This isn't Tinder, I'd never ask and if they provided it I'd pretend I never heard it. Generally providers don't want the public to find out who they are. They have absent mindedly shared information with others and it did not end well
Do you ask them their real names?
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I usually ask them if I can eat their pussy, I know they don't like giving out their real names.
Ask them? No because that seems in bad taste, if they offer it up that's one thing but to ask is rude
Many of my strip club dancer friends had their stage name, “real” name and their “real, real” name, in addition to their actual name.
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Yeah, many of us know that trick but strippers usually have to deal with this much more. From drunk guys, etc. it is easier for them to just do that.
I have don’t have the time or the desire to. Not at this stage in my career.
talking about strippers/dancers..........old goats from the West End may remember this place from the 70,s and 80,s.....Jerry,s Place, which later became The Kipling Steak House and Tavern, but remained a strip club, on Kipling Ave just north of the Queensway.... any way there was a dancer there who kept her real name as her stage name....Doris......i got to know her and we had some fun times both in and out of the club, anyway i asked her one time why she didnt have a stage name....and she said something like...its my real name and im stinking to it
sorry Im reminiscing , I know.... but i think of those times and realize that Doris would be in her 60,s now....
sorry Im reminiscing , I know.... but i think of those times and realize that Doris would be in her 60,s now....
Not even thin air.
I've probably spent more time drunk in smoking pens with strippers than any person should. (I've quit smoking, and only drink lightly these days.) They pretty much all had stage names, then fake real names. Things are much easier if you stick to one fake real name for all of "those guys".
I always assumed most pros in other parts of the sex industry did the same. It just makes sense.
I'm a chatty guy, and I tend to accumulate fun facts about people, but I never probe. Nor do I push if a provider deflects or demures. I also try to treat what's said in good faith (You say you're from X, and doing Y. Fair enough.) When it comes to names I've had a few slip out, but I quite literally try to put them out of my head and only think and use a provider's work name.
This must be a stripper thing due to the more public nature of that job. It's right there in a song!
I've had a number of SPs and MPAs tell me their "real" name, and whenever I stumbled across their actual real name (usually through social media), it was accurate.
TIL. I just assumed most sex workers had a fake real name (barring the odd slip).
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Yep. Precisely this anything else would be probing and why the hell do you want to do that unless you're some sort of weirdo.
sometimes people don't care all that much so it's understandable that they wouldn't care about giving out their real name
1st I asked them their real name. After that I would like a list of the last 5 people she seen including test results. After that I ask her if she graduated high school university or college. When that’s done I will ask about her financial situation how much money does she have in the bank account how much money she has an RRSP do you own your home or rent. Come on get real you’re there for one thing either ½ hour or an hour of pleasure, you just have a name that you can connect with be it real most likely not. I know a few providers I know their work name and I also know their real name and that’s it, before out in public all asked do you want your real name or work name just in case you bump into somebody that knows her. Oh yeah forgot task one thing what’s her blood type?
That's pretty funny. You reminded me of something else I noticed about my clients: they all indulge in the hobby for different, very personal reasons, get different things out of the experience and want different things from their provider. Some dudes really enjoy the anonymity (which I can see the appeal of, that mystery and distance can be a sexy fantasy), while other clients want to know where I grew up, how many siblings I have, where I went to school... I tried to give people the experience they crave, but there's a bit of a balance between indulging in their desire for intimacy and my own desire for privacy.
I used to ask if I’ve repeated a few times and built up a rapport with the provider. Now I don’t bother as I don’t repeat much and most times I don’t even use their SP name when I see them so why bother.
I've watched too many sitcoms in my youth where people blurt out the wrong name during sex that I've just been trained to avoid using names during sex altogether! "Baby" is all the name you need.
