Providers who overshare about other clients - is it a turn on?

ElCapitain · Jul 9, 2026

I'm curious about people's thoughts on this. I have a regular who seems to enjoy telling me about her exploits with others. Stuff like "yesterday I had a 1.5 hr session with a guy who was SO thick, wish he would have f****ed me for longer"; "I was at an orgy and this guy did me so hard, then just left me lying there and I couldn't move for a good five minutes", "two guys invited me to their pool and things happened and they DPed me, I'm still sore", etc.

I guess she thinks it must be a turn on for me, but to be honest I'm not sure how I feel about it. Would you guys be turned on by this kind of thing?

Ol' Dirty Bastard · Jul 9, 2026

No because I don't have a cuck fetish.

squeezer · Jul 9, 2026

I'd only be ok about it if I'm the guy she wished fucked her longer.

ElCapitain · Jul 9, 2026

Ol' Dirty Bastard said:
No because I don't have a cuck fetish.

Neither do I, but I have a competitive streak. I think part of it is she thinks I might try to book her for longer just to "keep up".

astroid87 · Jul 9, 2026

Depends on the relationship. I've had a couple providers where it became our "thing" during sex for her to tell me what she'd done lately. If it's a chick randomly sharing exploits I'd find it annoying. As in any human relations context is everything.

Shaquille Oatmeal · Jul 9, 2026

No, I don't want to ever hear about another client, or the provider's personal exploits.

DaveNotThatDave · Jul 9, 2026

Turned on? Not even a little. A big part of the fantasy for me is that for that chunk of time, we’re lovers, we’re each other’s. I’ve found precious few with whom I/we can inhabit that space but when it happens it’s glorious. Bringing in other clients/lovers destroys that space.

Ryan_Coke · Jul 9, 2026

I don't mind some talk, as long as she likes me talking about other escorts too. Some ladies like to dish the gossip both ways, sometimes that's fun. Then I ask them what they say about me and they are like "oh I don't say anything about you". To which I say "is that because I'm just that boring and there is nothing interesting to say about me?" "oh no no, you're great, I just don't want to talk about you to others" Yeah sure lol.

LTO_3 · Jul 9, 2026

Generally, that's a no for me. Occasionally but rarely, with a couple of SPs I've known a long time and seen often, we've had some descriptive chats about who we've seen and what happened and used that to enhance our time together.

LTO_3

xmontrealer · Jul 9, 2026

I have zero interest in an escort's other clients.

I don't worry about how I compare to them either, and the subject almost never comes up, unless the lady is complaining about some guy who tried to rip her off, or was too rough.

One time only, out of a great many encounters with a large number of escorts in my hobbying life, an escort told me about a guy with a giant dick she saw recently, and how much she liked it.

That, with me being only average. I did not like it, found that rude, and while we had an ok session, I never saw her again.

ElCapitain · Jul 9, 2026

xmontrealer said:
One time only, out of a great many encounters with a large number of escorts in my hobbying life, an escort told me about a guy with a giant dick she saw recently, and how much she liked it.

That, with me being only average. I did not like it, found that rude, and while we had an ok session, I never saw her again.

Yeah, that was basically my initial reaction to that too. I said "I'll probably never be able to compete with that guy" and she replied that she loves us both equally, for different reasons. Which sounds sort of legit from an SP's perspective.

heartthrob · Jul 9, 2026

If she's telling you to help the session along.. that's one thing but telling you for no apparent reason is probably friend zone stuff and she considers you that as a regular

xix · Jul 9, 2026

ElCapitain said:
I'm curious about people's thoughts on this. I
I guess she thinks it must be a turn on for me, but to be honest I'm not sure how I feel about it. Would you guys be turned on by this kind of thing?

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Ryan_Coke · Jul 9, 2026

If she's going to tell me how wild a fuck so and so is, I hope she doesn't mind me apologizing for going soft in cowgirl and saying "that never happened with Mya the Japanese girl I was with 3 days ago and that I was hard the entire time, and how we did it in 4 positions before I busted in her throat, not sure what happened here".

OntGuy2010 · Jul 9, 2026

I don't mind hearing and telling stories, but with the goal of informing and improving the session!

MiguelRojas · Jul 9, 2026

Happens the other way for me. Sometimes I'll say I really enjoyed my time with this black girl and if the provider is white or Asian they would get super defensive and start saying all sorts of random shit.

xmontrealer · Jul 9, 2026

MiguelRojas said:
Happens the other way for me. Sometimes I'll say I really enjoyed my time with this black girl and if the provider is white or Asian they would get super defensive and start saying all sorts of random shit.

So why say it?

Especially if you plan to repeat with the girl you obviously offended?

Do you get off on pissing them off?

Scouser_77 · Jul 10, 2026

Ol' Dirty Bastard said:
No because I don't have a cuck fetish.

yeah those responses definitely make it seem like that doesnt it

YoYoHoward · Jul 10, 2026

I love it - it’s the only source of info I have about this hobby. The guys on here very often misrepresent a girl or an experience-we’re always the heroes of our own stories.

The girls are a little more credible because they’re an inch away from your face and still have a hand caressing your balls.

I don’t hear a lot of stories about other clients, except the bad ones. The best stories are generally about boyfriends or guys they pick up. Scares me more than their clients because I enjoy the delusion that clients are “cleaner” on average than club dudes, but that’s probably not even correct.

Ryan_Coke · Jul 10, 2026

I go see a lady, I have seen her before but it had been a while and instead of a "how are you, haven't seen you in so long, how have you been", when I walk in, it's "oh my god you should have seen this guy I saw earlier, he had a pierced dick and when he busted it came out the sides not the hole in the tip". I'm like "well, nice to see you too, still normal dick here, hopefully it doesn't bore you" lol. We had always been pretty chill with each other so this didn't bother me, she said she couldn't wait to tell me about it because she knew I was the guy she could say it to.

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