In a July issue of The New Yorker Magazine there was an article titled “Billionaires’ Vagina Club”, with the sub-title “Dr. Sally Greenwald optimizes orgasms for the women of Silicon Valley”.
Dr. Greenwald has a “concierge” gynecologist practice on the Stanford University campus in California.
New patients pay tens of thousands of dollars per year to join her practice, if they manage to get off the wait list. In the past few years, Greenwald started referring to her practice as the B.V.C – the Billionaire’s Vagina Club.
What I found interesting, in the rather long article, was that she stated that spontaneous desire disappears in about 85% of women in partnerships, after about eighteen months.
But women retain responsive desire, which comes from being stimulated first, or from stimulating themselves.
Her prescription:
The male in the partnership should suggest to the female that she “warm up” alone for a few minutes with some lube and a vibrator. Then, when she is ready, she should text him to come join her.
Dr. Greenwald puts it like this: “Think of it like exercise. You never want to do it, but once the trainer arrives and you begin, you get in the mood.”
She said that, after the female tries that a few times, and using the exercise analogy, her brain says “Once I start to exercise, I know how good I’ll feel afterwards.”
To the response “that doesn’t feel sexy”, Dr. Greenwald replies “It’s like showing up at a party, even if you think you didn’t want to go, and then having a good time.”
It could work, but I’d sure like to be “a fly on the wall" during that preliminary conversation…
Dr. Greenwald has a “concierge” gynecologist practice on the Stanford University campus in California.
New patients pay tens of thousands of dollars per year to join her practice, if they manage to get off the wait list. In the past few years, Greenwald started referring to her practice as the B.V.C – the Billionaire’s Vagina Club.
What I found interesting, in the rather long article, was that she stated that spontaneous desire disappears in about 85% of women in partnerships, after about eighteen months.
But women retain responsive desire, which comes from being stimulated first, or from stimulating themselves.
Her prescription:
The male in the partnership should suggest to the female that she “warm up” alone for a few minutes with some lube and a vibrator. Then, when she is ready, she should text him to come join her.
Dr. Greenwald puts it like this: “Think of it like exercise. You never want to do it, but once the trainer arrives and you begin, you get in the mood.”
She said that, after the female tries that a few times, and using the exercise analogy, her brain says “Once I start to exercise, I know how good I’ll feel afterwards.”
To the response “that doesn’t feel sexy”, Dr. Greenwald replies “It’s like showing up at a party, even if you think you didn’t want to go, and then having a good time.”
It could work, but I’d sure like to be “a fly on the wall" during that preliminary conversation…
