier? Simple come in respectful, clean and ready to have fun I’m here to provide a service and all I am asking is for you to come in with good positive energy and don’t push boundaries! I really don’t think you guys should focus on making things “lighter” for me as you guys are the ones using your hard earned money to spend time with me so sit back relax and let me take care of yall
6. In your civi life. Have you ever hooked up with a man that you didn’t find attractive & wasn’t your type, but had a vibe & humour that made you do it eventually ?
(link) Yes I have and honestly I know a lot of girls that are even in relationships with guys who aren’t even their type to begin with but because their vibe and humour was enough to erase “preferences”.
In terms of hooking up the last hookups I have done were guys totally not my type honestly being at the right place and right time plays a huge factor at least for me in terms of hookups I think it’s because I see so many guys at work I care more about the vibes/personality rather than the looks.
One thing I’ve learned from work is you really can’t judge someone’s performance by their looks. Sometimes the average-looking guys with average sized dick end up giving me the best time… if you know what I mean
7. So has it ever happened that someone you knew, from the civi world, well enough that there’s no way you don’t recognize each other, ended up making an appointment
(link) This has never happened to me thankfully but the chances of this happening is also very unlikely as I have a small circle when it comes to my group of friends and only my immediate family lives within the GTA so I’m not too worried about this
I do want to add though!! I have ran into a client at a music festival no awkwardness - we chatted for a bit and parted ways.
8. Have you watched Jojo?
(link) I watched a bit of it but haven’t finished - my top three animes are:
One Piece
Hunter X Hunter
Apothecary Diaries
9. Which pornstar you resemble.
(link) I get a lot of Lulu Chu and Vina Sky (FYI I think vina sky is so hot )
10.Can you speak Chinese ?
(link) Yes but it’s very broken
11. Do you do bbbjcimsw?
(link) I do BBJCIM no swallow cause sometimes the guys “juices” taste bad
12 . Who’s your favourite Pokémon?
(link) I’ll give you my top 3 I’m a huge nerd from video games - to anime:
- Ninetails
- Gengar
- Moltres
13. How do you stay fresh between clients? What are your hygiene practices in between sessions?
(link) I appreciate you asking this. Usually after a client we have 20-30 minutes to get ready for the next client. My routine would be shower, Vagisil, brush teeth and mouthwash. After that I would need to prepare the bed and bathroom which includes changing sheets, getting fresh towels and some cleaning
I do have some concerns though that I need to bring up to my dentist because I brush my teeth so much. I feel like I may be over-brushing my teeth
13. The author of the memoir "The Modern Whore" writes that one of her favorite regulars was a man in his early 70s (she was in mid 20s). Did you have such experience? how do you generally feel about older men?
(link) Yes I find that older gentleman leave their ego out the door. They come in and know exactly what they want. I have mentioned this before and you guys can even check my post history, I don’t think I really had a bad experience with an older gentleman. Some of them don’t want FS and spend the whole time pleasuring me LITERALLY nothing bad I can say about that. I actually would say the best clients are the ones who can easily communicate what they are looking for in a session - Remember I’m here to please it’s my job!! so make it easy we for both of us tell me what you want dammit! and don’t make me guess.
14. Has your opinion of men changed? Are you more understanding of why some men go this route and that not all men who see escorts are bad? some are good genuine guys? and shouldn't be stereotyped as trash for seeing one ?
(link) My opinion hasn’t really changed since before I started working this job as a SP. If anything, it’s made things even clearer to me how much harder guys have it compared to us women.
I already knew dating apps were stacked against the average guy, but seeing my male friends my age struggle really reinforces that —especially when you consider how many women in these dating apps have unrealistic expectations for example the 666 dating rule that always get mentioned in social media.
15. Other than the obvious reasons of enjoying sex and money, can you tell us more about what you love about this job?
(link) One of the things I love most about this job is the flexibility. I can choose how many days and hours I want to work, and I can schedule everything around my personal plans. If I know I have dinner plans during the week, I’ll plan ahead and work at a location that’s close by - I also like how there’s multiple locations available so I can coordinate with my regulars who wants to see me at their favourite/most convenient SFT location.
