Providers who overshare about other clients - is it a turn on?

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Don’t really want to hear about other clients, or other guys for that matter during our time together. I did have one exception where I kind of liked it. Used to see this girl regularly, and after we got to know each other a bit, in the pre game chat over a glass of wine or two, she’d complain about her asshole / loser boyfriend. Then she would fuck the living daylights out of me. It was like she was revenge fucking me to get back at him. It was quite hot. 😈
 
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Don’t really want to hear about other clients, or other guys for that matter during our time together. I did have one exception where I kind of liked it. Used to see this girl regularly, and after we got to know each other a bit, in the pre game chat over a glass of wine or two, she’d complain about her asshole / loser boyfriend. Then she would fuck the living daylights out of me. It was like she was revenge fucking me to get back at him. It was quite hot. 😈
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Yeah, I have that with my current fave. I'm like a therapist when I first get there, and then she's totally fucking the hell out of me after. Then I would manage to get her back in a good mindset about the guy by the end of our time. I didn't want her breaking up with him and finding someone better that would make her forget about me or ruining our pre event chatting lol
 
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Ryan_Coke said:
Yeah, I have that with my current fave. I'm like a therapist when I first get there, and then she's totally fucking the hell out of me after. Then I would manage to get her back in a good mindset about the guy by the end of our time. I didn't want her breaking up with him and finding someone better that would make her forget about me or ruining our pre event chatting lol
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sounds like the BF owes you for keeping them together!
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Just be upfront with her and tell her you don’t want to hear her adventures with other clients 😊

I tend to not over share anything unless a client asks
 
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Ahri said:
Just be upfront with her and tell her you don’t want to hear her adventures with other clients 😊

I tend to not over share anything unless a client asks
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Although not directed specifically at you Ahri, in general I don't mind hearing the stories. More often than not they are the bad client stories. But I don't mind the others.
It also makes me realize why i get treated so well despite my over-the-hill plain looking self, because i learn how truly far being clean, respectful, and happy goes in this biz.

Although I am a bit worried Ahri is telling other clients about the fact I have an arm growing out the side of my head. But in revenge I've been telling people the first time i met Ahri she made me lay on the bed then she got under the bed and proceeded to bench press it a dozen times with me on top. She said she does that to send a message - behave or face the fury of a pint sized powerhouse.
 
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Ryan_Coke said:
I go see a lady, I have seen her before but it had been a while and instead of a "how are you, haven't seen you in so long, how have you been", when I walk in, it's "oh my god you should have seen this guy I saw earlier, he had a pierced dick and when he busted it came out the sides not the hole in the tip". I'm like "well, nice to see you too, still normal dick here, hopefully it doesn't bore you" lol. We had always been pretty chill with each other so this didn't bother me, she said she couldn't wait to tell me about it because she knew I was the guy she could say it to.
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Peeing must be messy for that guy 😂
 
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Ahri said:
Just be upfront with her and tell her you don’t want to hear her adventures with other clients 😊

I tend to not over share anything unless a client asks
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BTW on the client POV, where he shares about other ladies - what are your thoughts Ahri? Do you mind hearing about others?
For example, I tell the story of booking a fave on my bday about 10 years ago and as I went to the doggy finish she pointed my dick into her bum rather than kitty and I said "sorry I didn't pay the upcharge this time" and she said "it's your birthday, it's on me".
Because I never wrote about that, I would never say her name, even in pillow talk.But do you mind hearing the story?
And that's my policy - if I share with an SP about another SP I never say the lady's name unless it is already out there, usually because it was written about in a review. For example, talking about that great scene w you on top and Adriana behind...because it was in the review.
And of course anything said in confidence - eg, her "square job" - would not be leaked.
 
