Since number of questions goes up and up, i think it's time to compile all question Ahri answered so far into more compact post. This post is for the old
AMA thread that was active since April 2021 to March 2023.
I included links to each Ahri's answer, so you can always go back and check that i didn't make it up LMFAO. I tried to keep everything as it was included in original response, except emojis (since they completely mess up formatting) and some extra spaces to make this post as small as possible.
1.
Okie easy one that guys would probably wanna know. Would you ever do a couple ? Or a duo with another SP? What's your drink if choice at a bar?
(link) Yes I would do a couple and a duo is something I really wanna do (just never happened yet) In my personal life i have done so already!
I actually don't drink that much at all but if I had too it would be a rum and coke or a long Island ice tea!
2. Alright, how about this? How much money do you make...say pre- and post-Covid?
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link) I actually just started 2/3 weeks ago so there is no pre covid for me and about the money I don't wanna say the exact amount but more than what I was making before (sorry for the lame answer)
3.Would you be very interactive with all parties though? Or just the man? Lastly kinda personally i guess: How would you define your sexual orientation?
(
link)Nope definitely would play with everyone!!Thats a tough one for me I enjoy playing with girls I have played with them alone and with another man but I don't see my self ever romantically with a girl.
I would say romantically straight but in terms of playing with girls I'm down with it!
4. Hmm whats your ideal fantasy?
(
link) Ideal fantasy is to go to one of those adult swingers resort!!!
5.
What's your favourite ice cream flavour? What's your go to take out spot/cuisine?
(
link) OUU I love this one!!
My absolute favourite ice cream flavour is Demeteres prailines and creme!
My go to take out cuisine has to be Italian or sushi!
My absolute favourite place to eat tho is any Brazilian steakhouse
6. Real question: are you into any tv shows/drama, if so, what are the titles?
(
link) As of right now jack Ryan on amazon prime!!
7. What sort of lady appeals to you most? (Personality, behaviour, and appearance).
(
link) I like my ladies petite and small kinda like me!! Personality when it comes to females I am more submissive.
8. What would be your best advice to a) civilian blokes, and b) clients that would make an intimate visit go well with you.
(
link) Can you rephrase the first question and as for the visit to go well it. I would say come on time, generally don't be shy and try to enjoy yourself tell me what you like and such!
9. Advice for guys in your personal life, vs advice for your clients in your professional life.
Also, what made you decide to "go pro"?
(
link) Personal life is tough, I never make the first move I guess this is general advise and not really specifically for me but I would say make the first move and shoot your shot!
To be honest it has always been on mind... I genuinely enjoy it. I have a high sex drive and to be honest this is something hot and taboo for me. It was not really about the money as people may assume.
10. What is the #1 insight you learned about men being an escort that you did not know prior to going pro?
(
link) Actually one thing I learned was how nice and respectful men are to escorts. I am fairly new and I have had 0 bad experiences where someone was rude / disrespectful to me.
11. What question(s) would you like to ask a veteran client?
(
link) I got three!!
How long have you been a veteran client?
Why and when did you start?
Wildest thing you done with a girl?
12. One last thing, you mentioned you have a high sex drive and its part of the reason why you got into this work, are you saying that you weren't sexually satisfied in your personal life even with all the hookup/dating apps and super thirsty guys your age out there?
(
link) Hmm I woudnt say I was not satisfied to me I mainly did this for me i have been interested in this type of work because of the taboo of the industry. Actually the best sex I got while working are the older guys not the guys my age.
13. Another one are you worried about the day you burn out?
(
link) Yes! But I take it one day at a time!
14. Hi Ahri, do you enjoy receiving oral(daty) from your clients?
(
link) Yes! I love it haha
15. Uhh, can you describe the perfect dick for yourself...? Do you plan to focus your work in the DT core, or are you willing to go to other locations such as North York?
(
link) Honestly I prefer an average size curved up to hit my g spot! As if now just downtown.
16. So if I brought a vibrating external only toy we couldn't use it? (covered by a condom for your protection...)
(
link) I would be down but I really really don't last when it comes to toys haha
17. If a train leaves Chicago going 50 miles and hour to LA and it stops in Denver for 4 hours how much can you bench.
(
link) Since you asked I'll tell you all my gym PRs
My Max bench is 105lb
Squat 225lb (gotta grow that booty)
Deadlift 165lb
18. What are the 3 fantasies you like to fufil in the biz and 3 outside the biz:
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link) This is a good one I can't name 3 for my outside the biz...
