Most suprising time you found out someone was interested in you

Mandala · Jul 26, 2026

Happened to me recently so I thought I would mention it.

I go part time to U of T. I am not chasing arts degree I just go for self interest and look for the professor I would enjoy. That is half the battle

After a few classes, I just said hello to a very quiet babe in the room, thinking nothing of it. She seemed the type that would never be interested in me.

As I was leaving the literature class, she had paused just before the entrance with those intimidating huge doors all their buildings in the main campus downtown seem to have.

Just before I reached the doors, she cut in front of me then paused so I could open the door for her

It seem too deliberate to be by chance esp after I had said hello. I opened the door and we started small talk. No matter how small the talk she acted interested. If she is genuinely interested bad small talk will not turn her off so do not sweat it just try not to say anything totally stupid

So, this is what just happened

1 I said hello to a very attractive yet reserved and quiet babe I have seen for a few classes. I am one of the talkative ones so she knows who I am

2 She was deliberately waiting for me to open the door which totally surprised me

3 She feigns interest in my small talk

My guess is she is actually interested but she is quiet and reserved so she is showing interest the only way she knows how.

I am very, very surprised.

I was actually going to the pub with a few classmates to discuss literature. We actually do discuss the class work but conversations are all over the place.

Turns out she knew we do that but was too reserved to just come so she wanted an invite.

I introduce her to the table then after a drink she becomes gregarious. Turns out she is not quiet at all, just shy and reserved. Now I sitting with a genuine babe I thought was out of my league who is interested in me and I am buying her drinks

newguy2201 · Jul 26, 2026

Nice congrats man. That sounds great. I have a story on here somewhere about the babe that showed interest in me that I totally missed out on because I was clueless back then.

So I'm glad to hear it works out sometimes.

kherg007 · Jul 26, 2026

An MPA (a bit older one, 30ish). She played by the proper HE rules in the parlor, and had seen her twice before. She actually got 2 shots out of me once. She also seemed to like me. Gave me her contact info and said get in touch next time in town. So, I did. She invited me to her place. I really wasn't sure exactly what she wanted as she asked to be indirect on her email, but it implied "similar to the spa." So, I get in to her place and she's dressed for romance lol. I asked if she wanted to have sex, she said yes, and i asked if she wanted money she said no. She said it's just been a while since her breakup, and she liked how i touched her so gently. She jumped in the shower and came out in a spa like outfit, then i jumped in and had the shower and then we slowly and wonderfully went at it. Apparently my style worked with her as she was effusive with praise. She invited me out to dine on actual food, and then to dine on her anytime I get into town.

Ps please dont ask for which city, which parlor, or a name.

Mandala · Jul 26, 2026

kherg007 said:
An MPA (a bit older one, 30ish). She also seemed to like me. Gave me her contact info and said get in touch next time in town. So, I did. She invited me to her place. I really wasn't sure exactly what she wanted as she asked to be indirect on her email, but it implied "similar to the spa." So, I get in to her place and she's dressed for romance lol. I asked if she wanted to have sex, she said yes, and i asked if she wanted money she said no. She said it's just been a while since her breakup, and she liked how i touched her so gently. She jumped in the shower and came out in the spa like outfit, then i jumped in and had the shower and then we slowly and wonderfully went at it. Apparently my style worked with her as she was effusive with praise.
Ps please dont ask for which city, which parlor, or a name.

Which city, which parlor, what is her name and does she still work there?

drstrangelove · Jul 26, 2026

Mine happened in high school. A guy from my school switched to another high school in town. I ran into him months later and he says How's Beth? I said Beth who and he gave me her last name. I said I had no idea who she was, he told me that she was going around their high school telling everyone that we were dating. I never found out what it was all about and never met her.

kherg007 · Jul 26, 2026

Mandala said:
Which city, which parlor, what is her name and does she still work there?

OK ya got me. Sydney, super relax spa, her name was Sarah.
Lol.
However, for real, she no longer works in the industry.
But you can imagine my demographic...