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kherg007 said:
BTW on the client POV, where he shares about other ladies - what are your thoughts Ahri? Do you mind hearing about others?
For example, I tell the story of booking a fave on my bday about 10 years ago and as I went to the doggy finish she pointed my dick into her bum rather than kitty and I said "sorry I didn't pay the upcharge this time" and she said "it's your birthday, it's on me".
Because I never wrote about that, I would never say her name, even in pillow talk.But do you mind hearing the story?
And that's my policy - if I share with an SP about another SP I never say the lady's name unless it is already out there, usually because it was written about in a review. For example, talking about that great scene w you on top and Adriana behind...because it was in the review.
And of course anything said in confidence - eg, her "square job" - would not be leaked.
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Actually I love hearing clients experiences with other SPs or even regular civie girls it gives me a better insight about them and what they like 😀

You probably know this but I usually recommend other SPs to clients if I think they would have a good session together 😀
 
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Ahri said:
Actually I love hearing clients experiences with other SPs or even regular civie girls it gives me a better insight about them and what they like 😀

You probably know this but I usually recommend other SPs to clients if I think they would have a good session together 😀
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Yes indeed. Just like I recommend ladies to other ladies for K-style duos...hehehe...
 
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massman said:
Don’t really want to hear about other clients, or other guys for that matter during our time together. I did have one exception where I kind of liked it. Used to see this girl regularly, and after we got to know each other a bit, in the pre game chat over a glass of wine or two, she’d complain about her asshole / loser boyfriend. Then she would fuck the living daylights out of me. It was like she was revenge fucking me to get back at him. It was quite hot. 😈
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Yup. Pretty much exactly my thoughts too, I'm over here paying for your time I'd rather not here about other dudes at all lol.
 
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The provider should be discreet with all clients.

A provider told me about a couple of clients who enjoy sexting with her. She opened her phone and starting showing me the client’s nude pictures.
 
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Good that OP raised this topic and the responses highlighted the fact about how common it is as a filler discussion.
I personally do not mind listening to client stories. It is better to take those stories at face value instead of being judgemental about truth as SPs use them to convey their like, dislikes; try to raise our competitive spirit as marketing gimmick. Can act as a turn on in most cases. Best of all, it is neutral topic, that can easily be transitioned into further action. I see no downside here.
 
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Turn off, I've stopped over sharing as I know she can't be trusted with discretion.
Use what she says as advice on how to not behave/be when you're with her. And don't overstay for pillow talk.
 
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ElCapitain said:
I'm curious about people's thoughts on this. I have a regular who seems to enjoy telling me about her exploits with others. Stuff like "yesterday I had a 1.5 hr session with a guy who was SO thick, wish he would have f****ed me for longer"; "I was at an orgy and this guy did me so hard, then just left me lying there and I couldn't move for a good five minutes", "two guys invited me to their pool and things happened and they DPed me, I'm still sore", etc.

I guess she thinks it must be a turn on for me, but to be honest I'm not sure how I feel about it. Would you guys be turned on by this kind of thing?
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It is neither a turn on or a turn off. She's only human. I do like hearing about funny disaster clients. Sharing identifiable information about another client, like full names, would be a broader red flag but I've never had that.
 
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I'm not going to lie, I'm not entirely comfortable with the ladies I see telling me about stuff like that.

On the other hand, I've also been that client with one lady I see.
 
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No. I don't want to hear it. I want to believe/pretend that I'm her one and only... at least during my time with her.
 
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ElCapitain said:
I'm curious about people's thoughts on this. I have a regular who seems to enjoy telling me about her exploits with others. Stuff like "yesterday I had a 1.5 hr session with a guy who was SO thick, wish he would have f****ed me for longer"; "I was at an orgy and this guy did me so hard, then just left me lying there and I couldn't move for a good five minutes", "two guys invited me to their pool and things happened and they DPed me, I'm still sore", etc.

I guess she thinks it must be a turn on for me, but to be honest I'm not sure how I feel about it. Would you guys be turned on by this kind of thing?
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No, not at all.
 
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