The art of approaching women

Mandala · May 18, 2026

I am with BR on signals. You signal her with male signals she signals you with female signals. That is how to do it. Look them up on youtube.

But, if you feel strongly you would make a nice couple then go for it even without signals

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xix · May 18, 2026

Signals

261252 · May 23, 2026

xix said:
Signals

Yup. All animals have mating signals of interest including us. Think about it. How else would it happen? Just walk up to people and say I am
interested in mating?

A lot of Terbs are thinking WTF ! Wrong topic for an escort board

I disagree. Some Terbs need the skills of this thread, or at least find it interesting.

I admit I am in that group and I find this thread educational. Thanks for creating it Zoots.

xix · May 23, 2026

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Muchadoaboutnothing · May 23, 2026

261252 said:
Yup. All animals have mating signals of interest including us. Think about it. How else would it happen? Just walk up to people and say I am
interested in mating?

A lot of Terbs are thinking WTF ! Wrong topic for an escort board

I disagree. Some Terbs need the skills of this thread, or at least find it interesting.

I admit I am in that group and I find this thread educational. Thanks for creating it Zoots.

The men these days lack social awareness so yes you best believe they basically do that. I’ve seen men just approaching women out of nowhere demanding their number around the Sheraton centre and around Bloor street. I assume they were part of some men’s group for pick up artists. The creep at my yoga studio seems to explicitly ask the ladies to “make babies” with him but with a smile on so it’s confusing. I feel bad they pay to go there to relax and have to end their session with this dude hounding them

261252 · May 24, 2026

Muchadoaboutnothing said:
I’ve seen men just approaching women out of nowhere demanding their number around the Sheraton centre and around Bloor street. I assume they were part of some men’s group for pick up artists. The creep at my yoga studio seems to explicitly ask the ladies to “make babies” with him but with a smile on so it’s confusing. I feel bad they pay to go there to relax and have to end their session with this dude hounding them

To my point, signals are there for a reason. Be friendly but do not assume thy are interested without signals instead presume they are not interested. They got no signals yet proceded like they had.

It has happened to me a few times that I thought a woman would never be interested in me so I just acted friendly expecting nothing. Then, to my surprise I discovered she was interested when ehe displayed signalling.

Some females are shy, introverted, lack confidence and uncertain so once you just be friendly and appear safe they open up.

Concerning your comment on pick up artists group you could be right on. I was in a free introductory lesson for a internet pick up class and they talked about how everyone was guaranteed to succeed s it was just a matter of numbers. Sad. You spend the day bothering women and looking foolish to get a few numbers then of those numbers you got how many worked out? Any?

That is a lot of money and time just to feel like a loser. How to meet someone and to be natural when presenting yourself is a valid class worth taking but not how to pick up

Forzafonz · May 24, 2026

Muchadoaboutnothing said:
The men these days lack social awareness so yes you best believe they basically do that.

Close the topic, we found the real issue. To no one surprise it's men's fault. I mean i would like to see what would women do and how they would act if they had to do the first move. Alas, in 99% of cases men are expected to do the first move. Got forbid if a men is not attractive, then he is going to be labelled as socially awkward and socially unaware.

Forzafonz · May 24, 2026

Muchadoaboutnothing said:
The creep at my yoga studio seems to explicitly ask the ladies to “make babies” with him but with a smile on so it’s confusing. I feel bad they pay to go there to relax and have to end their session with this dude hounding them

I feel bad you see all of it and never say anything to management. That's what is called socially unaware.

ogibowt · May 24, 2026

Forzafonz said:
Close the topic, we found the real issue. To no one surprise it's men's fault. I mean i would like to see what would women do and how they would act if they had to do the first move. Alas, in 99% of cases men are expected to do the first move. Got forbid if a men is not attractive, then he is going to be labelled as socially awkward and socially unaware.

hhmm..i think its women who make the 1st move...and that move is to make a man feel like he is making the 1st move

Forzafonz · May 24, 2026

ogibowt said:
hhmm..i think its women who make the 1st move...and that move is to make a man feel like he is making the 1st move

Big Rig · Jun 3, 2026

In my travels I am meeting women. There is no ulterior motive I just like to see if I can get their interest. I look for signals but if they seem not interested a gentle approach can sometimes turn a “neutral” or “unsure” reaction into a positive one.

Just use common sense. Is she with what appears to be boyfriend? Is she very cold with your gentle approach? That is not a judgement on you but persistence after coldness usually backfires.
Just keep the golden rule in mind: enthusiasm from her = continue; neutrality or coldness = exit politely.

There is 5 second rule for picking food up off of floor before eating . Total nonsense .
But it is good for meeting women. Just say something simple like hello. Overthinking signals can lead to missed opportunities or awkward staring.

I created my start to leave test. After I approach I turn away slightly away or take a half-step back. If she turns her body or leans toward → good sign. If she doesn’t adjust → bad sign

Notice her subconscious body signals. If her feet point away or towards you.

Instead of thinking does she like me? ask do I like how she reacts

If she’s cold that is a filter. You’re looking for reciprocity, not a challenge to win her over

Adam_hadam · Jun 3, 2026

Approaching an obvious left leaning woman::
If Doug Ford released his phone records, would you blow me?

xix · Jun 4, 2026

When you guys go see a SP, - like didn't you pickup her signal or AD.
Then you called - approach
Had a neutral conversation - OR TEXT - if she is your type at the price point menu.
Show up - hopefully like TERB mentions it. Shower before going there.
Pay, shower, do the deed, ( I assume between shower and deed you do speak to her - right?)
Deed talk more and shower and say good bye.