Ryan_Coke · Jul 26, 2026

Most surprising was last fall. I work for a delivery company, I delivered to this business, turns out the office manager was out in reception and she recognized me from high school in the 80's. Once she said "Hi Ryan", and I gave her a second look, I knew exactly who she was. Sat beside me in 12th grade home room. I had such a crush and no confidence, no way would she be interested in me. Turns out she was. I saw her at that office a few times and one time when no one was around, she asked why I never asked her out in school. I just said I had no self confidence and if she gave off any clues, I was totally blind. And now I'm married and the only cheating I do is with hookers, so you'll have to let me pay you to sleep with you now. OK, I left out that last part lol

Zoot Allures · Jul 27, 2026

One never knows, it could swing either way. So, do not take rejection personal. She is stating you are not right for her not that you are not right

Zoot Allures · Jul 27, 2026

Every time is a surprise

This is story is for the EI guys

She was EI and very goodlooking with very nice big breast body at George Brown College

I was unemployed so Canada MANPOWER paid for a course at George Brown while allowing me to collect UI. I was not considering college but hard to turn that down

She was a friend of a friend and very friendly so it as natural we would talk to each other.

One day I was waiting for the elevator when she showed up and was facing me square on so she could do that move where she puts her hand on your shoulder. Women do this as they know it works. I had read a woman's magazine and that move was a tip on how to get your guy so I was aware of it and knew he was interested. I thought previously she was just being friendly, but I assume she was checking me out to see if she thought we would match

I never saw it coming

Ahri · Jul 27, 2026

I think this just goes to show that everyone should be kind, cordial, and confident.

Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot you never know what might happen

curvluvr · Jul 27, 2026

I wish such stuff happened to me. I'm either too old, too shy, or too oblivious... or all of the above.

reviewer_person · Jul 27, 2026

I haven't spoken to any women my age for the past 3 years in any context other than cuddling, escorting and administrative stuff
Only because of two reasons.

1. I don't know what percent of women are truly loyal
2. It's hard to find a woman who wants to do 50/50. I'm sorry but I can't be a provider. It hurts my ego

It may seem ironic that I would pay an escort / cuddle provider, however it doesn't hurt my ego one bit.

This is because the relationship is very honest. I can't be tricked or manipulated. They are also very polite and nice because they are running a business. And I can easily have boundaries with escorts - there is no personal component to it that would blur the lines between being professional and personal. An escort and the client are free to pursue a personal relationship at a well paced manner. There is no pressure.

Also many escorts don't hate men like civilian women do. Escort see men all the time. Eventually they pick up on the fact that men are humans just like them. They see all personalities of men. They start understanding us. I've noticed escorts tend to have a better view of men.

Big Rig · Jul 27, 2026

Zoot Allures said:
One never knows, it could swing either way. So, do not take rejection personal. She is stating you are not right for her not that you are not right

You are 100 % right.

Let me do some heavy lifting here - If your self confidence is too low then you should not play the game, what you should do is work on your self confidence then play the game

I learned to respect myself by not accepting disrespect by saying what i thought with clarity and dignity not aggression. I let them know then walk.

This next point is key, rejection is not disrespect; they have a right to decide you are not for them.

It is not a judgement on you, it is a choice

newguy2201 · Jul 27, 2026

reviewer_person said:
I haven't spoken to any women my age for the past 3 years in any context other than cuddling, escorting and administrative stuff
Only because of two reasons.

1. I don't know what percent of women are truly loyal
2. It's hard to find a woman who wants to do 50/50. I'm sorry but I can't be a provider. It hurts my ego

It may seem ironic that I would pay an escort / cuddle provider, however it doesn't hurt my ego one bit.

This is because the relationship is very honest. I can't be tricked or manipulated. They are also very polite and nice because they are running a business. And I can easily have boundaries with escorts - there is no personal component to it that would blur the lines between being professional and personal. An escort and the client are free to pursue a personal relationship at a well paced manner. There is no pressure.

