I've had this account a long time but never posted here; my activity has been on the "blue board." However, that site is almost completely fallen apart, so it's time to just focus on TERB. This is my first post here, I think. I'm motivated to do so due to recent discussion of long-time Cambridge visitor SexiiJane. The original post appears to have been removed.
I saw Jane today, and have seen her once before, about 4-5 years ago, at the Super 8. I didn't return in between because the Super 8 is so sketchy. But she's moved to a nearby location now which is better, so I decided to visit her again.
Jane is a good provider, but your mileage will vary depending on how closely you adhere to her rules. And she won't be everyone's cup of tea, but that's true of just about every provider.
Anyway, I'll provide my basic review, and then my tips on how to have a rewarding experience with her. I booked an hour, with greek ($260). When I came in, I asked if she wanted me to wash my hands, take a shower, etc. This is standard for me when I visit a provider, especially if I haven't seen them recently. I do so for several reasons. First, it's just polite. Second, by adjusting to what the provider needs from me, I help ensure that I will receive a good experience. Third, it signals that I'm going to respect the provider's wishes, which helps put them at greater ease.
Jane asked me to wash my hands. She said if I had recently had a shower (which I indeed had), then I didn't need to take a full shower, but she requested that I do a quick touch-up of my private parts, either in the shower or with a wash cloth. I did so, and also asked if I could use her mouthwash (since I realized I had forgotten to brush my teeth before leaving to see her). She gave me a cup to use with that, and also used the mouthwash herself.
Compared to some providers I have known, Jane is a little shy or standoffish at first. I had experienced this during my first visit as well. I think some people may interpret this as coldness, but she's not unfriendly. She simply isn't bubbly and effusive. I imagine that more nervous clients may have some difficulty making a connection. Because I knew this already, I took a few minutes to chat with her right away, to establish a friendlier mood. That went well, and we progressed to french kissing while she stroked me to get me hard. She went to give me a BBBJ, asking that I not CIM, but I told her that I prefer safety, so she put on a condom. That went well, and I was ready to move to the next step. She offered various positions, and I went with missionary, as I expected to do doggy with greek for my second pop. Jane is tight and it felt pretty damn good.
After cleaning up, I asked her to give me a massage while I recharged. She doesn't have any particular massage skills, but she did her best, and it gave us the opportunity to chat further. I asked her about travel, and when she said she likes to read, I asked about that too. She ended up sharing some quite personal challenges, which I won't share details on. We also talked about problematic encounters she's had with clients and why they happen. She was a good conversationalist and I appreciated our discussion.
We hit the hour mark, but Jane was concerned that I had paid for greek and wouldn't end up getting it. So, instead of kicking me out, she started in on another CBJ. When I was ready we moved to greek. Afterward, I cleaned up again, and we chatted until I left.
So, I had a successful encounter, where I received all the services I had asked for, didn't have any conflict with her, and went away satisfied. Why did this go well for me, when some other people have reported disappointment? It comes down to that I took the time to be respectful, and I have significant experience with providers. Thus I didn't make rookie mistakes that might've endangered my experience.
I showered shortly before seeing her, and put on clean clothes. When contacting her, I was polite, described myself accurately, asked if she was available for an hour, and stated the specific services I was seeking. When I arrived, I asked her what further hygiene practices she would like me to perform in order to meet her standards, and did them. When I got to the bed, I didn't simply pounce, but took the time to establish a bit of rapport. When talking with her, I was confident, curious, and listened. During the physical stuff I let her take the initial lead so she could get into her groove, then steered things lightly with direct communication. I made it clear at multiple points that I would stay within her safety limits, and would not push for services she had stated were outside her limitations. I cleaned myself up between events to maintain my hygiene, and didn't try to overstay.
That's basically all it takes, with Jane or practically any other provider. If you can do these things well, you're going to have a good time. If you can't do them, you'll need to move down to a lower service tier, with providers who can't afford to stick to their limits. With these guidelines, I was able to get everything I wanted, experienced no rudeness, rushing, or phone distraction, and was invited to return.
