Do you take the condom with you afterwards?

Gentleman771 said:

I know athletes/rappers will take the condom with them afterwards. But if we're just a regular guy making $90K/year, do you take the condom with you? Or do you just leave it in the trash bin as instructed. Thoughts?

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Gentleman771 said:

I know athletes/rappers will take the condom with them afterwards. But if we're just a regular guy making $90K/year, do you take the condom with you? Or do you just leave it in the trash bin as instructed. Thoughts?

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• The "Dubay" Case (2005/2009): In a widely cited legal Q&A scenario, a woman (Wells) became pregnant by a client (Dubay) who had explicitly stated he did not want to be a father. Despite the client's objections, the court ordered him to pay child support after a paternity test confirmed he was the father, and this was affirmed on appeal.
• The "Mr. Lilley" Case (2009): A married Melbourne man, referred to as "Mr. Lilley," was ordered to pay child support after a sex worker gave birth to his child. He attempted to argue in court that the sexual encounter was a "consumer transaction" and that the pregnancy was a breach of that contract, but this defense was not recognized as a valid reason to avoid child support.
• Escort's "Large Opportunity" (c. 2013): A former escort shared an account on Reddit of becoming pregnant after a week-long, high-payment arrangement with a wealthy client. While she managed the child's upbringing herself, she noted it was a case of conceiving through sex work.
• Unintended Pregnancy Scenario (2016): A Reddit user shared a story of becoming pregnant after a client allegedly removed a condom during intercourse, resulting in a pregnancy that was discovered at 18 weeks. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]

• Paternity is Key: If a DNA test shows that the child is the client's, he is liable for child support, regardless of whether the sex was paid for.
• Irrelevant Context: Courts generally do not view the prostitution context as a valid defense against child support obligations.
• Damages Defense: Legal advice suggests that while a client is responsible for support, they may theoretically sue for damages in a separate civil case if they were defrauded (e.g., lying about contraception), though this is rarely successful. [1, 2]

king priam said:

Why don't you find out who here other clients are and arrange condom swaps?

Condoms that are super-full of cum and sloppy could be worth a bonus, of course.

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Gentleman771 said:

I know athletes/rappers will take the condom with them afterwards. But if we're just a regular guy making $90K/year, do you take the condom with you? Or do you just leave it in the trash bin as instructed. Thoughts?

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Ahri said:

Funny enough, I had a super paranoid client who would always take his used condom with him after our sessions the first time he did it I was definitely confused until it just became a normal occurrence every time I saw him

No matter the situation he’d finish, wrap it up carefully in a tissue, and bring it with him to the bathroom before leaving

I have no issues with it but I just found it funny lol

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shaneb said:

I do and I have a wall at home where pin each condom and label it to the time, place and name of the whore who made me unload

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jakedasnake said:

Yeah I tie them to a stick and sling the bindle over my shoulder as i walk out like one of those old timey hobos

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TakeOffHoser said:

At First, I was thinking, hell yeah, a girl could fuck you up
I thought about the lyric:

Eighteen years, eighteen years
She got one of your kids, got you for eighteen years
I know somebody payin' child support for one of his kids
His baby mama car and crib is bigger than his

But then after reading some responses about how these girls wouldn’t target a regular guy,, I thought about the next verse:

I know somebody payin' child support for one of his kids
His baby mama car and crib is bigger than his
You will see him on TV any given Sunday
Win the Super Bowl and drive off in a Hyundai
She was supposed to buy your shorty Tyco with your money
She went to the doctor, got lipo with your money
She walkin' 'round lookin' like Michael with your money
Shoulda got that insured, Geico for your money (Money)
If you ain't no punk
Holler, "We want prenup, we want prenup, yeah"
It's somethin' that you need to have
'Cause when she leave yo' ass, she gon' leave with half
Eighteen years, eighteen years
And on the eighteenth birthday, he found out it wasn't his

Is it paranoia, overthinking, delusions of grandeur? Maybe. But then again, whats the downside of wrapping it up and disposing it off site? Or pull a Drake and bring hot sauce.

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PartyGirls said:

Don't get too comfortable, guys.

This is what AI says:


What the Law Says
If a pregnancy results from a consensual encounter with a sex worker, the client is responsible for supporting his child. The court may also determine a parent’s suitability for custody if they continue to engage in sex work, sometimes prioritizing the other parent for custody based on providing a stable environment. [1, 2, 3]



Legal cases and personal accounts exist where sex workers have become pregnant by clients ("johns") and subsequently received child support. Generally, family law focuses on the welfare of the child rather than the circumstances of conception, meaning paternity, if proven via DNA test, establishes a legal obligation for support. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
Here are examples and scenarios based on legal discussions and reports:

• The "Dubay" Case (2005/2009): In a widely cited legal Q&A scenario, a woman (Wells) became pregnant by a client (Dubay) who had explicitly stated he did not want to be a father. Despite the client's objections, the court ordered him to pay child support after a paternity test confirmed he was the father, and this was affirmed on appeal.
• The "Mr. Lilley" Case (2009): A married Melbourne man, referred to as "Mr. Lilley," was ordered to pay child support after a sex worker gave birth to his child. He attempted to argue in court that the sexual encounter was a "consumer transaction" and that the pregnancy was a breach of that contract, but this defense was not recognized as a valid reason to avoid child support.
• Escort's "Large Opportunity" (c. 2013): A former escort shared an account on Reddit of becoming pregnant after a week-long, high-payment arrangement with a wealthy client. While she managed the child's upbringing herself, she noted it was a case of conceiving through sex work.
• Unintended Pregnancy Scenario (2016): A Reddit user shared a story of becoming pregnant after a client allegedly removed a condom during intercourse, resulting in a pregnancy that was discovered at 18 weeks. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]

Legal Realities in These Cases:

• Paternity is Key: If a DNA test shows that the child is the client's, he is liable for child support, regardless of whether the sex was paid for.
• Irrelevant Context: Courts generally do not view the prostitution context as a valid defense against child support obligations.
• Damages Defense: Legal advice suggests that while a client is responsible for support, they may theoretically sue for damages in a separate civil case if they were defrauded (e.g., lying about contraception), though this is rarely successful. [1, 2]

Disclaimer: The cases mentioned are based on search results from legal advice forums and news reports, reflecting that paternity, not the nature of the transaction, dictates child support obligations.

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dolladolla said:

Not really no, I usually just flush them.

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