Ahri’s - Ask Me Anything!

Dave in Phoenix · Mar 26, 2026

inmyname said:
I'd certainly suggest ETFs tracking the index. I stick with tracking the S&P500. And buy stocks of businesses if you're very very interested in doing the research and work.

A bit off topic, but I have been in the investment business for 50 years from a CPA background and never recommend ETFs or a "dumb" index. With ETFs, you don't own anything other than participation units, and the Authorized Participants are not like stock market makers. APs have no obligation to create more units for lots of sellers, and of course, the spread can vary, and they don't really know how much the AP is making (lots).

The risk was shown in the 2009 financial crash when some ETFs executed sell orders at $0.01/share since no AP or buyer was willing to take the bid side. I believe it was the first time the SEC ever stepped in to reverse some of the no-bid $0.01/share sales. It is more complicated but I would never recommend an ETF or "dumb" index to a client.

harrypalm · Mar 26, 2026

Dave in Phoenix said:
A bit off topic, but I have been in the investment business for 50 years from a CPA background and never recommend ETFs or a "dumb" index. With ETFs, you don't own anything other than participation units, and the Authorized Participants are not like stock market makers. APs have no obligation to create more units for lots of sellers, and of course, the spread can vary, and they don't really know how much the AP is making (lots).

The risk was shown in the 2009 financial crash when some ETFs executed sell orders at $0.01/share since no AP or buyer was willing to take the bid side. I believe it was the first time the SEC ever stepped in to reverse some of the no-bid $0.01/share sales. It is more complicated but I would never recommend an ETF or "dumb" index to a client.

What are you recommending then?

Ahri · Mar 27, 2026

Hey guys I’m back!!!

sorry I neglected this thread for a bit I just got real busy with some IRL stuff!!

kherg007 said:
Ahri - is it true that 2 tongues = 1 toy?

Yes two tongues are definitely better than one toy.. I’m still thinking about our FFM threesome AC was such a hot girl can’t wait to play with her again in the future

I’m patiently waiting to get my pussy eaten and ass ate the same time again

this probably has been the best FFM work threesome I ever had thanks again @kherg007 for making it happen!

psykick456 said:
What do the exits from the industry typically look like?

I imagine there are a lot of gals that are asking themselves "What does my life look like at 40?"

like what is the general life plan for SPs in terms of exit ops?

I don’t know when I will quit the industry but I do plan on starting my own business in the future along while working this job

I really enjoy this job and working with SFT for the last couple years have been great and I really got no complaints about work.

In terms of exit plan I did finish a degree in university that I still have not used so I do plan on hopefully using that degree at some point

I mean there are SPs here who are smoking hot and working up to their 40s/50s not necessarily saying I will be working this job until then but it’s reassuring to know there are ladies still killing it in their later years

misterblueballs said:
Hi,
@Ahri or anyone here; do you like to remain friends with those you connect with or does that cross an unspoken boundary that is needed to remain professional?

oh, and what's the meaning of life?

I can’t answer the meaning of life but…. I can answer your other question LOL

Yes of course

I have a few of my regulars’ numbers, and I text them here and there to keep in touch even if they haven’t seen me in a while. Sure, there are a few creeps and weirdos on here, but honestly the majority of the guys I’ve met have been amazing and nothing but respectful.

I’ll answer the remaining questions later during the weekend as always feel free to ask anything nothing is off limits

Lucas Meyer · Mar 27, 2026

Hey Ahri! I was wondering if we could get another club-outfit pic if you’re comfortable with that I know the other guys here would love too see more of you outside of your lingerie photos on X/Bluesky

Also, are you getting into any new hobbies lately?

harrypalm · Mar 28, 2026

When Ahri exits she can create a niche podcast as she has quite a community.
She can be anonymous behind the mic and call it "behind the bookings".

My q: Ahri, have you ever played League of Legends?

Knuckle Ball · Mar 28, 2026

Ahri said:
I can’t answer the meaning of life but…. I can answer your other question LOL

…

Ahri:

Why can’t you tell us the meaning of life? Why are you withholding this info from us? LOL

SERIOUSLY, though, what is your best take on this question? Just wondering?

Ahri · Mar 30, 2026

Happy Monday everyone

Finally! It’s starting to warm up in the city thank God!!!

Goodoer said:
MFM is super fun. Everyone should try it.

While MFM can be a lot of fun, I’d only suggest trying it if you’re genuinely looking for something different from your usual 1on1 experiences.

I had a great time with my MFM experience, but I totally get the downside you’re paying the same amount to share your SP with another guy

. At least with FFM, all the attention goes straight to you but with that being said if you never tried a MFM before it’s worth to try at least once

ethan carter said:
Ahri I know you mentioned you went to swinger/sex clubs before would you ever consider going to a swinger resort like hedo?

Yes I would!!! I would actually love to go with some girls to Hedo the problem is I don’t know much girlies willing to go with me

I have been interested in going to a swinger resort/cruise for a while now but I would only go with a bigger group of people I know well.

victoryformation said:
I'm an unabashed, unrepentant DATOer (with Reddi Wip)!
In your experience ... what % of mongers are so inclined?