I saw Jane today, and have seen her once before, about 4-5 years ago, at the Super 8. I didn't return in between because the Super 8 is so sketchy. But she's moved to a nearby location now which is better, so I decided to visit her again.
Jane is a good provider, but your mileage will vary depending on how closely you adhere to her rules. And she won't be everyone's cup of tea, but that's true of just about every provider.
Anyway, I'll provide my basic review, and then my tips on how to have a rewarding experience with her. I booked an hour, with greek ($260). When I came in, I asked if she wanted me to wash my hands, take a shower, etc. This is standard for me when I visit a provider, especially if I haven't seen them recently. I do so for several reasons. First, it's just polite. Second, by adjusting to what the provider needs from me, I help ensure that I will receive a good experience. Third, it signals that I'm going to respect the provider's wishes, which helps put them at greater ease.
Jane asked me to wash my hands. She said if I had recently had a shower (which I indeed had), then I didn't need to take a full shower, but she requested that I do a quick touch-up of my private parts, either in the shower or with a wash cloth. I did so, and also asked if I could use her mouthwash (since I realized I had forgotten to brush my teeth before leaving to see her). She gave me a cup to use with that, and also used the mouthwash herself.
Compared to some providers I have known, Jane is a little shy or standoffish at first. I had experienced this during my first visit as well. I think some people may interpret this as coldness, but she's not unfriendly. She simply isn't bubbly and effusive. I imagine that more nervous clients may have some difficulty making a connection. Because I knew this already, I took a few minutes to chat with her right away, to establish a friendlier mood. That went well, and we progressed to french kissing while she stroked me to get me hard. She went to give me a BBBJ, asking that I not CIM, but I told her that I prefer safety, so she put on a condom. That went well, and I was ready to move to the next step. She offered various positions, and I went with missionary, as I expected to do doggy with greek for my second pop. Jane is tight and it felt pretty damn good.
After cleaning up, I asked her to give me a massage while I recharged. She doesn't have any particular massage skills, but she did her best, and it gave us the opportunity to chat further. I asked her about travel, and when she said she likes to read, I asked about that too. She ended up sharing some quite personal challenges, which I won't share details on. We also talked about problematic encounters she's had with clients and why they happen. She was a good conversationalist and I appreciated our discussion.
We hit the hour mark, but Jane was concerned that I had paid for greek and wouldn't end up getting it. So, instead of kicking me out, she started in on another CBJ. When I was ready we moved to greek. Afterward, I cleaned up again, and we chatted until I left.
So, I had a successful encounter, where I received all the services I had asked for, didn't have any conflict with her, and went away satisfied. Why did this go well for me, when some other people have reported disappointment? It comes down to that I took the time to be respectful, and I have significant experience with providers. Thus I didn't make rookie mistakes that might've endangered my experience.
I showered shortly before seeing her, and put on clean clothes. When contacting her, I was polite, described myself accurately, asked if she was available for an hour, and stated the specific services I was seeking. When I arrived, I asked her what further hygiene practices she would like me to perform in order to meet her standards, and did them. When I got to the bed, I didn't simply pounce, but took the time to establish a bit of rapport. When talking with her, I was confident, curious, and listened. During the physical stuff I let her take the initial lead so she could get into her groove, then steered things lightly with direct communication. I made it clear at multiple points that I would stay within her safety limits, and would not push for services she had stated were outside her limitations. I cleaned myself up between events to maintain my hygiene, and didn't try to overstay.
That's basically all it takes, with Jane or practically any other provider. If you can do these things well, you're going to have a good time. If you can't do them, you'll need to move down to a lower service tier, with providers who can't afford to stick to their limits. With these guidelines, I was able to get everything I wanted, experienced no rudeness, rushing, or phone distraction, and was invited to return.
