A general info post on men’s curiosities for domme or pegging play

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KatrinnaHendrix

KatrinnaHendrix
Aug 23, 2017
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Delete if not allowed, but I just wanted to make a post out of general curiosity regarding men’s curiosity for pegging or butt play services. I know a lot of other companions inquire to me about this kind of stuff and how to go about it so hopefully this post might give some insight if the gentleman feel comfortable doing so!

This is something I offer and have experience with about 10 years, but I’m just seeking in general how men feel about inquiring about things.

When I was a full-time companion, I would say that 50% of my visits included butt play inquiry or at least curious chit chat.

Fellas, if you didn’t know that the prostate is a pretty magical part of your body and when explored with HJ , etc or other sensations, including toys, it can be pretty mind blowing from what I’ve seen in my experience. And also did you know that men’s inner thighs contain more nerve endings than women which make it a very erogenous zone?

And I understand some people got a little nervous about this kind of thing, but with a really good massage and some soft, gentle whispers anything is possible 😉 prostate play leading to pegging with various sizes of course lots of lube

What are some things that a provider can do to make this experience better for you or do you have any questions regarding how to prepare or I guess if you are curious, what are your hesitations?

Sweet regards,
Katrinna
 
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This kind of thing never did it for me until I had an experience with a provider who was actually good at locating the prostate. Then I understood the hype.
 
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This kind of thing never did it for me until I had an experience with a provider who was actually good at locating the prostate. Then I understood the hype.
I find knowing the human body and also not all autonomy is the same is very important. Some folks have higher butt holes than others and some folks (both men and women) have their g spot further inside sometimes too!

for the providers - it should feel like a textured spot kind of like a walnut texture and it heats up when stimulated ! Best to curve your finger instead of using the wrist to reach it
 
I've tried prostate massage 3 times with different providers expert in this field, and it just didn't work for me with any of them. No pain or discomfort, I just didn't get any extra arousal or stimulus. I found it very distracting. I even lost my erection once.
I do find the area very erogenous, mainly when is stimulated on the outside via rimming (my favorite) or light touching, maybe just a quarter of a finger going in, but that's it.
 
I’ve dabbled. Solo, civilian, pro, finger outside, finger inside, tongue, PM, toys, strap on. For me it usually feels good, but(t) for some odd reason; more intense buttplay can make me go soft. It feels good, but(t) I think it’s just too much stimulation, and becomes counter productive.

Even if you are pretty open minded about it, the butt has a lot of stigma associated with it, and no matter how clean you are, you can get self conscious too.

A solo session with a prostate massage toy can be mind blowing. And once a girl slipped a finger in while blowing me, and within seconds I came so hard I was worried she’d drown. So it can be amazing.

I’m not that into dom/ sub play, so I don’t really see it as an act of submission, more an enhancement of the eroticism of the session.
 
And once a girl slipped a finger in while blowing me, and within seconds I came so hard I was worried she’d drown. So it can be amazing.
Hemi did this to me and it was hard (literally) not to blow my load.
 
For me it,a like Chinese food,after a prostate orgasm, I.m left wanting more.,but it's still good when the girls know how
 
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