It goes both ways. There are ladies that up charge for everything. Constantly nag you in session to buy extras.
SP under $250 in Ottawa
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Every time someone negotiates with me and I respectfully tell them “unfortunately that doesn’t work for me, but there are many lovely ladies on LL that have these price points” it’s like I’ve become the bitch after or I’m rude - like why doesn’t it have to be me, choose someone else
You misunderstood my post completly. In some businesses such as landscaping which is construction, price negotiation is part of the contracting process. I could go into granular details explaining why but this convo would become even more of a snooze-fest. I think you also missed my point about corners likely getting cut, the profit has to come from somewhere.
If you don't understand negotiations are innappropriate in many other contexts including fees for services. especially those where there is a fixed hourly rate I don't know how to help you. I already explained why and that should be enough.
Providers have different touring rates because touring changes our expenses and labour. Some display different rates in ads to attract eyeballs on specific platforms but the fees are the same as their website when you write. Others are maybe running a promotion for certain dates or with prebooking. MP is a different service so of course it’s a different rate. None of this means fees are negotiable.
Maybe it's a “game” for you and possibly even for some SPs but a lot of us run ourselves as a professional, straightforward business where we are not looking for players and manipulators. That kind of stress is not for me. We spend many hours researching and running numbers to come up with our rates, they're not random and we have already posted what we are willing and able to offer. Rest assured, if the market or other factors shift things, we will surely adjust. We do not need clients writing us informing us that we should do so!
The fact you're assuming it's all a big game is disrespectful in itself. The games belong in the bedroom, not when you’re writing someone to convince them you’re a safe and respectful client we might want to share some intimate time with. Step one is respecting our policies, boundaries and not acting like it’s all a big goof.
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Jesus some of you guys are treating providers like you were buying a used garden hose off FB marketplace. Embarrassing.
Theredmilf is spot on. If you can’t afford it, that’s on you. If you think it’s not worth the price of admission, move on. Holy smokes some of you make this more complicated than it is.
Theredmilf is spot on. If you can’t afford it, that’s on you. If you think it’s not worth the price of admission, move on. Holy smokes some of you make this more complicated than it is.
Many ladies are removing that option as they are finding it more work than it’s worth. It’s been discussed before.
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Hobbying is not something you are entitled to or meant for those budget minded. Also sp are not obligated to make themselves affordable to anyone. If you are looking to pinch Pennie’s with rates then you should really lower your expectations as well and not complain about what you would consider a lacklustre experience when it happens.
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Price doesn't equate service level. I've tried some of the $400-500 hour ladies before. Honestly I had more fun with some MA and a hand job for $180-200 hour.
Find a lady you click with that you think is reasonable priced for your income. Don't waste your or the ladies time if they are out of range
Find a lady you click with that you think is reasonable priced for your income. Don't waste your or the ladies time if they are out of range
I couldn't agree more, not all but most encounters I've had w ddg where face is 15/10, was actually brutal
Now you're pushing past Spinal Tap levels and I don't think science allows for more than 11
Sorry
This us 2026 not 2020
Inflation & cost of living have skyrocketed.
Expenses for SPs has drastically increased whether running an incall or touring. Hotel rooms have gotten goofy since Covid. Fuel to travel....
It's a hobby, play within your budget. I've been hobbying for over 20yrs, my budget or spending limit has changed over the years.
When I started it was $120-150 for 1hr, then 180, then 200, 220, 250..... see the trend.
I still enjoy the hobby but not as often. Formally 12-24 times a year vs 8-12 now with prices 300 & up in the larger cities. Yes you might find a gem on LL, BUT very rare. There are a few trusted websites & check multiple spots. Smaller cities have a few gems under 300.... Just not in the larger centers.
DO NOT negotiate with a SP, your not buying a car, house, etc. We are talking human contact with you. You can't negotiate with Starbucks Tim's or any other restaurant. Don't try it with a SP.
You know your old at this hobby, when you recall SPs offering grandfather pricing as prices went up. Now that I'm a grandfather that's no longer offered sadly..... if it was, I'd be back hobbying over 15-20 times a year or more
This us 2026 not 2020
Inflation & cost of living have skyrocketed.
Expenses for SPs has drastically increased whether running an incall or touring. Hotel rooms have gotten goofy since Covid. Fuel to travel....
It's a hobby, play within your budget. I've been hobbying for over 20yrs, my budget or spending limit has changed over the years.
When I started it was $120-150 for 1hr, then 180, then 200, 220, 250..... see the trend.
I still enjoy the hobby but not as often. Formally 12-24 times a year vs 8-12 now with prices 300 & up in the larger cities. Yes you might find a gem on LL, BUT very rare. There are a few trusted websites & check multiple spots. Smaller cities have a few gems under 300.... Just not in the larger centers.
DO NOT negotiate with a SP, your not buying a car, house, etc. We are talking human contact with you. You can't negotiate with Starbucks Tim's or any other restaurant. Don't try it with a SP.
You know your old at this hobby, when you recall SPs offering grandfather pricing as prices went up. Now that I'm a grandfather that's no longer offered sadly..... if it was, I'd be back hobbying over 15-20 times a year or more
This!
Honestly, idk why people always derail this kind of threads into complains about why some SP charges so much, or if they're "not that hot" or that "good".
They can create a post about "what do you think is a fair price for full service" or whatever, and pour all their gripes and grumbles there.
Value is 100 percent subjective. Do I want to spend time with the likes of gorgeous Ruby lust, Lucie Laflamme, Sasha May, etc? Oh yeah, but I won't bother them until I can afford her rates, not the other way around. Hell, maybe there is a chance where we might just won't click and the experience won't be what I was expectimg, but that doesn't mean their service is not worth their value.
In the meantime I just would like to have a trustworthy list of providers that fit my current budget and their service is solid. That's all.
Peace.
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Bless to you sweetheart, and you know if I didn't have kids, a mortgage and “retirement” breathing down my neck I could probably get a little more goofy myself on the business side of things but I have such a small runway for me & learned through the school of hard knocks I have to take care of myself first and fill my own cup up to have enough to give to others, especially if I want longevity. Yes I do dream of being a sexy and loving GILF one day!
I have so much respect for you guys who respect us and try to promote great behaviour on both sides. We are blessed with so many queens, you can definitely find those you match with and let the sparks fly.
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Cristina is $200 hh, $400 h
No pennies in circulation any more, so impossible to pinch them. Nowadays we're talking real dollars.
Yes, please.
Low cost is part of what I makes this fun and casual for me.
I've done many high-end dates, some were amazing, some 'meh.'
But for me the pleasure is in a casual, fun, inexpensive hookup. (I often like the women so much that I tip back to market rates...)
But anyway, back to the beautiful women.
Two more indies with great rates that I've recently met and had a great time with:
Roxanne (was Roxy Blonde)
$weet
