When do you make your appointments

PenguinPete said:

I’ve learned through experience I can only book spontaneously, whenever I’ve tried to schedule ahead in this hobby I always end up cancelling. Given the time to think about it I always come to the conclusion my time and money can be better spent (honestly probably after a jerk).

Now I’ve never really regretted hobbying and I realize I’m missing out on seeing some amazing women by not being able to schedule ahead, but this is just how it is for me. I’m curious about other people’s habits.

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Gotta do what best works for you!! My life I have to schedule......too many issues if i don't set a time and specific date. Has worked well for me!!
HB69....was here!?!? Been waiting for a month to see someone at this point and still 2 more weeks to go!!!

Would actually love to hear feedback from providers on this topic. Personally, I like to book a day before, or the morning of to allow providers to organize the eir day, as well as my own. Also gives me the time and flexibility to pivot if schedules don’t align, rather than feeling desperate.

For a retiree, I have a rather busy life...but in a good way. Therefore, when I'm in the mood for OR in need of a good massage and perhaps some extras, I usually like to book a visit 1 day in advance, sometimes 2, to ensure the MA's availability.

I have a few MAs that I consider regulars and we're usually able to agree on a time that suits us both. And occasionally when I wander off the beaten path, I usually have the same success with new acquaintances.

I don't ever remember booking same day or last minute or more than 2 days in advance.

PenguinPete said:

I’ve learned through experience I can only book spontaneously, whenever I’ve tried to schedule ahead in this hobby I always end up cancelling. Given the time to think about it I always come to the conclusion my time and money can be better spent (honestly probably after a jerk).

Now I’ve never really regretted hobbying and I realize I’m missing out on seeing some amazing women by not being able to schedule ahead, but this is just how it is for me. I’m curious about other people’s habits.

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I also feel the same way.

I love booking ahead of time so I can look forward to it for a few days...

When I’m horny

Almost always pre-book. I want days (even weeks sometimes) of that sweet, sweet anticipation shooting straight into my veins.

johnnyonthespot said:

Almost always pre-book. I want days (even weeks sometimes) of that sweet, sweet anticipation shooting straight into my veins.

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Same thing... I enjoy the anticipation, prep (long slow relaxing bath or shower), manscaping, and (now in my 70's) a visit with 'Alice'... I always see Alice.... 'Cialis' before my sessions... so I can rise to the occasion. If booking days ahead, it's important that your provider has a proven record of keeping appointments. Wasting and dealing with Alice in your system for 3 days can be very 'hard' to deal with.

Both. Some are hard to book on same day so I have to book early.

HotDot said:

Would actually love to hear feedback from providers on this topic. Personally, I like to book a day before, or the morning of to allow providers to organize the eir day, as well as my own. Also gives me the time and flexibility to pivot if schedules don’t align, rather than feeling desperate.

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One day notice is usually preferred for me, it weeds out the horndogs texting with their dick in hand and getting off on the fantasy of booking, then not showing up to said booking

However, I don't mind booking a regular client for same day appointment. Couple hours of notice is best, but sometimes even an hour will do.

guy112233 said:

Both. Some are hard to book on same day so I have to book early.

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Some are impossible to book unless you book early.

Great question and so helpful to think about.

I take both prebooked appointments and last minute dates. Generally, I need to book the night before at the latest for time earlier in the day, the reason is that I need a minimum of two hours to prepare myself and my space to host and if I don't have a booking I won't likely make all that effort and might decide to sleep in, wash my hair or do a beautycare appointment instead. I can accommodate last minute dates though if I'm already up and ready and meeting same day with a few hours notice is usually ok if I'm not already booked.

I know clients don't like to reach out until they’re sure but to maximize chances to meet, I welcome a heads up before—even if you're not yet firm so I can organize myself.

I can be a bit hard to pin down because I travel Jan-April, June-September and a couple of weeks in November. This year I'm visiting at least 15 cities in Canada and have expanded to international touring so only in Ottawa around four months, possibly less. But I try to make myself available seven days a week otherwise preferring to take a long break over the winter for a complete reset.

There are definitely two types of clients, those with spontaneous free time and urges and those who like to lock down their dates and plan so it only makes sense for me to try and accommodate both. The one type of client who can be maddening is one who books last minute but can’t seem to organize themselves to plan for traffic, the time it takes to send a deposit or even leaving me enough time to do my final prep. I don't like to race into a date but be calm and fully present. When everything is clean and organized, I'm not mentally distracted and can focus on us which makes for a much better date.

This is one of the big reasons that I moved away from doing short bookings and working high volume, many days I felt like an air traffic controller trying to bring in all the planes on time. It suits me so much better to be calm and not rush my dates. I also want to know I can meet your expectations and allowing enough time ensures I can.

Another type of request that rarely works out is a last minute outcall. Outcalls to a private residence require an excellent reference for safety, take extra time to prepare, pack a bag and travel. I also require at least a 90min booking and maybe longer if it's far. So it's best to write well ahead to organize all this and at least 3-4 hours ahead even for an outcall to a hotel.

Boring stuff huh?! It takes a lot thought and planning to run a great escort business and be the type of companion who can deliver the mail consistently. It takes a lot of energy and emotional regulation to have the fire to do this. We have to invest a lot back into ourselves to make it all happen but sometimes it's pure magic reminding me why I love this industry so much.

Last minute, when I want the tingle!

Glad to hear that I am not alone with last minute bookings and didn't realize how common it is. I usually try to book after I have left the house, transitioning between work and appointments or other hobbies. This leaves me with just a one to three hour window to find a provider and complete a session. Like many in this forum, I have to be discreet and I am unable to book ahead of time for a couple of reasons. As some of you stated, the anticipation of an advanced booked creates a sense of excitement. That, for me, I'm certain would change my behaviour around my SO, colleagues etc. and would cause me serious anxiety. And I'd hate to cancel last minute because of a change in my schedule, my mood or just getting cold feet. Canceling wouldn't be fair to any provider. Having read the all comments, I will continue to try to book well in advance as best as I can.

On the day of, when I know my schedule is clear, nothing will come up, and I'm in the mood.

I usually have one or two backups that I will message if Plan A doesn't work out.

I tend to message when a lady puts her ad up, on the theory that she's available. I look to arrange something within a few hours; that afternoon or evening. I know that some ladies operate differently, but bugging someone when she's doing other things in her life (or dinging a phone that's sitting turned off in a drawer) isn't my first choice. And I'm financially independent, so my time is much more flexible than some.

Same day when I'm in the mood. Rarely prebook because with my luck it usually doesn't work out. Either something comes up on my end or the provider cancels.
However sometimes I wish I had prebooked when a provider is in town on a short tour and fully booked.

I always do duos, always with one lady I know and one new lady, so scheduling takes time. Also, I'm very busy with work, so I can't really be spontaneous. I usually reach out a month beforehand to get the do organized.

It's a long wait, sometimes too long, but the good part is that with that much lead time the ladies can organize themselves do to some fun extras that aren't possible in a last minute appointment. A lot of the time you can tell they've spent a phonecall or two coordinating things and/or outfits, and it's great.

-Peter

HotDot said:

Would actually love to hear feedback from providers on this topic. Personally, I like to book a day before, or the morning of to allow providers to organize the eir day, as well as my own. Also gives me the time and flexibility to pivot if schedules don’t align, rather than feeling desperate.

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I feel like if you want a guaranteed time and date with a provider you should probably book ahead . I tend to feel bad if I can’t fit people into my schedule . But mainly for convenience I’d say prebooking is best , and easiest . Last minute bookings are always great if timing works out and isn’t rushed!