Hi I am disabled Male 29yrs, fully Mobile, looking female to get laid

Good looking disabled looking to fulfill sexual desire like a normal person. I am fully mobile, and open to anything, and hygiene is a must thing, shoot a text, thanks
If you're looking for someone to meet with you, the only thing I can suggest is to leave out "good looking". looks are subjective and I've honestly never been attracted to anyone that said that. Most of them were jerks. Probably because they thought they were good looking 😂

The other thing too is... You should state what your disability is.

I see people with physical disabilities. I see people with extreme physical disabilities. I do not see people with mental impairments. It is a personal preference , and I have seen people who had types of mental delays and i felt terrible about it... for a long time. No amount of money was worth how I felt after.

So letting a provider know what exactly is going on helps them prepare for a session and helps them determine if they are even prepared to provide that service.

I'm not sure what type of disability you're working with , but if it's purely physical... You shouldn't have a difficult time finding someone , but if you are mentally impaired , it could be more of a problem.

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you , but I am saying it can be emotionally difficult for someone so letting them know in advance can help everyone have a good experience.

I'm not saying to pick me by any means , but i am comfortable seeing people with physical disabilities but seeing people with mental disabilities still haunts me to this day. I still think about it and I still hate myself for it.

They were fully independent and functioned like an adult. They held down a regular job and owned their own home , but I would still do anything to take it back.

Just be honest, how you would expect your provider to be honest with you
 

ricco_o

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I'd echo what the previous poster said. It is worth just reaching out to someone you fancy and seeing if you click and if you both can work together towards a good time. I also know there's an excellent provider in montreal (Sonia von Sacher) who has done some awesome work with some guys with some very complex disabilities
 

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I hate to be this blunt, but I should highlight a potential challenge :

Properly participating in this hobby is a largely social affair, where people are expected to communicate well in writing and conduct themselves agreeably in person; it also requires diligence in order to identify and avoid bad faith actors (who are unfortunately common online, especially on unregulated platforms like leolist). If your impairment stunts either of these skills, I would recommend you not partake in this hobby.
 

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I'd echo what the previous poster said. It is worth just reaching out to someone you fancy and seeing if you click and if you both can work together towards a good time. I also know there's an excellent provider in montreal (Sonia von Sacher) who has done some awesome work with some guys with some very complex disabilities
Not sure if I will get in trouble for this but https://theloveable.ca/ check out this website. They are based in Mtl but some of their members are from the Ottawa area and might tour or work out of Ottawa. There are Ladies who do provide services for those with disabilities. Again like everyone above has mentioned, be honest and upfront of your situation and let the Lady decide go or no go. Good luck I hope you find someone and if you have any questions feel free to reach out..... and now newbie rant for those who don't want to read on!!! You have been warned!!

Welcome SS to Terb and Congrats on your first post, we hope you enjoy your stay and add to our collective knowledge and banter (some might call it arguments). Feel free to grab a Moscow Mule at the bar and over to the patio and join us under the patio umbrellas yeah that rain is coming down like cats and dogs! If you have a chance check out the Search Bar (remember it is a tool, not the bible). And remember......it is just a rule of thumb but "no reviews no go"!! WELCOME!!
HB69....was here?!?!? I feel bad that I had to be the one to welcome SS to the board, I thought someone was suppose to pick up my slack?? Never hire an Intern for a full-time job!! "Cheektocheek you have some splaning to do!!"
 

Aak

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Why is the grammar and sentence structure so poor here? You would think well-educated men who are financially secure wouldn't type like a teenage boy.

I'm starting to think this board is full of bored teenagers trying to start something.
 

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Sandy S

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Not sure if I will get in trouble for this but https://theloveable.ca/ check out this website. They are based in Mtl but some of their members are from the Ottawa area and might tour or work out of Ottawa. There are Ladies who do provide services for those with disabilities. Again like everyone above has mentioned, be honest and upfront of your situation and let the Lady decide go or no go. Good luck I hope you find someone and if you have any questions feel free to reach out..... and now newbie rant for those who don't want to read on!!! You have been warned!!