Hmmmm I would say 30-40% of people that see me are DATO lovers

but I do think that it is only because I always mention how much I love DATO on me

I love it when I’m someone’s first DATO experience it puts a smile on my face to pop someone’s DATO cherry

Dave in Phoenix said:
Wow, what an intelligent, interesting thread - from one late to the party.

Have you tried a Sybian machine? Do you enjoy G-spot massage? I've trained couples in it - the result varies greatly between women.

Yep, I’ve tried a Sybian! My first time was at Oasis, but it was only okay since I ended up using it in the main room with everyone watching

. I’d love to try it again somewhere more private I think I’d enjoy it way more that way. I do really wanna try the Sybian with a G-spot massager

I do enjoy G-spot massages the way to get me to cum fast is clitoral stimulation + hitting my G-spot

jsyk · Mar 30, 2026

Not sure if this has been asked or not … Would you want a regular client - bi-weekly to monthly frequency for 2 years - tell you they won’t see you anymore?
Or the absence an understood ending?

Thanks for your time.

Dave in Phoenix · Mar 31, 2026

Ahri said:
Yep, I’ve tried a Sybian! My first time was at Oasis, but it was only okay since I ended up using it in the main room with everyone watching . I’d love to try it again somewhere more private I think I’d enjoy it way more that way. I do really wanna try the Sybian with a G-spot massager

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I do enjoy G-spot massages the way to get me to cum fast is clitoral stimulation + hitting my G-spot

I have all these, but in Phoenix and haven't had a woman here to use Sybian for years. I once, in its huge case, hauled it to a Lifestyles Convention in the LA/San Diego area (it was a huge swing organization) The founder's daughter heard of me and invited me to speak for many years. The tapes of my presentation were on sale for years.

Their last national convention was in 2013. Amazing, I am still listed as a presenter at http://www.lifestyles.org/about-us.html
Dave Hxxxxxxxx CPA – Co-Founder, Liberated Christians [I deleted last name for privacy, although I don't really need to hide from anyone.]

Other than when the founder of TER (not terb), David E., hired a hitman to go after me for allowing escorts to warn against his rape on my private list. I got a call on a Sunday afternoon from Phoenix's major crimes, and met with the undercover cop/hitman on Monday at my home. He went to prison and also wanted to kill an escort who had sued him. I doubt I am in danger from anyone on TERB !

Have also used just fingers to stimulate the g-area (not really a spot and exact position varies with different women - you can often feel a different texture.) But haven't had the opportunity to do so for many years. And of course, Sybian is much more powerful than fingers.

Dave in Phoenix · Mar 31, 2026

harrypalm said:
What are you recommending then?

Too off topic from this great thread about Ahri. Further, I can't go into much detail due to FINRA rules, and I'm not able to advise Canadians.

massman · Mar 31, 2026

Ahri said:
Happy Monday everyone Finally! It’s starting to warm up in the city thank God!!!

While MFM can be a lot of fun, I’d only suggest trying it if you’re genuinely looking for something different from your usual 1on1 experiences.

I had a great time with my MFM experience, but I totally get the downside you’re paying the same amount to share your SP with another guy . At least with FFM, all the attention goes straight to you but with that being said if you never tried a MFM before it’s worth to try at least once

Yes I would!!! I would actually love to go with some girls to Hedo the problem is I don’t know much girlies willing to go with me I have been interested in going to a swinger resort/cruise for a while now but I would only go with a bigger group of people I know well.

Hmmmm I would say 30-40% of people that see me are DATO lovers but I do think that it is only because I always mention how much I love DATO on me I love it when I’m someone’s first DATO experience it puts a smile on my face to pop someone’s DATO cherry

Yep, I’ve tried a Sybian! My first time was at Oasis, but it was only okay since I ended up using it in the main room with everyone watching . I’d love to try it again somewhere more private I think I’d enjoy it way more that way. I do really wanna try the Sybian with a G-spot massager

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I do enjoy G-spot massages the way to get me to cum fast is clitoral stimulation + hitting my G-spot

Cholla · Mar 31, 2026

Dave in Phoenix said:
Too off topic from this great thread about Ahri. Further, I can't go into much detail due to FINRA rules, and I'm not able to advise Canadians.

Hi Dave, are you actually in Phoenix, Arizona?

Dave in Phoenix · Thursday at 12:18 AM

Cholla said:
Hi Dave, are you actually in Phoenix, Arizona?

Huh Yes! Lived in Phoenix for decades after escaping the cold, snow and mosquitoes of the Mpls area where I grew up and went to UofMn. Been visiting Canada for about 3 decades in the Summer to escape the heat, usually for a week at a time. First, Montreal, then many years in Victoria, BC and for the last 20 years in Toronto.

jimsa56 · Friday at 1:16 PM

Do you watch a lot of porn. If so, can you link your fav porn scene? Fav male pornstar?