-I want to do my first "paid" anal anal sex all the guys who wanna try it are way too big for me.
-I also want to do my first couple/duo experience
-I want a female to book me (I want a hot mild to book me LOL)
Outside the biz
-Sex resort..
That's pretty much something I haven't tried yet.
19. What would be the perfect guy or girl for you?
(
link) Girl I want either a petite girl like me or a milf type to show me the ropes....
20. Which celebrity would you fuck (male and female)?
(
link) Micheal B Jordan and Steve Carelll
Jennifer Anniston and Vina Sky
21. Let's say you and a client really hit it off, nice connection, sparks flying. Your client wants to see you more. Would you prefer one 3 hour date or three 1 hour dates and why.
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link) I wanted to do this because I feel like it hasn't been done on this forum before!
I would prefer a 3 hour date! Again if I was doing this for only the money then it would have to be three 1 hour dates but I like making connections with clients more.
22. So you don't follow the Leafs? You have no opinion on when COVID restrictions regarding extremely large gatherings will be lifted?
(
link) I'm sorry I don't really follow the leafs... I never been to a leafs or Jay's game before always wanted to go to one haha.
In regards of covid I have no idea when large gatherings will be allowed. I just hope that it is soon.
23. whats ur favourite dream place...? u wanna visit soo badly
(
link) I really wanna go to Japan it's my dream vacation I want to go when things opened up!!
24. How did you learn about sex?
(
link) Pretty much like how every Gen Z learns from:
www.pornhub.com
25. What was your biggest anxiety in going into sex work?
(
link) I really dint have much anxiety about going in to sex work. I have been very sex positive for as long as I can remember. I did do my due deligence when I was applying for agencies. I know I wanted to work for SFT as they have good reviews and was a well known agency.
26. What is the biggest discrepancy between the porn portrayals of sex you learned from and what you found w real life sex?
(
link) That's a good one. Some sex positions only work in porn but don't feel good in real life.
27. Does your current work conflicts with your moral values?
(
link) No it doesn't it's my choice, if morally I was not okay with it I would not do it.
28. Many pornstars do regret about their work at end of careers. Do u think same happens with sps?
(
link) That's a good one, I don't think so I feel like most pornstars they regret their work because it is easily accessible (internet). The difference between that for me is none of my work gets posted online.
On the side note : I would want to try and do porn one day another bucket list thing.
29. Have you ever discovered someone you know is in the biz? Have you ever seen any strange ones? ( penis ) I have seen a few strange ones on women. I saw a women that had a vagina that was no bigger than a $2 coin. Evidently the woman in the Black Dalia case had one that size as well.
(
link) 1. No I have not thankfully.
2. Again I have not I always thought I would have to deal with a micro penis but have not yet .
30. The first time you saw a dick what did you think? What about a erect dick?
(
link) This is gonna sound bad but literally 2 years ago when I was 17. I was the nerdy girl in highschool that nobody wanted to talk too.
31. So whats next ..? After when you done with this industry are u planning to go university and get a degree? like u said u like sex and money is gud so its win win situation for u.
(
link) Already in school and paid off my first two years already. I do plan to have all my schooling paid even a masters.
32. Would you ever hire a SP?
(
link) I really have considered hiring a female SP for fun there are some girlsI am attracted to in SFT.
33. which girls at SFT ? Would you do a duo ? Have you ever squirted ?
(
link) I don't want to name names but she's a VIP
Yes for sure I would I have been dying to duo nobody has ever asked haha.
Yes I have
34. Do you think its right for guys who are married and still see sps without their wives knowing about it ? Like trust is the foundation of relationships...I know guys do them to fulfill there fantasy's but is it worth it by destroying their families...? Just curious to know how sps think abt it?
(
link) I don't ask these questions but I do know clients who's wives allow them to see SPs. I had an open relationship before in my private life and it went pretty good.
On that note I know that there are definitely hiding it from their GFS/Wives
35. Would you approach a meeting w a woman different than with a man?
What about a bloke like me, who is a lesbian trapped in the body of a man?
(
link) I never approach guys or girls haha
So I can't really answer that
36. What drives your heightened sexual awareness?
(
link) I think I would say It was becsuse I was a late bloomer sexually didn't lose my virginity until I finished highschool
37. What did you think of your first sexual encounter?
(
link) It was bad haha, guy came too fast, hurt too much.
