… And not in a good way! LolSounds like she fucked you one last time.
… And not in a good way! LolSounds like she fucked you one last time.
I laugh my ass off every time I see a dude getting hitched because its an easy 75% chance its gonna happen. Or divorce. Or both!Wait what! How did I miss this thread until know. 42, married, 2 kids, post y2k hooked up with a married coworker. Carried on for a year. See left her husband and me. Guess she wanted a fresh start.
Next was another coworker/friend. We hooked up about 6 times.
Last was another coworker but our careers had us move around. We would have faux work trips and hook up at some hotel somewhere. Worked remotely, fucked, had dinner and drinks, fucked, slept, fucked. Rinse and repeat for a few days. This lasted 8 years. Niagara, Muskoka, London, even did Banff. It was a amazing experience.
Afterwards, moved to playing with ladies who practiced this art. Now.. bounce around a stable of 3 lovely ladies.
If you ask me, it's a selection problem. Some men are willing to get married without vetting their partners for compatibility. Having a backbone and calling women out on their BS goes a long way especially if you set precedence/boundaries in early stages of dating.I laugh my ass off every time I see a dude getting hitched because its an easy 75% chance its gonna happen. Or divorce. Or both!
that sounds like 98% of poly men. They aren’t getting shit and just accept it. Its just a nicer way to call themselves a cuckI'm not sure if I could handle or wanna be with a married women who was cheating. So far these 2 are poly and open so their hubby know.
I asked the one also if he'd consider a 3 sum or watching and she said no. He wants no part of it. He's even fine with men coming over at their place while he's away and having fun lol.
He himself for now just flirts with ladies online and hasn't done much poly play.
Exactly why with the 2 chicks I had things with fell apart. They also became insanely jealous and I would laugh being like you are married and having an affair!Must admit I have done this more than once, having some of the best sex in my entire life. 2 women wanted me to “introduce” them to anal (one didn’t like it - tho she loved my cum in/ on her anywhere else, the other basically became addicted to it).
The problem is each time led to the catching of feelings and a more serious “affair”. While the moments together were amazing, it wasn’t until after the relationship ended that I realized how incredibly stressful and taxing maintaining such a relationship is with the sneaking around, planning meetings then those plans falling through, jealousy Etc. Having someone who absolutely can’t get enough of you, who you can have amazing, wild, uninhibited sex with, is like heroin, and it makes you blind to all of the downsides. Not even considering the moral issues (which i conveniently ignored) I have concluded it’s not worth it, and have avoided repeating the same mistakes.