Isn't that what you do with regular women?

Muchadoaboutnothing · Jun 7, 2026

Forzafonz said:
Close the topic, we found the real issue. To no one surprise it's men's fault. I mean i would like to see what would women do and how they would act if they had to do the first move. Alas, in 99% of cases men are expected to do the first move. Got forbid if a men is not attractive, then he is going to be labelled as socially awkward and socially unaware.

Women will notice he’s socially unaware first ie why is He standing so close to her on a hiking trail ?! Where did he just come from
and why is he approaching as she’s fast walking with headphones on and sunglasses on and not displaying open to chat vibes

Muchadoaboutnothing · Jun 7, 2026

Forzafonz said:
I feel bad you see all of it and never say anything to management. That's what is called socially unaware.

I actually did say something . Turns out he’s the studio manager 🥲

Insidious Von · Jun 7, 2026

Insecure men would be too intimidated to approach this woman.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/6q-rNdVa10E

newguy2201 · Jun 15, 2026

Well I had a great experience the other night. Some of you might know that I started seeing SPs in December and was planning to do it one time, but I loved it so much I have been seeing 2-3 a month ever since and having the time of my life.

I had a point where I started realizing that seeing SPs was not going to be enough for me long term, as I am a relationship guy, I love the feeling of reciprocal connection, and being with someone 3-5 hours a month then alone the rest of the time is not going to cut it for me.

Anyways I have been doing this while also on dating apps waiting for an opportunity to come around that I wanted to pursue more than the freedom and excitement i get here

The irony is after spending hundreds of dollars on apps, boosts, likes etc and countless hours swiping and messaging, I went to a friends BBQ the other day and there was a woman there that I was immediately drawn to and couldn't stop checking out

Instead of doing my usual, and using the newfound confidence that seeing SPs had given me, I sat in the circle where she was and introduced myself and we started chatting.

I noticed that she was matching my energy, asking me direct questions, and showing interest. I started asking her more personal questions about her life

At some point I decided I'm going for it and asking her for her number. I then spent the next hour waiting for the other people around us to leave so I could ask her

That never happened but I seized on a moment and asked her anyways. She said yes.

I just had a great text exchange with her tonight and we are going on a date next week.

Its a little bittersweet as if things go well I will have to close this chapter that has brought me such joy

But mostly I have excitement for the future. And it all starts from taking a risk.

Zoot Allures · Jun 19, 2026

newguy2201 said:
Instead of doing my usual, and using the newfound confidence that seeing SPs had given me, I sat in the circle where she was and introduced myself and we started chatting.

I noticed that she was matching my energy, asking me direct questions, and showing interest. I started asking her more personal questions about her life

At some point I decided I'm going for it and asking her for her number. I then spent the next hour waiting for the other people around us to leave so I could ask her

That never happened but I seized on a moment and asked her anyways. She said yes.

I just had a great text exchange with her tonight and we are going on a date next week.

Its a little bittersweet as if things go well I will have to close this chapter that has brought me such joy

But mostly I have excitement for the future. And it all starts from taking a risk.

That was quality move. No coming on strong with cheap pickup lines. She did not give off signals of disinterest but that does not mean she was interested so you asked then found out.

Some women fear being friendly as they, understandably, do not want advances.

Remember, if she changes her mind that is no reflection on you. She simply feels someone else would be a better match.

Big Rig · Jun 19, 2026

newguy2201 said:
Well I had a great experience the other night. Some of you might know that I started seeing SPs in December and was planning to do it one time, but I loved it so much I have been seeing 2-3 a month ever since and having the time of my life.

I had a point where I started realizing that seeing SPs was not going to be enough for me long term, as I am a relationship guy, I love the feeling of reciprocal connection, and being with someone 3-5 hours a month then alone the rest of the time is not going to cut it for me.

Anyways I have been doing this while also on dating apps waiting for an opportunity to come around that I wanted to pursue more than the freedom and excitement i get here

The irony is after spending hundreds of dollars on apps, boosts, likes etc and countless hours swiping and messaging, I went to a friends BBQ the other day and there was a woman there that I was immediately drawn to and couldn't stop checking out

Instead of doing my usual, and using the newfound confidence that seeing SPs had given me, I sat in the circle where she was and introduced myself and we started chatting.

I noticed that she was matching my energy, asking me direct questions, and showing interest. I started asking her more personal questions about her life

At some point I decided I'm going for it and asking her for her number. I then spent the next hour waiting for the other people around us to leave so I could ask her

That never happened but I seized on a moment and asked her anyways. She said yes.

I just had a great text exchange with her tonight and we are going on a date next week.

Its a little bittersweet as if things go well I will have to close this chapter that has brought me such joy

But mostly I have excitement for the future. And it all starts from taking a risk.

Excellent use of thread.

Going forward, remember you're not there to win her over, you're there to see if you two actually click. You do not know if you will yet, she is in same boat.

You have grown, do not lose it.

Zoot Allures · Jun 29, 2026

Some women surprise you as you think no way is she interested in me but as soon as she thinks you are interested she responds with interest

Some show interest before you expressed interest and you are even more very surprised

Some are very attractive physically and some are not

Even though some are not very attractive physically as soon as they express interest you become interested and sometimes not

Some are not interested and that is that so do not think you can have anyone

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