38. How about the first time a bloke went down on you? You've likely had some opportunity to compare...But what did you think?
(
link) Everything about the first time was bad haha, me losing my virginity was the first for everything giving/reviving oral...
39. Do you crave more sex when you are not working?
(
link) That's a good questions. I really do there are days where I don't work but want sex.
The only thing I'm craving for sex with is with a women but I think that will be solved soon
40. are you a spitter?
(
link) For the right price I am not
41. Anything your excited for and looking forward too?
(
link) Actually yes....Me an Angelina will finally get a duo together I am so so excited!!
42. God this was brilliant. I sat here, so in awe of such a resource... wanting to ask something so telling...[...lots of good word to Ahri and her AMA].
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link) I like being here and I wanted to do something different. I want to be able to interact with clients and have a good relationship with them online (on the downside I have my dms filled with guys asking for nudes and wasting my time).
43. But are those DM leeches TERB guys or Twitter losers?
(
link) I don't have a twitter yet. These are guys from TERB asking for pictures and generally wasting my time with messages. On the other hand there are really nice guys on terb that I have pretty good conversations with in my DMS.
44. Forgive me if it's been addressed in the pages I haven't read: is there a range of scents you like on a man, or more importantly, some scents you can't stan
(
link) I really like Gucci Guilty and there was a YSL one forgot the exact scent.
45. What about like a premium snapchat or something for those wanting to buy photos and whatnot?
(
link) I have a lot of tattoos do u don't think OF will work but I do sell my texting number!
46. How much money do you make? What is your networth?
(
link) All I can say is more than people my age
47. 1. I know you said you're not looking into a site; however, have you considered saving some of these Q&As somewhere? Sage Hunter has this to keep track (https://curiouscat.qa/MissSageHunter) and it's much easier to parse than going through a 15 page thread.
2. So, you mentioned your name is from League of Legends. Do you actually play it or anything else?
3. I don't see anything on the SFT site nor in this thread. I typically get something for the SPs I see, and I'd love to get something a bit more personalized. Is there anything you particularly like or are you just fine with gift cards (please don't say textbooks...man are they expensive...)
4. Is there anything about the industry you'd change?
5. I know you just started, but is there any advice you'd give to someone who's just starting out?
6. Besides a lot of people are nice, is there anything you learned working as an SP that you didn't think you'd learn?
7. Have you considered working in other cities? Even if it's just Niagara or Montreal?
8. Random one and perhaps a bit too early, but why did you pick your major (if you even have one yet?)
9. Pets? Cat or dog person?
10. ....how did that experience with Angelina go?
(
link) 1.No not really. I just do it here for fun! and it's much easier to parse than going through a 15 page thread.
2. Played it once or twice which is why I got the inspiration. I am a total noob haha.
3.I don't have a preference! However, don't get me any food items or alcohol as I don't accept it.
4. It has been great so far! I just wish that hygiene standards for everyone is the same.
5. Just be yourself and only continue if you really enjoy sex and not doing this job for the money.
6. The one thing I learned is to not be a pushover. When clients ask for things I don't offer I don't hesitate to say no.
7. Not really, IMO why go to a diffrent city when I have really good customer base here.
9. Dogs 10000%
10.Unfortunately I had to cancel due to a personal emergency, I really still wish it would happen tho!
48. Was your becoming an escort driven by necessity or a decision that this was the best profession available to you in terms of lifestyle and compensation?
(
link) If you read through my previous post I mentioned I only got into the industry because I was always interested in it. I have a pretty high sex drive and genuinely enjoy the taboo. It was never about necessity.
49. Have you ever thought about leaving escorting for a regular job, now or in the future?
(
link) Actually yes, in the future if things ever slow down or I simple get tired of it I have no issues with leaving the industry.
50. Why do more escorts not have wishlists?
(
link) For me there is nothing I specifically want or need. I have thought about making one but it would all be stuff that would need to be ordered online (lingerie/toys). Plusss I personally like buying my own lingerie
51. Has being an Escort raised your standards in what you like sexually? Do you have any memorable moments you lust over, that you can give us a short description?
(
link) I don't wanna go to too much detail but the best sex I have ever had was while working. I recently hooked up with someone outside the industry and it was not a memorable experience at all .
52. If a guy were to book you for several hours including social time, would you allow a guy to take photos while your'e out and about (obviously not in the bedroom...but a selfy with you on his arm at the trendy steakhouse he took you?)