16. You mentioned in a previous response about having to vent to other SPs about difficult days (so glad to hear that you have a solid support system!), can you tell us more about what makes for a challenging day at work for you?
(link)To be honest there’s not much challenges I face at work. I do have to deal with stubborn / annoying clients here and there but that’s not really a challenge and it’s just a part of the job. The one thing that truly gets me angry regarding work is how bad the traffic is in Toronto LOL sometimes it takes me 30-40 mins just to leave downtown after an afternoon shift.
17. If there’s one thing you could change about your job or this industry, what would that be?
(link) Easy just make it legal - no grey areas like what we have right now
18. Let's say a guy asks you in a session for something you are not comfortable with, and you decline. Does this color the rest of the session negatively? Assuming he is respectful of that boundary, doesn't press his luck, etc.
(link) Definitely not! I always encourage people to communicate what they’re looking for before a session
The worst I can say is no — and as long as a client isn’t pushing boundaries or repeatedly asking after being told no, I have zero issues with requests. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: the key to a great session is communication.
19. What’s your favourite date night spot in GTA?
(link)My fav spot in the GTA is Koh Lipe it’s a Michelin star Thai restaurant and honestly their Pad Thai is the best I ever had and for a Michelin star restaurant it doesn’t break the bank at all
20. Favourite brand of clothing where you shop usually? (not one you wish to, but the one you always end up going)
(link)Honestly, Lululemon is my go-to brand. I wear their clothes everywhere, whether I’m at the gym, at work, or relaxing at home.
21. Favourite perfume?
(link) Fav perfume is Flower Bomb by Viktor&Rolf
22. Have u ever been booked by a woman?
(link) I’ve been booked by women twice, but sadly both canceled last minute which sucks because I’d totally be down. I have seen couples before though, and it’s always a great time I wish more couples would see me though lol
23. Do you ever get the feeling other tenants in the building know what's going on, or the concierge guys?
(link) Oh yeah, definitely. Our Vaughan location wasn’t the most discreet and I felt like some of the neighbours knew something fishy was going on. Most downtown locations however, are pretty discreet, and in my experience the concierge has never given me a hard time.
24. You mentioned how difficult dating is for men in today's world. You see their struggles and vulnerabilities in a way most people don't. What are some things you've learned about men that you wish they understood more themselves? Maybe it's things they can't see clearly, or maybe they refuse to?
(link) Honestly, one big thing I’ve learned is that a lot of men are way more sensitive and emotionally deep than they may lead on but they’ve been taught to hide it. They don’t always realize that their vulnerability can actually be attractive, not a weakness.
I also think a lot of the guys I see are pretty timid and shy—hell, some of the guys who book me can’t even look me in the eyes though that might just be my client base. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again confidence is incredibly attractive. A lot of men stop trying after being rejected too many times, and you can feel it right away. My biggest advice? Work on your social skills, communicate clearly, and learn how to read body language.
25. If you have a boyfriend, would your boyfriend get jealous of the work you do?
(link) No I don’t have a boyfriend I actually never had a relationship while working this job I been in a few “situationships” that never amounted to anything.
26. A lot of ladies in this biz say they get like 70-80% regulars?
(link)Yup you’re pretty spot on! I would say my regulars are about 60-70%
27. Ahri, are there any guys in this thread that you would be curious to meet and have you messaged them ever, if not, will you?
(link) Actually a few guys on the thread are my regulars LOL I recognize their TERB handles so yeah
28. Hi Ahri, do you have a sex toy collection? What is your favorite toy?
(link) I like this question! I’m mostly a wand girl myself my favourite wand is the Doxy and in my opinion way better than the OG magic wand
Fun little story my first one broke and I was really horny so I ended up going to the sex store at 10pm to buy a replacement one the days I’m not working I tend to cum on my own a lot so I definitely need a heavy duty wand like this lol
29. Have you participated in an orgy?? If so, please tell us about it!!!
(link) It was an MFMFFF orgy that happened at Oasis this summer, and honestly—it was so much fun. We went on sapphic night, and it was actually the first group experience I’ve had where everyone involved was bisexual, which made it even better. We started with drinks by the pool, then rented a private room. It was also my first time having a strap used on me Definitely an experience I won’t forget.