Mandala · Friday at 2:36 PM

How do you avoid losing your libido?

Ahri · Saturday at 7:43 PM

Happy Long Weekend everyone

hope you guys are having a good long weekend!

Lucas Meyer said:
Hey Ahri! I was wondering if we could get another club-outfit pic if you’re comfortable with that I know the other guys here would love too see more of you outside of your lingerie photos on X/Bluesky

Also, are you getting into any new hobbies lately?

I don’t have much new club/bar outfits cause I don’t go out that much

but here’s a casual outfit of me and my doggo this past Friday when the sun was out

Honestly for new hobbies I just been getting into collecting Pokemon/One piece cards

it’s been a fun nostalgic past time as of lately.

Dave in Phoenix said:
Have also used just fingers to stimulate the g-area (not really a spot and exact position varies with different women - you can often feel a different texture.) But haven't had the opportunity to do so for many years. And of course, Sybian is much more powerful than fingers.

you sound like an expert!! But I definitely would love to try a sybian in a more private setting maybe I’ll figure out how to rent one

Dave in Phoenix said:
Too off topic from this great thread about Ahri. Further, I can't go into much detail due to FINRA rules, and I'm not able to advise Canadians.

That sucks I was genuinely curious about it too!

ever since I started working this job I decided I wanted to take my finances more seriously.

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jsyk said:
Not sure if this has been asked or not … Would you want a regular client - bi-weekly to monthly frequency for 2 years - tell you they won’t see you anymore?
Or the absence an understood ending?

Thanks for your time.

This is such a great question!

If one of my regulars especially someone who’s been seeing me for two years decided they were ready to “exitt to the hobby,” I would definitely appreciate them telling me

. Even though this is my job, I genuinely build real connections with the people that see me regularly.

I think I mentioned this before - but a long time ago I had a regular who started seeing me back when I was in SFTs VIP tier and stayed with me all the way until I reached Platinum VIP. He saw me almost every two weeks but definitely every month minimum from what I recall he only didn’t see me for one month in a 3 year span (but that’s because I was on vacation

). Honestly, I felt more like his therapist than an SP sometimes

. We talked a lot about his girl problems, how his ex cheated and how it all hit his confidence. I ended up being a mix of relationship coach, hype woman and SP

Eventually he decided to get back on the dating apps and I gave him some general female advice and a few style tips. Long story short, he met a girl, booked one last appointment with me, and told me he’d only come back if things didn’t work out. I still think about how he’s doing. For that three-year span where he saw me so regularly, I definitely considered him a friend as much as a client

.

So yeah if you’ve been seeing me for a long time, of course I’d hope for at least a little goodbye if not a exit DM would work lol but now I try to keep in touch more with my regulars

I think I mentioned this before, but a long time ago I had a regular who started seeing me back when I was VIP tier and stayed with me all the way until I reached Platinum VIP. He saw me every two weeks like clockwork. Honestly, I felt more like his therapist than an SP sometimes

. We talked a lot about his girl problems, how his ex cheated, and how it all hit his confidence. I ended up being a mix of relationship coach, hype woman, and… well, you know, with benefits.

Eventually he decided to get back on the dating apps, and I gave him some general female advice and a few style tips. Long story short, he met a girl, booked one last appointment with me, and told me he’d only come back if things didn’t work out. I still think about how he’s doing. For that three-year span where he saw me so regularly, I definitely considered him a friend as much as a client

.

So yeah if you’ve been seeing me for a long time, of course I’d hope for at least a little goodbye

even a DM is fine !!

This question took a lot longer than I thought!! I’ll reply to the rest when I have some time

Feel free to ask for anymore questions or requests I genuinely enjoy doing this AMA it feels more like a blog/diary now rather than an AMA which I like

Until next time

Bond_007 · Saturday at 10:31 PM

When you look back do you ( @Ahri ) think there was any other career/profession that would have enabled to make as much money even close as this profession ( not sure if you can share a broad range of money this profession brings in)? Would you recommend anyone to enter this profession? Please feel free to ignore this question if this is not comfortable.

Buzzy69 · Sunday at 3:11 PM

Great AMA. Having seen lots of Asians, I frequently hear a lot of cultural stigma around this industry. How do you celebrate your culture and how do those around you view this industry and sex generally? (Assuming they don't know about your work)

jsyk · Sunday at 6:25 PM

Ahri said:
Happy Long Weekend everyone hope you guys are having a good long weekend!

I don’t have much new club/bar outfits cause I don’t go out that much but here’s a casual outfit of me and my doggo this past Friday when the sun was out

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Honestly for new hobbies I just been getting into collecting Pokemon/One piece cards it’s been a fun nostalgic past time as of lately.

you sound like an expert!! But I definitely would love to try a sybian in a more private setting maybe I’ll figure out how to rent one

That sucks I was genuinely curious about it too! ever since I started working this job I decided I wanted to take my finances more seriously.