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rgkv

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
 

rgkv

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Do you write along with your question a complete message that includes everything they need on a first contact? Or you are simply asking this question with nothing else?
I sometimes mention what im looking for, mostly though I ask first about seeing a 73 year old
 

Carsis

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Maybe it takes longer for a older guy to cum and they don't have patients. Otherwise I don't see why not.
 

Ahri

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I don’t know what their problem is 🤷‍♀️ I never had any issues with older gentleman in fact some of my best sessions have been with older guys.

Maybe specify exactly what you’re looking for then mention after that your older?
 

sweetiepieexo

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
Every girl is different. Some do have a cut off age of who they are comfortable seeing.

The best thing to do is to do is an introductory message including your name, age and what you are looking for. Another thing i would recommend is checking to see when their ad was posted.

If you are messaging girls who do not have an active ad in your area , ad has not been posted for a few days or a week ; then it might be safe to assume that the girl has moved to a different area.

If you are messaging them when they are active and you have included an introductory message and you are still not receiving a response ; then it might be safe to assume that she might not be interested. However, she could also be busy. I would suggest trying a couple times and if you still do not receive a response then I think your best bet would be to move on.
 

Pamela Lee69

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I do not have an issue with older men either..

For ladies to respond to you. "READ" the ad. They all ask for specifics and usually have a means of verification included.
If you do not follow through with the requests. Then you maybe ignored.
I think this is the biggest reason clients get ignored. Just follow some easy steps, to show her you read her ad and are going to play nice.
 

drlove

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
Perhaps try your luck with an agency. Most are pretty accommodating and do not have any age restrictions that I’m aware of.
 
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Smallguy

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What city do you live in?
Maybe you can be lucky, to meet up with a lady that posted in this thread.:)
 

LTO_3

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I'm not sure why you're even mentioning your age. If the SP/MP has no age restrictions in her ad, why mention it. Or if you do mention it, ask your other questions first about availability & services and once that's done then ask if she' has any age restrictions. Doing it this way shows your interest in her and your age may then be less of an issue if she has an age restriction. Likely more of an issue if it's LL or similar sites but also might be a timing issue since many SPs won't answer txts older then 1.5-2 hours unless you tell them it's ok.

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Ryan_Coke

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A couple ladies I'm tight with have shown me their message screen and it's insane the amount of messages some of them get. She'd scroll back and show me the hundreds she has that she couldn't possibly reply to.
 
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K Douglas

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I think ladies are less concerned about age and more concerned about hygiene and respectfulness. However the fact that not one of them responded to your query even with a "no sorry I don't see older gents" indicates to me that perhaps the content of your correspondence may be the issue at play.
 
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princekwekua

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
"Hello. Hope you are keeping well. I would like to see you for an hour to enjoy your services. I prefer daytime some time this week. Please let me know your availability. Thanks."
You will receive several responses.

If you adding you are 74 with heart problems, you will scare off even Ahri
 

MadGeek

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
Do you look 74? If you look younger go with a lower number if you feel the need to tell your age. The escorts (read: Leolist) asking for age are mainly doing it to exclude young guys, specifically young black guys.
 
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tastingyou

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
When responding to an ad usually amongst the info that they request is your age. I answer all of the questions and say that I am in my 60's [ which I can pass for on my better days ] even though I am almost 76. I receive a response to my inquiries almost all of the time , although these days I am mostly occupied by regulars , mostly in spas.

FYI I see ladies who are all 40+ , and are all Asian. I find that Asian ladies are much more appreciative of older guys and in fact they are all very appreciative of my business and all of them say they hope to see me again soon , some even say see you tomorrow, lol. And is not for my " fantastic sexual skills " that they hope to see me again soon. My tongue is pretty good though.

If you are mostly trying to see young ladies they probably have a hard time relating to older guys, much as I cannot relate to them very well either.
 
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lomotil

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Well, I guess 74 is too old. Have sent requests to at least 10-12 girls, both MP's and escorts asking if they would see a 74 year old. Actually till a week ago it was 73.. Have never recieved a yes. Not even a response. I'm harmless, what is the problem?
If you pay them( perhaps a premium) then they will service.
Same as it ever was, …..same as it ever was.
No defibrillator worries ?
 
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