30. Are you apart of the Mile High Club? If so, what was that experience like? Where were you flying lol?
(link) Unfortunately, I’m not part of the mile-high club. Airplane bathrooms are just way too tiny to actually enjoy anything, and they’re kinda gross However, I did have sex a couple of times in my university’s accessible bathroom back when I was in school… lol. I would then go to class after getting fucked in the bathroom like a good girl It was always so nerve-wracking walking out of the accessible bathroom and hoping no one noticed
31. Do you have a bucket list related to sexual experiences??
(link) There are a few things on my list. Even though it doesn’t happen often I’d love to do more duo sessions with my friends from SFT—Scarlett, Anaisha, and Angelina. I’ve also been meaning to check out Birdhaus since I’ve heard really good things about it. And I really want to check out Hedo or another lifestyle resort someday but only if I can convince another girl to come with me lol.
I would also want to have another all female 3sum!
That’s all I can think of for now, but I’ll update this if more comes to mind later
32. Another question, but since you’ve mentioned maybe getting your boobs done have you had any other work done, or anything else you’d want to do?
(link) The only other “work” I’ve had done is a complete laser hair removal, which honestly has been the best investment I’ve made while working this job. It saves me sooo much time, and I love always feeling smooth and having a hairless pussy.
33. How many guys did you have sex with before you made it your trade?
(link) Believe it or not only 4
34. Are there any SPs you would do a duo with that’s not from your agency?
(link) I don’t have the chance to interact with much girls outside of SFT but I would love to do a duo with @kittykellykat and make someones dream ABG threesome CUM through (if you guys can handle it)
35. Do you have a favourite type of cuisine?
(link) I love all cuisines but my taste buds just have a preference of Asian food. My top Asian cuisines are Chinese and Japanese while my top non-Asian cuisines are Italian and Mexican.
36. How long do you see yourself working as a SW’r?
(link)I definitely see myself doing this job for quite a while at least the next 5 years for sure. I genuinely love what I do, and I think I’m pretty damn good at it. If I wasn’t an SP, I’d probably be working in a field related to what I studied in university. I’ve flirted with the idea of taking a break and getting a “real” job, but honestly… it just didn’t make sense. Right now, I still feel like I’m right at the peak of my SP career and I’m enjoying every bit of it. I have loyal clients who I genuinely love spending time with and even message during my time off at work
37. How much would it be for tat that covers the entirety of one of my pecs? Just asking for your insight since you’re pretty tatted from my understanding.
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38. Ever been in love ?I actually really like this question I get so many questions about tattoos and I love answering them. There’s so many factors in determining pricing for tattoos there are artists that range from $100hr - $500hr.
This black and grey tiger would probably take 3-5 hours depending on your artist and could cost you about $300-$1500 dollars and can be done in one sitting. You can see how it looks much softer and uses more brushstroke
On the other hand, Japanese-style tattoos (my absolute favorite style) like this one are much more detailed. One pec alone could take 10–15 hours and usually can’t be finished in a single session. You can really see the difference in detail between a 3–5 hour tattoo versus a 10–15 hour piece. Artists who specialize in Japanese tattoos also tend to be more expensive typically charging around $250–$500 an hour.
Fun fact: I actually worked as a receptionist at a tattoo shop during university, which is how I learned so much about tattoos
(link) I would say yes but not in a while my last serious relationship was a couple years back
39. What kind of safety precautions do you usually take to avoid STDs/STIs?
(link) I have a REALLY good relationship with my Gynecologist I am fully transparent about my job and she does not judge at all. I get frequent testing done about every 3 months which sucks cause I absolutely hate getting my blood drawn but I gotta do what I gotta do to be safe.
