I'm not saying liars.. and not always intentionally. They used to work for me. Yes overall it's a sketchy world for all parties involved. Men lie to the girls a lot I am sure to manipulate
I just realized, a client can't shine amongst the other clients and "win over an escort", because an escort can get that in her civilian life too
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No I didn't feel pushed abused or forced to befriend him, and nowhere in this thread have I even hinted that anybody dated their clients because they were forced to. LOL. I just said it's a bad idea to date an escort of date a client because the dynamic will change once you start hanging out off the clock.
It's not that "things didn't go well". It's that we didn't have as much in common as I thought we did, and we weren't compatible personality wise. We made the jump from client/provider to "friends" very fast, so there wasn't a huge transition. There was an attraction, he wasn't like my usual clients, I was alone in a different city, etc. I still really like that person and we're friends, but we couldn't date.
If you read all my comments, you would have seen that I said some of my colleagues have dated clients before. It does happen that clients and escorts date, I never said it didn't. I just said it's often not a good idea, from all the stories I heard. It seems like you're not capable of understanding the nuances in what I wrote and I would suggest going back and carefully reading the discussion again instead of jumping to conclusions or assuming I said something I actually didn't say.
OP was saying that he books escorts to find a girlfriend and he seemed to think escorts become escorts to find a partner. That's delusional imo. It's not the same as saying "love between a client and an escort can happen".
The difference between the story I told and what OP wishes for, is that there were no expectations. I asked this guy to hang out with me, he didn't expect this, and it was on my own terms. I also didn't expect to meet somebody I would find attractive in that context and I certainly don't work as an escort in order to find a boyfriend.
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I would find it very difficult as an escort to date somebody who "pushes escorts". It is a sketchy world for multiple reasons and I personally find it healthier to make a separation between my personal life and my work life.
When we had dated I was long out of that world. I was living a normal life. Working being a father all that good jazz.
Ok I see. I guess that person may have felt upset about you having been involved in that world, but who knows.
I think that it takes a specific type of person to be an escort and start dating a client without any reservations. It's an impulsive decision.
Like I said, even if I met my ideal partner through escorting, I would be extremely cautious. With the guy I'm talking about in my other comment, I just approached the situation with curiosity and a lot of honesty... but we never ended up dating because I knew it wouldn't work out. He didn't try to force anything, either.
The relationship was overall very good, one of my favorites for sure, unfortunately for w.e reason, more her mental health wasn't willing to fully be in and that's okay. We were both very open and transparent with each other.. id just never do it again, because it did go exactly how I thought I'd go.
She knew my involment just as I knew about hers. I was the one skeptical at first to date and I voiced my issues.
I am surprised I have not chime in. Then again it is the weekend and "GRACE" likes to sway us with her presence every weekend I notice in the past 3 months. Every time she creates a new account on Thursday or Friday, I am her first enemy on her ignore list.
Yes the topic is nice but the OP @reviewer_person post makes me think he didn't go to high school and didn't learn any math like statistical analysis. He has lived in a small room. But then again I went to high school where I learn the smart people in my class could remember the school work and ace the exam but most couldn't translate to real life or explain it. It is like MRS degree effect or Mandela effect?
I keep mentioning the bell curve. There is always one person in the crowd - or named properly "the one off" and everyone uses it as a generalization. If you do then that proves my point about the small room and "didn't learn any math like statistical analysis." Yes there is always one SW that is probably seeking the right man for her. I knew a guy who married really up.
I already posted, I know a few SW and normal "regular" woman who jump in bed left and right with different people ( regular people do this ). In the end these SW and clients end up with some sort of mental health issues. Or simply said people become more broken. Hence all the silly actions of both genders.
see here.. Observation
10 years ago here on TERB 1/10 people misunderstood the OP"S post or anyone's. Now it seems like 6/10 people don't get it and 2/10 people follow the crowd. That is 8/10 people being lost.
Recently one of the SW had to remove her post and I enjoyed reading and it was very insightful. I learned something from her post, but most people here just bashed her. Like what have your learned here?.
What happened?
The Covid 19 Vaccine? PMS = Pride, Me Syndrome.
Yes the topic is nice but the OP @reviewer_person post makes me think he didn't go to high school and didn't learn any math like statistical analysis. He has lived in a small room. But then again I went to high school where I learn the smart people in my class could remember the school work and ace the exam but most couldn't translate to real life or explain it. It is like MRS degree effect or Mandela effect?
I keep mentioning the bell curve. There is always one person in the crowd - or named properly "the one off" and everyone uses it as a generalization. If you do then that proves my point about the small room and "didn't learn any math like statistical analysis." Yes there is always one SW that is probably seeking the right man for her. I knew a guy who married really up.
I already posted, I know a few SW and normal "regular" woman who jump in bed left and right with different people ( regular people do this ). In the end these SW and clients end up with some sort of mental health issues. Or simply said people become more broken. Hence all the silly actions of both genders.
see here.. Observation
10 years ago here on TERB 1/10 people misunderstood the OP"S post or anyone's. Now it seems like 6/10 people don't get it and 2/10 people follow the crowd. That is 8/10 people being lost.
Recently one of the SW had to remove her post and I enjoyed reading and it was very insightful. I learned something from her post, but most people here just bashed her. Like what have your learned here?.
What happened?
The Covid 19 Vaccine? PMS = Pride, Me Syndrome.
That's a different story than what you told earlier. Unfortunately the risk we take when we enter a relationship with somebody we love very much, is to get hurt... 🥲
Oh yes I understood that. I just meant that some people don't always have the emotional maturity of knowing what they can or can't handle, like you said earlier in a different comment.
Well no, because she did say certain things and went back on them, so it is hard to know the truth and all that.. but the act she put on seemed like she tried and regardless if it was all an act or not it was fun. Yes she was jealous and yes she compared alot to others and it caused problems, but I always tried to reassure her and it only worked until she couldn't emotional handle whatever she couldn't emotional handle. Because the shut downs and stonewalling were real and not needed, especially with the transparency we tried to had.
I doubt she was putting on an act particularly if she was having mental breakdowns due to being jealous.
Do you know what dating is for? It's exactly to find out two people have in common, jesus christ lol
