How to find sensual cuddles, cheaper than an escort. Other than cuddlecomfort

reviewer_person · Aug 8, 2026

I can't get sensual cuddles from cuddlecomfort, because they don't allow that. It's hard to know what cuddle provider on that site even does that

I don't want to pay an escort's hourly rate just to cuddle

Is there any other alternative to getting sensual cuddles?

ogibowt · Aug 8, 2026

i have a novel idea for you....get out and mingle and find yourself a girl friend who actually will do that for free

reviewer_person · Aug 9, 2026

ogibowt said:
i have a novel idea for you....get out and mingle and find yourself a girl friend who actually will do that for free

Getting a girlfriend isn't easy in the new age. I don't know how to talk to women in public. I just ignore them. Also, a girlfriend isn't free either. You still end up spending hundreds of dollars on her through dates etc

newguy2201 · Aug 9, 2026

I know what you are saying, nothing worthwhile in life is easy. But ultimately the other guy is right. If you're someone who (like me) craves connection and affection rather than the quick dopamine hit from sex, finding a partner is probably the best path for you.

What are the things that are holding you back from approaching and talking to women? At least start working on those things while you seek a cuddle arrangement so that you can have an end game.

Spending the rest of your life paying for something as basic and essential as human contact and connection will never be sustainable no matter how low you get that hourly rate

newguy2201 · Aug 9, 2026

reviewer_person said:
I can't get sensual cuddles from cuddlecomfort, because they don't allow that. It's hard to know what cuddle provider on that site even does that

I don't want to pay an escort's hourly rate just to cuddle

Is there any other alternative to getting sensual cuddles?

I don't think you are being straight here. You say you don't want to pay an escorts rate "just to cuddle".

But you also say you can't use cuddle comfort because they don't allow extras.

So which is it? Are you looking for a cuddler that does freebies, or a cheap escort?

ogibowt · Aug 9, 2026

reviewer_person said:
Getting a girlfriend isn't easy in the new age. I don't know how to talk to women in public. I just ignore them. Also, a girlfriend isn't free either. You still end up spending hundreds of dollars on her through dates etc

i mean the following as an observation from a 76 year old who has seen it all..and not meant to be rude...but for fuck sakes grow a pair and suck it up and find ways to meet women....and make no mistake, nothing is free in life, and you have to pay $ for everything, well except peace and quiet...whether its taxes, hobbies, material things, and socializing with women....get off the couch and make yourself available.....

newguy2201 · Aug 9, 2026

ogibowt said:
i mean the following as an observation from a 76 year old who has seen it all..and not meant to be rude...but for fuck sakes grow a pair and suck it up and find ways to meet women....and make no mistake, nothing is free in life, and you have to pay $ for everything, well except peace and quiet...whether its taxes, hobbies, material things, and socializing with women....get off the couch and make yourself available.....

You said it much better than I could. I can tell you as a 54 year old who spent a lifetime feeling like I was undesirable to the ladies, even though I had a few dates and was married for 19 years, these last 8 months since seeing my first SP in December have been a true awakening.

I realized I wasn't putting in the work to be desirable. I was just ignoring my health (I was obese) and personality issues and hoping someone would find me attractive.

Seeing an SP made me do a 180 and realize with the years I have left I want to feel desirable and alive

I've been working out and eating better, lost 60lbs, started working on being more confident and charismatic, something that comes easier with losing weight and gaining confidence.

I am also on dating apps (4 of them actually) and am seeing the attractiveness of the women that interact with me and like me out of the blue getting higher as I work on myself and update my bio and photos

I am at the point where I could have a date every weekend and am being picky to wait until I find one with good compatibility who is also very attractive to me.

This week I have a first date with a really nice looking Hispanic woman 8 years my junior who seems really warm and interested in getting to know me.

If all goes well this will be my exit from the hobby possibly forever.

OP, put in the work, look at yourself and what is holding you back and get on with it.

bobbywings · Aug 9, 2026

easier said then done.
been there done that, the gta is a shitshow, if anything travelling around the world for a foreign lady is the answer. They have traditional values, know how to cook and clean, are loyal, they aren't obsessed with social media attention and don't sleep around like north american women.

ogibowt · Aug 9, 2026

bobbywings said:
easier said then done.
been there done that, the gta is a shitshow, if anything travelling around the world for a foreign lady is the answer. They have traditional values, know how to cook and clean, are loyal, they aren't obsessed with social media attention and don't sleep around like north american women.

the 1950,s are calling you..they want their decade back

Ponderling · Aug 9, 2026

Work your way up.
Start out volunteering at an animal shelter.
If the distressed animals being cared for by you does not give you satisfaction, the other volunteers might start to notice you too.

yeahyeahyeah · Aug 9, 2026

reviewer_person said:
Getting a girlfriend isn't easy in the new age. I don't know how to talk to women in public. I just ignore them. Also, a girlfriend isn't free either. You still end up spending hundreds of dollars on her through dates etc

You are dooming yourself to a life of loneliness. The most important skill you can learn after professional skills is how to talk to women. The rewards are infinite. Paying for hookers is fine now and then, but there are zillions of less attractive women who are hungry for meaningful conversation and connection, and you can be the key in their lock.

