Is hobbying or a girlfriend more expensive?

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The dream scenario , but you need money to make it happen:

Find a decently hot girl, One that’s 35+ (they’re more appreciative). Treat her like gold, But still be dominant and alpha. Go on trips and nice restaurants but make sure she’s aligned with your sexual needs. That’s how she repays you. By fucking the hell out of you on demand. Since you’re so kind and show her such an adventurous and exciting life, she falls for you and her sexual desire for you just becomes part of the relationship dynamic. You guys are in love or in lust , it doesn’t matter. You work as a couple, your needs and wants are being met. Ofcourse all good things come to an end. Her true crazy nature LOL , eventually shows through and the realities of life begin to overshadow the honeymoon of lust and adventure. It will cost you some serious coin but at the end of the day, it’s worth it. Im
Sure many can attest. 😉
 

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I've never had a girlfriend so I'm wondering if anyone has analyzed the pros and cons, financially and emotionally.
How much do you have to spend with a civilian woman? Is the sex and companionship a lot better?
Really depends on the gf/wife/SO. If there high maintenance, wants fancy things, always wants to be taken out etc they can be more expensive then an sp. On the other hand if she is more traditional, laid back, doesnt care for fancy things or going out then hobbying is more expensive. There are pros/cons to both sets of women either civie or hobby.
 

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The dream scenario , but you need money to make it happen:

Find a decently hot girl, One that’s 35+ (they’re more appreciative). Treat her like gold, But still be dominant and alpha. Go on trips and nice restaurants but make sure she’s aligned with your sexual needs. That’s how she repays you. By fucking the hell out of you on demand. Since you’re so kind and show her such an adventurous and exciting life, she falls for you and her sexual desire for you just becomes part of the relationship dynamic. You guys are in love or in lust , it doesn’t matter. You work as a couple, your needs and wants are being met. Ofcourse all good things come to an end. Her true crazy nature LOL , eventually shows through and the realities of life begin to overshadow the honeymoon of lust and adventure. It will cost you some serious coin but at the end of the day, it’s worth it. Im
Sure many can attest. 😉
Are you sure it’s worth it when she divorces you and takes half your stuff,house,kids,car etc?
 

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All it took was common sense. I didn't know if she would do better, but I did know she wouldn't put us into bad debt.

In 10 weeks all debt, mortgage, car loan, CC, will all be clear. With a decent nest egg.
Sounds more like luck than common sense if you didn’t know.
 

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GF or wife is costly financially and wmotionally thats the truth. They both come with a lot of responsibilities.
Hobbying had a toll on your mental and physical health and also not cheap.
Its immoral (I am doing it) , unhealthy and basically exploiting women and treating them as an object.
Hobbying is just a dopamine hit for the lust you are having just like watching porn.
 

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Sounds more like luck than common sense if you didn’t know.
The signs were like there. She is organized, competent, and able to think outside the box. Walked out of college with no debt. Not just educated but knows how to use knowledge.

You can never know. She had a long path and some bosses who mentored her to where she is. Nothing spectacular but above the median. We are also pretty frugal. We aren't overt consumer spenders. That I saw early. And not a bit of mental illness. No emotional breakdowns, crying jags, verbal hostility. No over the top expectations, wedding planning, demands for brands to show off. No comparisons to others lives. Just work and planning for the future.
 

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The dream scenario , but you need money to make it happen:

Find a decently hot girl, One that’s 35+ (they’re more appreciative). Treat her like gold, But still be dominant and alpha. Go on trips and nice restaurants but make sure she’s aligned with your sexual needs. That’s how she repays you. By fucking the hell out of you on demand. Since you’re so kind and show her such an adventurous and exciting life, she falls for you and her sexual desire for you just becomes part of the relationship dynamic. You guys are in love or in lust , it doesn’t matter. You work as a couple, your needs and wants are being met. Ofcourse all good things come to an end. Her true crazy nature LOL , eventually shows through and the realities of life begin to overshadow the honeymoon of lust and adventure. It will cost you some serious coin but at the end of the day, it’s worth it. Im
Sure many can attest. 😉
Nope. The mental torture isn’t worth it. Stay single
The dream scenario , but you need money to make it happen:

Find a decently hot girl, One that’s 35+ (they’re more appreciative). Treat her like gold, But still be dominant and alpha. Go on trips and nice restaurants but make sure she’s aligned with your sexual needs. That’s how she repays you. By fucking the hell out of you on demand. Since you’re so kind and show her such an adventurous and exciting life, she falls for you and her sexual desire for you just becomes part of the relationship dynamic. You guys are in love or in lust , it doesn’t matter. You work as a couple, your needs and wants are being met. Ofcourse all good things come to an end. Her true crazy nature LOL , eventually shows through and the realities of life begin to overshadow the honeymoon of lust and adventure. It will cost you some serious coin but at the end of the day, it’s worth it. Im
Sure many can attest. 😉
nope. Fuck that, stay single. Bank coin, invest and bang hot escorts. Fuck marriage and gifriemds. The mental torture isn’t worth the anguish for the paltry pussy you’d have to beg for.
 

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Nope. The mental torture isn’t worth it. Stay single

nope. Fuck that, stay single. Bank coin, invest and bang hot escorts. Fuck marriage and gifriemds. The mental torture isn’t worth the anguish for the paltry pussy you’d have to beg for.
I’m in my early 50’s , fit and healthy. I have more options for women than I ever did when I was single before marriage. From women as young as 29 (though I know what they want) But I’m not a player. I like being in a loving relationship, even if it doesn’t end up lasting. The sex is just next level. I was never a True Hobbyist , found it way too transactional. I’m not judging though. Just me.
 
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I've never had a girlfriend so I'm wondering if anyone has analyzed the pros and cons, financially and emotionally.
How much do you have to spend with a civilian woman? Is the sex and companionship a lot better?
Have you decided?
 

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I've never had a girlfriend so I'm wondering if anyone has analyzed the pros and cons, financially and emotionally.
How much do you have to spend with a civilian woman? Is the sex and companionship a lot better?
Is a plane ticket more expensive than a car? Is a hotel room more expensive than an apartment? A house? Is a steakhouse more expensive than groceries?
 
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I've dated both civvies and SPs between 20s to early 30s. I would say SPs are more expensive but you get more out of it, i.e. sex multiple times a day when you are together.

Civvie is more affectionate, more real.

I did note that SPs are more appreciative of the gifts and dates. Civvie seems more entitled or that was just my pool of women.
 
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Think about where you are in life right now. Ultimately staying single is best, but you should find that out for yourself, get into relationships and have that experience.

Relationships also teach you about yourself and what you really want, like and most of all what you want from others. Sex is just one part of life. There are so many experiences and pleasures that come from having a relationship, having someone that looks at you with admiration, having someone to reach out to without judgement,.etc..

You should also consider, as you age the kind of help you're going to have. Usually people have kids or a partner to help them out or some kind of support system. It will be doubly hard for you to build that support system as a single man, but it can be done.

If you want to be single for the rest of your life you should definitely focus more on envisioning your life for the long haul.

Life is just not about sex man, shit can happen to anyone.

I'd say get some first hand experience and then decide for yourself. You can't put dollar value on relationships.
 
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