(
link) That is something I am not open to unfortunately.
53. What is better: a thrill of meeting a new client or the safety of meeting with a repeating client?
(
link) To be honest I would say it's both. I love meeting new people.
54. what's the avarage age of your clients?
(
link) This really is a tough question I feel like I see a lot more younger clients that some girls but I would day average is 30s-40s.
55. Has a woman ever book you for a one on one session? And has that happened more than once?
(
link) I am actually upset that no woman has booked me yet ! But I do know it is quite rare so I waiting for my first 1on1
56. 1_Fav book? 2 Fav Movie? 3 - Top three things on your bucklist? 4 - Where was your first time?
(
link) I can't answer the first two because that's really hard for me but...One of my bucket list items is to go to the adult sex resort hedonism in Jamaica. My first time actually was when I was 17 in the back of a car.
57. What are you studying?
(
link) Unfortunately I don't like to disclose this but let's just say it's in the health industry
58. Where do you see yourself in 10 years from now?
(
link) I genuinely enjoy this industry I see my self working as a SP maybe once a week while having a full time job in my field.
59. When she was in her early-mid twenties, she just got very comfortable with her body and sexuality, and became an SP for the thrill of it. However, she didn’t even last a year at the agency. Instead, she left, but continued to see a few of her favourite clients on the side.
(
link) I don't have a set time on when I would leave the industry but if the day comes I would not mind seeing some regulars on the side after!
60. Doors or wheels?
(
link) Wheels if you think there are more doors than wheels please reply with your argument
61. So what are you reading of late?
(
link) As of right now only thing I'm reading is a textbook it is my last semester so it has been busy
62. Would you ever allow a session to be filmed? I'm not talking about secretly, but where both parties are aware of the camera.
(
link) No not really no interest in that.
63. Who are 3 people, living or dead, you'd like to have over for dinner and conversation?
(
link) 1. Asa Akira / Lulu Chu / Vina Sky to ask about what it really is like in the Porn industry
2. My childhood dog that passed away
3. TBD
64. Ok, here is another question: if you could change one part of your body, what would it be?
(
link) 10000000% boobs I plan on getting a boob Job but don't know if I wanna do it after I leave the industry or before ! Atleast my ass I can grow through the gym
65. What do you think of the naturally busty Asian porn stars like Jade Kush and Sharon Lee?
(
link) I think they are very pretty but for some reason when I watch porn I tend to watch girls that are my body type piper perri / Saya song
66. Was curious if you’ve ever considered doing a MFM?
(
link) Never done it while working but private life yes I have !
67. Describe what a perfect client would be like? What makes you choose an agency?
(
link) Honestly a perfect client is someone who is super respectful and someone who fucks me good. There have been times in the job where I genuinely get into it bc the sex is good !
I knew sft was reputable that's why I applied there !
68. Think you’ll ever do one[MFM] while working?
(
link) I would be interested but I feel like setting it up would be complicated. Find a buddy and come book me and I may do it
69. Do you get a lot of clients who refuse to shower?
(
link) I have and I would refuse to give them service .
70. How did that mfm come about in the private life?
Ever do the ffm? (Interactive duo)?
(
link) I went to swingers party. Yes I would !
71. What keeps you awake at 6:40 a.m. on Sunday?
(
link) Getting school work done so I have time to work later this week =)
72. How did the invite[to swinger party] come about? A client, someone from school, or what?
(
link) I got invited through a person I was hooking up with I don't go to sex clubs frequently now just because I work in the industry. I do however go to swingers private parties quite often though !
73. How well do you sing?
(
link) Not very well unfortunately
74. Is there a reason so may escorts are so quick to get out of their lingerie?
(
link) I feel like it differs from sp to sp but for me personally I enjoy when my clients take if my lingerie kinda like foreplay
75. Do you get requests for using a dental dam? If Yes, then how often is it?
(
link) I actually have used it. If a client brings it I will accommodate and use it.
76. Would you be open to work Markham location if SFT ever opens one? Even NY is not easy for me to reach regularly to see you let alone downtown
(
link) unfortunately that’s something I won’t do since that’s too far for me.
77. When you go on vacation do you miss the amount of sex you have at work at all?
(
link) Who says I don’t fuck more during vacay
78. Have you ever had to train a fellow (A fellow human being, trying not to be sexist) to eat your pussy, either at home or in your professional capacity? How did it go?