I am also on PrEP for HIV protection and need to get injected twice a year for it and of course I’m on Birth Control I may switch it to IUD though in the future but that’s something I need to discuss with my doctor and of course safe sex with condoms always.
40. How do you prevent dry skin & skin ph getting wrecked ? It’s winter & you shower frequently. Frequent hot showers feel so good, but they ruin the skin. How do keep the olfactory intact ?
(link) Honestly, I probably go through a bottle of lotion a week. My Costco hauls are hilarious sometimes I just go for packs of condoms and Aveeno lotion. I’m pretty sure the Costco employees checking me out get a laugh when they see my haul . I just try to do my best to moisturize a couple of times during the workday to keep my skin in good shape maybe I should start getting my clients to rub lotion all over before each session to help keep me moisturized.
41. Are you saving money?
(link) Yes I do. I have a maxed out TFSA and have a pretty decent emergency fund that would last me 6 months of my living expenses. Financial literacy is something that I learned on my own through YouTube videos and reading money management books. I like to lurk a lot and read on the financial threads too here on TERB
42. So, you have never been in LTR but have been in a serious relationship. What is the difference?
(link)Well my most serious relationship was around 8-10 months I only consider LTR to be over a year at least
43. What is your favorite porn scene that gets you off all the time?
(link) I don’t really have a favourite porn scene but I do have favourite genres of porn I love either watching MFF threesomes or Gangbang videos but also sometimes I like to switch it up a bit and cum hentai I’m weird like that I guess. I also like scrolling on Reddit when I’m horny, I have a throwaway account that follows all the porn subreddits
44. You can only choose one option from the list to watch for the rest of you life, which one would you choose?: 1: Gays porno 2: Lesbians porno 3: Straights porno.
(link) As much as I would consider my self bi I would have to choose only watching straight porn for the rest of my life. If I wanted to watch more girls I would just watch a MFFFFFFFF type of porn video
45.Do you watch porn while masturbating?
(link) Yes of course I don’t think I can cum with just my imagination I need to be either watching porn or scrolling through Reddit porn
bonus heres a sneak peak of the subreddits i follow for porn [go to the link guys]
46.Is there any area in sex where, you think, you need to improve?
(link) Yes!!! I want to give better handjobs. A client once told me the best handjob a guy ever gets is the one he gives himself… and I’m okay with coming second place when it comes to that wink
47.What is one thing you would change in a woman body?
(link) No periods… they suck makes me feel like shit and makes me skip work once a week every month
48.What is your all time favorite song?
(link) Sorry can’t narrow it down to a favourite song
49.What is your favorite song that was released this year?
(link) Anything from Sabrina Carpenters last album Man’s Best Friend
50. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
(link) I definitely see myself doing this job for the next five years, if you guys will still have me. I also want to start my own business by then and be able to do this on the side. One of my goals before I turn 30 is to own my own business.
51.What would you choose between these two options: "Option 1: You become 5 ft tall but get natural C cups" OR "Option 2: You become 5.7 ft tall but your ass gets small and cannot really grow unless you use BBL(sorry, otherwise you would just say you will grow it back in the gym)"?
(link)This is the easiest question ever I’m already 5ft2 so losing two more inches and get more boobies??? I’m all in for it
52.Was there any time in your SP career where you wanted to quit? If so, what happened to make you want to quit? (if not too personal, of course)
(link)Nothing has ever happened to the point where I seriously considered quitting, but there are definitely some downsides that come with the job—for example:
- Clients booking and then no-showing
- Constantly having my X account reported and taken down out of spite
- Clients who try to push boundaries
- Having to constantly worry about my online presence
(link)Solid 9! It’s been a really good year for me. I was able to accomplish some big milestones, including owning my first property
54.What's something non-sexual that turns you on?
