Are Providers Crestfallen When a Regular Asks for a Reference So He Can Hookup with Somebody Else?

Pamela Lee69 said:

Thank you for the last bit about my page. I finally got to do a pro photoshoot. So the pictures turn out well. I am hoping to have a list of happy clients. But I have already given references to other ladies for my clients.

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I guess it's good to share the wealth! You are only the 3rd provider to weigh in on this subject.!
One admitted that she was a bit jealous!
The other one said she never gets asked for references!
By the way, having that enticing 6 second teaser video was an excellent idea!
In the age of TikTok ... why do think most providers have never thought about having a teaser video as a marketing tool?
Just perusing your well-thought-out website and looking at your photos ... it's obvious that you are an elite provider and possess a high-level of professionalism!
That providers on websites like Bedpage, Skip the Games and Escort Alligator ... do not!

Daddy2021 said:

Seriously? You won’t let it go lol she was upset at the prospect of you giving the appointment to another which means money. Also means she would have to fill the slot and god forbid do more in that time. She was not upset in the manner in which you are deluding yourself. She enjoyed knowing she was running to the bank with a good chunk doing the least amount. But nice fantasy you have going. She really knew how to lay it on and that’s well played on her part.

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Hear...Hear!
If you have procured HER as an ATF ...and you got HER sitting on your face ....you are INDEED living a "nice fantasy"!



Ya think?

lomotil said:

Surgical scrub soaped analingus….still risky though

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Au Contraire Mon Frere!
It all depends on your mongering skill set and level of discernment and selectivity!
(I like to think of myself as a DATO Connoisseur**!)
If you're an unrepentant DATO Aficionado ... you gotta employ street smarts in selecting and procuring an ATF!
(i.e. She's gotta be low-volume and meticulous about her hygiene!)
She CAN'T be a F##k-Anybody Provider!
THEY ARE OUT THERE!
I've eaten My K-Girl ATF's asshole... well over 50x!
Always surgically-scrubbed, fresh and minty!
Never encountered a dingleberry!
(Never encountered , even a whiff. of a dingleberry!)



Like I said: I'm a DATO CONNOISSEUR!

Endurance2024 said:

If she's that booked up. And has a personal booker on her payroll, are you not concerned you might at some point be looking from the outside in. Unable to persuade the booker to fit you in? Unless it's happened already and your pining for her here.

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That is a most-excellent question!
We rendezvoused the first Tuesday of the month at 9 pm at a high-end hotel!
(We circled our calendars!)
The MBA in me kept track of it ... we rendezvoused 78x!
She never missed an appointment!
NOT ONE!
She never got sick.
She never had a personal emergency.
She never got in a traffic jam.
Her dog never got sick.
She never got a flat tire.
She never changed the time.
She never changed the day.
She never bumped me ... for a bigger and better deal!
(She was never, even, a minute late!)
Her track record is rather impressive!

Endurance2024 said:

Here's is something to ponder, if your into see your regular and in conversation she asks do you think this other SP is pretty and asking wouldn't you like to see her. Is that a trick question?

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That is a trick question!

Daddy2021 said:

This is becoming glaringly obvious this is a self promotion post. Just joins March 6 and well you know the rest. This is rediculous

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My fellow monger asked me a question!
I gave him an answer!

Daddy2021 said:

Ok I’ll say it again, of course she didn’t like it but the thought of the easy date going to another was what was off putting not that she had some attachment to you. This is where you are losing the plot. The ladies prefer us to spend the money with them. Of course they don’t want another sp to benefit from what is a very cushy weekly appointment. She’s not caring on a personal level which for some reason you seem dead set convincing yourself/us of.

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Okay!
How about this very real-world thought process!
How about THIS real-world perspective ...from a spoiled provider?
The old saying: "A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush"
That applies even more so .... from a street-smart provider's perspective!
How many milquetoast mongers does it take ...to replace 1 shameless DATOer?
To wit:
If she were to give me a reference to hookup with a competitor...not only is she gunna be losing out on the $$$ ... she's gunna have to find a replacement for me ... to fill that spot (the 1st Tuesday of the month at 9 o'clock)!
And just how enthused will she be in going about finding a suitable replacement (the first Tuesday of the month at 9 o'clock)!
PERISH the THOUGHT!
Maybe from her perspective:
(1 shameless DATOer .... is worth 10, total-stranger, ordinary mongers!)
Not only THAT ... but (from her perspective of being a spoiled provider) she's gunna have to find a monger (who can genuinely replace me) ...i.e. a shameless, unrepentant DATO ... who lustfully eats her asshole (with Reddi Wip) ... and with reckless abandon!
Easier said than done!
That's gunna be a rather daunting task!
No?
(Would the Jays be enthusiastic about finding a replacement for Vladi Jr.?)
I THINK NOT!
Ya see what I'm sayin'?
Could THAT have been the reason why... she wailed on me?
THAT was her thought process ... THAT was what she was really thinking!
Just the thought of finding a replacement for a regular like me ... who lustfully eats her asshole .... caused her to go ballistic!
Methinks, she would not be too enthusiastic about such a daunting task!
Ya think?
Then, she's gunna have to schlep through laborious, time-consuming process of screening, references, photo ID et.al!
FTS!
And, he's gunna be a total stranger, to boot!
GTFOOH!
And, when that total stranger steps into the room (to take my place)...; he could be a Ted Bundy!
No wonder ... she was ready to beat the s##t out of me!

lomotil said:

Do you kimchi ? It is very health they say !

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I like kimchi!
But My ATF really got me into Korean fish sauce (aekjeot) ... it makes anything taste good!
(You could put it on a bumper ... and it would make it taste good!)
She also turned me on to Korean gourmet rice (Golden Queen III)!
Put some butter and fish sauce on it ... Yum!
Her brother is a captain in the SK army ... he taught her how to make Korean Army Stew!
(Checkout that recipe ... that's a good one!)
She also told me Koreans are big on Spam!
They picked up on it from ... American soldiers stationed at the DMZ!
She would cook me some Korean street food!
Savory scallion patties .... with egg, carrots and shrimp!
YUMMY!
(Almost as yummy as her!)

Sonic Temple said:

First and foremost - great thread to keep us entertained with those pics - she does look great. I am curious though and apologies if I missed the posts without the images oops but what did she say about her seeing other clients - did you get in her face and throw a dual personality?

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I find it highly paradoxical, and an obvious double standard, that an ATF (by definition) can continue to see (f##k) other men ... but if you see another provider (behind her back) ... in her eyes that's an act of betrayal!
You cheated on her!
WTF?



If she thinks she has procured you as devoted, smitten regular and you have rendezvous with her dozens of times ... believe it or not ... she assumes a sense of ownership of you!
Hobbying in the real world 101!
(Who .... would have ever thunk it?)

massman said:

We get it. You like to eat ass, and think you are amazing at it.

Original question has been answered.

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Don't take my word for it!