(
link) I taught my ex boyfriend pretty well how to eat my pussy and it went well! I wouldn’t mind teaching a girl one day hehe
79. Does it mean you will never date a client?
(
link) Hmm not while I'm working, if I remain friends with a client when I retire than u would say it's fair game
80. do you ever get sore from work in any way? what should we know to be more sensitive in our hook up?
(
link) Actually I don't get sore during work , and I prefer some rougher sex , my favourite is getting fucked hard doggy
81. What are your feelings on anal?
(
link) I like it in my personal life but I don’t think I am ready to offer it during work, however I would never say no to getting my ass ate.
82. MPs make around $100K with the top one making $130K for, on average, 6 hour shifts, 3.25 days a week - likely more since I'm not including tips. Would you ever consider changing from a SP to a MP? Why, why not? I assume a reason for why not is flexibility & independence?
(
link) I never considered switching because I feel like my massage techniques aren’t up to par. I am not opposed to it though but as of right now I am happy with SFT and it’s flexibility.
83. Average client age? Average intercourse Duration?
(
link) The only honest answer I can give here is literally it could range from anywhere.
84. Have you ever made any money without getting naked?
(
link) Yes I used to work at a retail job.
I also have had clients come book me and don’t fuck me (I am all for that but still do find it strange when it does happen)
85. Who do you think of when you masturbate?
(
link) Usually the pornstar that I am trying to come too lately it’s been JAV porn
86. Ok tell me on a range of 1 to 10 how vanilla are most client?
(
link) I would say 8/10 are vanilla the rest are in to kinkier stuff. but yes your right haha I have seen some smaller girls (even smaller than me) take aa hard pounding…
87. How true is this[a lot of guys good at DATY]? How often is this true during the day after the first client? That is, how often is it faked? Doesn't have to be you, could be you've 'heard from a friend'. % breakdown perhaps?
(
link) There are guys who are surprisingly good at eating pussy. I never really had a truly horrible experience where the guy had no idea what they were doing. If they are not as good at it I usually instruct them to do it how I like it. On the other side of things I have met a very small amount of people who really have no clue how to eat pussy after claiming they are the master at it.
88. How much does dick size matter to you in your personal life and working? I feel like people who see escorts are usually above average, what would you say the average size of your clients are?
(
link) In both situations it does not matter the size it’s how they know how to use their dick. I wouldn’t say that the people who sees escorts are above average. I would simply say it’s average.
89. Ahri, does being an escort give you a greater appreciation for different types of Men, expand your taste that you might not have when you dated civies?
(
link) Yes actually! Working as an escort I have encountered different types of men that I would have never met in my civie life and had really good sex sessions with them.
90. Are you a millionaire yet ?
(
link) Unfortunately not but I can say all my school bills have all been paid for
91. Hi Ahri, any tips for someone who shots fast?
(
link) I would say let the SP know about it so they can go easier or cum beforehand?
I know some clients of mine use a cialis to help last longer but that doesn’t really help for your issue.
92. Have you seen couples on the job? And if you have, do you enjoy it?
(
link) no couples on the job yet I had Two instances were I was booked with a couple but they both cancelled.I would love two experience a couple as a client one day!
93. If a client wants you to play with one of his toys, how can he prove to you that it’s been properly cleaned?
(
link) I would ask him to clean it for me and after it’s been cleaned I would only use the toy if there is a condom on it.
94. If you could only choose one type of sex for the rest of your life would it be oral or PIV? If money would not be an issue, and you could get any fairly common profession?
(
link) Hmm, I would choose something animal related may that be a Vet or owning my own animal hospital.
95. What's your opinion on reviews about you? Do you read reviews about other providers?
(
link) To be honest I don’t let the negative reviews about me bother me all too much. Some reviews I have gotten in the past are an exaggeration at best the one saying I was 30+ or had kids before hurt since it is definitely not true. However there are some things that I just can’t control like my acne situation which I try my best to control.I actually read a lot of reviews about other providers especially the ones I am friends with.
96. Have you ever found something actually interesting from reviews about you that turned out to be accurate?
(
link) you guys got me convinced I looked like a Librarian when nobody ever in my civie life mentioned it haha
97. What is your most favorite part of YOUR body?
(
link) I love my ass and I’m still trying to grow it bigger , my least favourite my titties I know at some point I will get them enhanced.
98. Do you want a boob job because you think your boobs are too small?
(
link) I really have always wanted to get my boobs done since I was younger but your right, I should give it more thought.