Sure ignore hot women. They are busy monetizing their hotness, and have no use for most men in the wild. They only want followers and personal clicks. They are a lost cause. Just start talking to women everywhere that are less attractive. It's brutal at first, but sooner than you think, it will start to pay dividends. Worlds will open up.

I made a decision ten years ago to get good at it after being painfully shy and getting rejected brutally in my 20's and early 30's. I have more pussy and companionship than one man should. Remember that women are as tired of men chasing them for sex as we are in being rejected for simply saying hello. In between those two poles is common interest and meaningful convos. Women can smell fear and fake game a mile away, so you must be sincere. That takes practice and skill.

Cuddling is a product of this process. Seeking out cuddling ahead of all this is putting the cart before the horse. Learn to be interesting to women and cuddling will come along with sex.

LTO_3 · Aug 9, 2026

reviewer_person said:
I can't get sensual cuddles from cuddlecomfort, because they don't allow that. It's hard to know what cuddle provider on that site even does that

I don't want to pay an escort's hourly rate just to cuddle

Is there any other alternative to getting sensual cuddles?

reviewer_person said:
Getting a girlfriend isn't easy in the new age. I don't know how to talk to women in public. I just ignore them. Also, a girlfriend isn't free either. You still end up spending hundreds of dollars on her through dates etc

Become a monk or a priest. That way you can cuddle with the Lord and your brethren since you don't seem to want to interact with women...except to cuddle because they're too expensive.

LTO_3

ogibowt · Aug 9, 2026

Joey Badass said:
You must be long since married because what he said is spot on.

what he said is spot on nonsense.....,there I fixed your post

PS...ive been single since 1994
and im just offering my opinion................make no mistake i am no relationship coach....i,m not good at long term commitments, but an expert at short term hanky panky ..lol

TheRiddlerMan · Aug 10, 2026

bobbywings said:
easier said then done.
been there done that, the gta is a shitshow, if anything travelling around the world for a foreign lady is the answer. They have traditional values, know how to cook and clean, are loyal, they aren't obsessed with social media attention and don't sleep around like north american women.

And don't make a fuss when their husband pays other women for sex, I guess?

ogibowt · Aug 10, 2026

Joey Badass said:
Well my opinion of North American women mirrors what he said. You'd be much better off finding a women from another country that has better values. Look at it this way, more North American women for you.

Better values,? really?....or are they just the values that fit your idea of what a woman should be?

ogibowt · Aug 10, 2026

TheRiddlerMan said:
And don't make a fuss when their husband pays other women for sex, I guess?

this comment deserves a face plant
Riddlerman ..just remember this advice

ogibowt · Aug 10, 2026

Joey Badass said:
Respectfully, you seem out of touch with dating culture in North America. There are literally dozens of example videos on tictok and other platforms where women, most of them a 5 at best stating to date them a man must be over 6' own a home and car and make over 200k a year. I would challenge you to find a video of a woman from a foreign country making similar demands. Not saying they don't exist, there just isn't an abundance of them.

you are right...i am out of touch with dating platforms..i have a girlfriend.....and im not on the vast majority of social platforms...in fact when it comes to modern culture i am basically ignorant............but having said that i have decades of life experiences...and i would hazard a guess that there are as many women from Portugal, or Spain or Argentina or where ever,
who , when on socialmedia dating sites,seek the same in men as you have outlined
BTW im 2 out of 4 with their" demands", how about you ?..lol

ogibowt · Aug 10, 2026

Joey Badass said:
Hard to say as I don't interact with women from Spain, Portugal or Argentina but in lots of foreign countries women just want a solid man who works and treats them well, millionaire status not necessary. I tick 3 of the 4 boxes but I have no interest in dating any North American women so they will have to just drool over me from the sidelines.

your post makes no sense..you eliminate 3 countries, but all the others you have knowledge about
no interest in dating Nort American women.?....ok then just spend time with hookers....and leave those women alone in NA who want a solid man who treats them well.....good luck with that in your old age...........im sure there are lots of those women.....just try harder

ogibowt · Aug 10, 2026

Joey Badass said:
I don't have knowledge about all of the other countries in the world but gee, that would be awesome if I did. I know a few individual who have gone to other countries and found a wife to bring home and lived happily ever after. Those are the particular countries I'm talking about. Beyond that I have no comprehensive knowledge.

Spending time with hookers is one small part of the overall scenario. Surely you aren't implying that spending a lifetime only banging random women for money is fulfilling in the grand scheme of things? It's nice as an aside but what about love, marriage commitment and raising a family to continue your lineage?

your reading skills need brushing up.....make no mistake hiring hookers is not fulfilling....read my post again, my sarcasm went straight over your head....Joey, my lifelong obsession with hookers, has cost me any realistic chance of everlasting committment and true love....but my platonic girl friend comes close
Joey...take it from me...find a NA woman, who really really wants to be with you
i had that chance many years ago, but i fucked it up

Cheers

ogibowt · Aug 10, 2026

Joey Badass said:
You win, I'm going to find one right now, wish me luck.

ok then..just as i suspected..you are a jerk

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