Also many escorts don't hate men like civilian women do. Escort see men all the time. Eventually they pick up on the fact that men are humans just like them. They see all personalities of men. They start understanding us. I've noticed escorts tend to have a better view of men.

You have to have 50/50 in dating but you can pay for intimacy? that's some interesting logic.

I have followed the 50/50 discourse online. I can see guys point that it would be nice for women to contribute sometimes.

But I also feel that men should pickup the tab on the first few dates. If by date 3 or 4 she hasn't even offered to split, I can see your point.

Once the relationship is established things should be split roughly proportional to income.

Being provided for is an emotional need for some women. They are not just being princesses. It makes them feel loved and cared for, just like sex does for us.

Also, SPs don't hate women like civvies do? I I give you to check out reddit.com/r/sexworkers and prepare to have your mind blown.

rhuarc29 · Jul 27, 2026

Haha, I bungled a situation in high school. A girl I was interested in struck up a conversation with me out of the blue. It was so unexpected that I completely misread the situation. Her friend was there with her and the friend made some joke at her expense, which I made the mistake of nervously chuckling at. The girl instantly went cold and stormed off. I was completely bewildered at the time, but I realized later -- much TOO late -- she was interested in me, but felt humiliated by what her friend said in front of me and the fact that I laughed along with it.

It's too bad that my mistake screwed that up, considering we were both interested in one another. I took that as a lesson, and still have guilt about it to this day, considering she plucked up the courage to approach me, even if it WAS with her friend.

newguy2201 · Jul 27, 2026

Here's another one that I don't think I've ever told here. This one is a bit more embarrassing but in my 20's I was a bit of a clueless idiot and also always assumed girls weren't into me due to self esteem issues

I was at a dance club that I used to go to with friends at Bay and Cumberland downtown.

It was 3 am and there were us 3 and a couple of single women dancing around. Night was pretty much done.

I started dancing with this woman and we started chatting. She said "I live just around the corner"

I said "Oh cool! You live downtown Toronto? That must be so awesome. Anyways, see you later"

An hour later I was like "wait...doh!!"

Zoot Allures · Jul 27, 2026

There are more times you are disappointed that they are not interested, but we are discussing successes

What I do is notice them respectfully and without lust and wait for signals. Women have esp for signaling, it is amazing

If they are interested they respond, for example, by laughing when you are around or just looking desirable and trying to get quick eye contact find a way to be near you etc
They have to signal somehow.

But sometimes it is out of the blue as in my post 6 as they get tired of waiting for you to get interested

As soon as you get the signal your view of them can change from friend, or even stranger, to potential lover.

It just takes one look, especially for women, as Linda Rondstadt says

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xix · Jul 27, 2026

Ryan_Coke said:
Most surprising was last fall. I work for a delivery company, I delivered to this business, turns out the office manager was out in reception and she recognized me from high school in the 80's. Once she said "Hi Ryan", and I gave her a second look, I knew exactly who she was. Sat beside me in 12th grade home room. I had such a crush and no confidence, no way would she be interested in me. Turns out she was. I saw her at that office a few times and one time when no one was around, she asked why I never asked her out in school. I just said I had no self confidence and if she gave off any clues, I was totally blind. And now I'm married and the only cheating I do is with hookers, so you'll have to let me pay you to sleep with you now. OK, I left out that last part lol

You could have also added,,, "Also I had no money back then. I was broke back then and now also.

ogibowt · Jul 27, 2026

Zoot Allures said:
There are more times they are not interested but we are discussing successes

What I do is notice them respectfully and without lust and wait for signals

If they are interested they respond, for example, by laughing when you are around or just looking desirable and trying to get quick eye contact

They have to signal somehow but sometimes it is out of the blue as in my post 6
as they get tired of waiting

It can be very unexpected but as soon as you get the signal your view of them can change from friend, or even stranger, to potential lover.

It just takes one look, especially for women, as Linda Rondstadt says

Bing Videos

HHmm, cant we just post the original

ogibowt · Jul 27, 2026

Ahri said:
I think this just goes to show that everyone should be kind, cordial, and confident.

Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot you never know what might happen

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