All sounds great, except for the obvious.
80 percent of guys go for 20 percent of women.
A certain percentage of those 20 percent do sex work, and thank god for them.
But a John group is the worst group of guys to encourage to go make small talk to the really hot blonde chick buying pickles at the grocery store. Admire her, fantasize about her, and unless she really sends out a strong signal in response to your smile, for most guys here, just remember this cute song, Wish I Knew You When I Was Young.
But even if you are young, here is the reality of the cold approach. This photo of travelers waiting at JFK Airport is in several articles.
The Department of Homeland Security reversed course, saying TSA PreCheck remains operational despite the government shutdown.
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Take a close look. Yes, the lady in the forefront is young and hot. A couple of relatively older ladies, can’t tell if the African-American lady with her face turned away is hot, and the darker-skinned lady in the back of the area isn’t looking at the camera so she is hard to gauge.
Okay, you optimistic studs, where do you go from here with respect to the women in the photo if you arrive at the gate? They are all glued to their phones and many have headphones or earbuds in. Which one do you pick? Do you sit across from one of them, especially the really cute one in the forefront and keep smiling at her in hopes that she looks up from her phone? Maybe eventually you say you eventually say you are going for food and ask her if she wants anything. But you probably need to make it a 15-30 minute process to avoid being obvious. And most likely she never looks up from her phone to acknowledge your planned and obvious smile.
All this stuff in the first few posts sounds great, but is basically impossible to put into practice in today’s world.