Welcome SS to Terb and Congrats on your first post, we hope you enjoy your stay and add to our collective knowledge and banter (some might call it arguments). Feel free to grab a Moscow Mule at the bar and over to the patio and join us under the patio umbrellas yeah that rain is coming down like cats and dogs! If you have a chance check out the Search Bar (remember it is a tool, not the bible). And remember......it is just a rule of thumb but "no reviews no go"!! WELCOME!!
HB69....was here?!?!? I feel bad that I had to be the one to welcome SS to the board, I thought someone was suppose to pick up my slack?? Never hire an Intern for a full-time job!! "Cheektocheek you have some splaning to do!!"
Sorry I am new to this and still learning, Actuallt I was’t comfortable sharing it on public and expect person with same interest to text privately
 

Tipsyalt

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Sorry I am new to this and still learning, Actuallt I was’t comfortable sharing it on public and expect person with same interest to text privately
Could you provide some info on what particular accommodations you might need (such as level entry, step-in showers, alternative communication devices, light/sound sensitivity, etc)? It would help us narrow down who could be a good fit for you
 

Sandy S

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Could you provide some info on what particular accommodations you might need (such as level entry, step-in showers, alternative communication devices, light/sound sensitivity, etc)? It would help us narrow down who could be a good fit for you
Not require any accommodation or assistance, I am 4.5ft high, and had scoliosis, I am having a regular job, Being short( not like midget ) is making me unattractive thats it,
 

TheShadowKnows

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Not sure if I will get in trouble for this but https://theloveable.ca/ check out this website. They are based in Mtl but some of their members are from the Ottawa area and might tour or work out of Ottawa. There are Ladies who do provide services for those with disabilities. Again like everyone above has mentioned, be honest and upfront of your situation and let the Lady decide go or no go. Good luck I hope you find someone and if you have any questions feel free to reach out..... and now newbie rant for those who don't want to read on!!! You have been warned!!

Welcome SS to Terb and Congrats on your first post, we hope you enjoy your stay and add to our collective knowledge and banter (some might call it arguments). Feel free to grab a Moscow Mule at the bar and over to the patio and join us under the patio umbrellas yeah that rain is coming down like cats and dogs! If you have a chance check out the Search Bar (remember it is a tool, not the bible). And remember......it is just a rule of thumb but "no reviews no go"!! WELCOME!!
HB69....was here?!?!? I feel bad that I had to be the one to welcome SS to the board, I thought someone was suppose to pick up my slack?? Never hire an Intern for a full-time job!! "Cheektocheek you have some splaning to do!!"
Sorry I didn't pick up the slack (I was at the Redblacks game on the patio in the rain) BUT glad you mentioned the Terb patio (and the umbrellas) 😉🤣

TheShadow
 
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Not require any accommodation or assistance, I am 4.5ft high, and had scoliosis, I am having a regular job, Being short( not like midget ) is making me unattractive thats it,
Thank you for clarifying and I would hope you receive a DM from a provider who can accommodate. Perhaps some local providers can respond, or some other Terbites who have knowledge and can get you in touch with someone that would be happy to see you.. Your SMILE should count for a lot if the door is opened by a welcoming lady. LADIES???? Oh, and are you seeking a 'full service' provider, or would you be happy with an MA (massage) provider... the latter an sometimes be a great introduction to sexual activity with less pressure to perform.
 
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Sandy S

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Hi Sandy,

I have had the privilege of seeing a few men with special needs. I had a great time and followed their directions so that I could be there for them. I hope you find someone that will give you pleasure.

Also, don’t ever put yourself down. You are great just for sharing.
Thank you for your kind words and understanding. It truly means a lot to me. People like you who show compassion, patience, and respect can make a real difference in someone’s life. Really appreciate the encouragement, but when you lived a different life everything seems odd to you, and yes everyone deserves respect, happiness, and connection. Wishing you nothing but positivity and good people around you as well.
 

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I have no idea if she provides good service but I just noticed she has it listed that she sees clients with disabilites in ad.


 
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Not require any accommodation or assistance, I am 4.5ft high, and had scoliosis, I am having a regular job, Being short( not like midget ) is making me unattractive thats it,
Seems like it's more of a deformity than a disability. Also the proper term is "little person" not "midget" as that is disrespectful.
You shouldn't have much trouble finding a playmate. Don't be too hard on yourself.

You will have better luck if you mention you have good hygiene rather than good looking in your communication with a provider.
Remember this is not a conventional dating website so your looks don't matter. Hygiene and respect do matter though.

I would recommend getting in touch with any well reviewed Indy providers SP or MA you fancy and let them know about your physical issue so there are no surprises. I'm sure most reputable ladies will not have any issue meeting you.

Whatever you do, don't book any random lady of leolist or other websites even if they mention they cater to disabled people. Too many scammers online so be cautious. Good luck!
 
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