(link) Good hygiene is everything! Showing up clean, fresh, and wearing a subtle cologne is hot, bonus points if you’ve got some sense of fashion too
55. Does this job exhaust your libido? If so, what do you do to recharge?
(link) This job doesn’t really kill my libido at all honestly, I think I’m just blessed with a naturally high sex drive. I need to get off at least once a day, minimum… otherwise I’m an absolute horny mess. This job can wear me out physically sometimes, which is why I switched from four 7-hour days to five shorter 5–6-hour ones there’s only so much dick sucking and riding I can do before I get tired but getting tired from having too many orgasms is rare for me
56.Any tips on making a threesome fun for everyone involved
(link)IMO the key to a good threesome is making sure both girls are actually into each other You can’t just pick two SPs and assume they’ll work well together I think chemistry makes all the difference.
It definitely helps if both SPs have experience with group play and it’s even better when they both have experienced playing with a women alone lol I like to put on a lesbian show and let the client watch us play with each other for a bit.
57.What would you like your next tattoo to be?
(link) I actually think I’m done with getting tattoos I got everything I wanted to get done but I may need to go in for some touch ups maybe sometime in the next year
58. What are 2-3 things you'd like to cross off your bucket list in the next couple of years?
(link) I would like to visit Europe for the first time. Start my own business. I want to go to my first Blue Jays game.
59. What are some non-negotiable traits you look for in a partner?
(link) Honesty and loyalty are a must for me, but I also need someone who’s genuinely comfortable with my job. I’ve noticed some guys think they can handle it at first, but things change over time. I like making my own money, and I want a partner who respects that.
60. With a sudden surge of money, and therefore large purchases; as you have mentioned, a property, did your immediate family and friends start to question how you are able to afford it? If so how did you talk your way around it?
(link) My family didn’t really question much. Even though they had to co-sign the mortgage, they were just happy that I was able to save up and afford a place. They do think I work a full-time job though.
My friends, on the other hand have started to question it a bit so I usually just say my parents help me out since that’s the safest answer. I tell my friends that my family using my place as an investment property and are paying for half my bills. I’ve also always lived well below my means, so it’s not like I suddenly started spending a ton of money overnight.
61. Have you ever or suspected you have had any clergy ( priest, rabbi ) or cops as clients?
(link) Ughhh, I actually did have a client once who said his job was something related to ‘“religion” but I didn’t ask for any details. If I remember correctly though… he did eat my ass and pussy good lol I’ve definitely seen a criminal lawyer before, but I usually don’t ask much about people’s jobs unless they seem open to talking about it. Most of the time I just keep it simple and ask, “What kind of work do you do?” But also I have had clients blatantly lie to me about their jobs to try to impress m
62. What do you do in your spare time? With a name like Ahri, do you game a lot per say?
(link) I’m a pretty simple girl I would say I’m a bit of a nerd I like watching Anime, playing video games and I recently got into collecting cards last year and it’s been really fun. I also try to go to oasis once a month with my SP friends to catch up and talk about what’s going on with our jobs. I like to bake and cook I have been going crazy with buying kitchen appliances lately lol maybe I’ll post the stuff that I make on here if you guys are interested in seeing that type of stuff lol. I do go to the gym a lot I’m trying to bulk up a little bit and gain 5-10lbs this winter and start cutting during spring time my goal is to get more visible abs this summer and a thicker ass
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Sorry I’ve been a little MIA lately 
I took a much needed vacation from work and finally gave myself some time to relax and recharge but I’m officially back!
I had an amazing MFM with @Person1853 and @Endurance2024, and not too long after that, I enjoyed a steamy FFM with @kherg007 and the gorgeous 
I may or may not have had to take care of myself just to relax and I was so horny I even sent P and E a little teaser video of touching my self 
I put my mouth around E’s cock while giving P a hand job and vice versa.
fucked while I was sucking dick something about that position just made me feel like a submissive slut ughhhh it was great!! Now this is where the hr flys by with me in between E & P in different positions. I think we took a break sometime in the middle to take a quick breather and water break. Then straight back to fucking. Time was quickly coming to an end, so I laid on my back while they both stood over me. I fingered my wet pussy while telling them how hot this was and I want to feel their hot cum all over my body. That did the trick and they came at the same time. Hearing their moans and grunts made me feel like such a slut while they covered me in cum.
