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Sundercover

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I've given this some more thought... and I come to this:
1) If I want to protect myself from getting too attached it would really be better to go for variety rather than depth... keep looking for new girls rather than keep going back to what I know
2) But but but... I love getting to know a girl, building trust, and really make it feel deeper as we get to know each other. And with that come stronger feelings. Which adds to the intensity of it all. And the danger of falling harder for one than I should.

For me, I can't resist 2) I've learned lol ... but I know I can return to 1) to soothe myself if I need to if I overdo it with letting myself get drawn in too far.
Have fun guys! Whatever your fun is! :) - and if it isn't, change something or take a break!
 
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TheRiddlerMan

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I've made friends this way; I remember Michelle MA (15 years ago or so, Prince of Wales area for those who might remember her). I used to look forward to just hanging out and talking with her as much as the session itself.

I've never fallen for anyone though. They're selling an experience, it's fun while it lasts but I try to keep it in perspective.
 
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If it makes you guys who tends to fall in love feel any better, I once friendzoned a very well regarded MA. I used to see her quite often at the end of her shift and after our romp I’d drive her home. One regular thing she did was make me stop at some gas station on our way to her place and she’d ask me to throw out all the gifts she’d receive that day: treats, toys, artwork and poems (often painstakingly crafted with love), even cheap jewellery. It was eye opening. She lived at home with her parents and there was no way she could explain all the stuff she’d get so into the bin it went.

Yes, they are selling an experience. Don’t get carried away.
 
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Mandalorian said:
If it makes you guys who tends to fall in love feel any better, I once friendzoned a very well regarded MA. I used to see her quite often at the end of her shift and after our romp I’d drive her home. One regular thing she did was make me stop at some gas station on our way to her place and she’d ask me to throw out all the gifts she’d receive that day: treats, toys, artwork and poems (often painstakingly crafted with love), even cheap jewellery. It was eye opening. She lived at home with her parents and there was no way she could explain all the stuff she’d get so into the bin it went.

Yes, they are selling an experience. Don’t get carried away.
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A very poinent example of where your gifts ends up. I almost never bring anything unless I have gotten to know the person and it's always an experience. Like a shared whole Durian or bubble teas together.
 
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Mandalorian said:
If it makes you guys who tends to fall in love feel any better, I once friendzoned a very well regarded MA. I used to see her quite often at the end of her shift and after our romp I’d drive her home. One regular thing she did was make me stop at some gas station on our way to her place and she’d ask me to throw out all the gifts she’d receive that day: treats, toys, artwork and poems (often painstakingly crafted with love), even cheap jewellery. It was eye opening. She lived at home with her parents and there was no way she could explain all the stuff she’d get so into the bin it went.

Yes, they are selling an experience. Don’t get carried away.
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is she retired or still on ll?
 
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