that's about 99% out there isn't it?
What annoying habits does or did your partner have
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The bitch puts her used floss in the bathroom garbage draped over the edge half in half out. It's fucking gross and even though I give her shit she continues this disgusting behavior. Then I started putting her nasty floss in her toothbrush cup. Now she doesn't do it.
When I come to bed many hours after her, the bedroom is fucking cold sometimes 16° or 17°C. She doesn't give a fuck selfish bitch.
When she uses 2nd bathroom in my basement man cave, she always leaves door half open when done so next user has push door fully open when entering. How fucking hard is it to leave bathroom door fully open the way you found it!!! I find a disturbing pattern among most third worlders, it's all me me me me and they don't give a fuck about anyone!!! FUCK THEM!!! You can take the person out of the third world but you can't take the third world out of the person.
And I can't stand her fucking voice anymore and she's fucking frigid!!
When I come to bed many hours after her, the bedroom is fucking cold sometimes 16° or 17°C. She doesn't give a fuck selfish bitch.
When she uses 2nd bathroom in my basement man cave, she always leaves door half open when done so next user has push door fully open when entering. How fucking hard is it to leave bathroom door fully open the way you found it!!! I find a disturbing pattern among most third worlders, it's all me me me me and they don't give a fuck about anyone!!! FUCK THEM!!! You can take the person out of the third world but you can't take the third world out of the person.
And I can't stand her fucking voice anymore and she's fucking frigid!!
Are you sure she is the annoying one?
I had an ex girlfriend, back when I was a student, who would leave open 3 ring binders on the floor, in the bedroom, in the dark. She'd also leave sharps, like scissors, in the couch. I had a couple of minor scratches, but somehow managed not to perforate myself.
Given that she survived to middle age, and had children, I hope she grew out of that. I suppose I can ask her husband.
Given that she survived to middle age, and had children, I hope she grew out of that. I suppose I can ask her husband.
The backseat driving thing mentioned earlier was definitely one
Other one I can think of is she would be on the phone all the time and for some reason talking so loud that you could hear her anywhere in the house.
Other one I can think of is she would be on the phone all the time and for some reason talking so loud that you could hear her anywhere in the house.
In regards to the freezing bedroom, that was an issue with me and my ex. She was going though menopause and was always feeling too warm for comfort. As there was only one thermostat in the house she always had it set to 18 degrees, winter or summer. I always wore upper body multiple layers before bed to keep warm.
She hated my loud snoring. So it was separate bedrooms for the last several years together, and I used an extra blanket in mine.
Also shoes. So many shoes and handbags!
And clothes for our 2 kids when they were toddlers, like dressing up dolls, half of which they never wore before they grew out of them.
And so many toys!
There were lots of repeat customers at our bi-annual garage sales...
I came to the realization that both genders get married because of FEAR. Been alone, won't find another one, and many other things. These behaviours above mentioned is the after effect of their discord.
I been to a lot of seminars or events, weekend workshops. I see and hear things from other people that just makes me think.... People still live like this.
Wanting a pet when the other person said never wants a pet.
Dressing down like it is summer in Winter.
Living beyond their means.
Over talking another person. BOTH GENDERS.
When crossing border - you can't wear sunglasses, what do they do...
Skipping the line.
Forgot an item at the supermarket check out, both genders.
Breaking something and saying they didn't do it. NOT letting me know something broke and when I need it as emergency more disaster strikes. Even at work.
I know we all have issues but what amazes me nobody wants to fix themselves.
I been to a lot of seminars or events, weekend workshops. I see and hear things from other people that just makes me think.... People still live like this.
Wanting a pet when the other person said never wants a pet.
Dressing down like it is summer in Winter.
Living beyond their means.
Over talking another person. BOTH GENDERS.
When crossing border - you can't wear sunglasses, what do they do...
Skipping the line.
Forgot an item at the supermarket check out, both genders.
Breaking something and saying they didn't do it. NOT letting me know something broke and when I need it as emergency more disaster strikes. Even at work.
I know we all have issues but what amazes me nobody wants to fix themselves.
More...
- Getting to the checkout - and only then deciding to look through their purse to find their cards... and their purse is ginormous and full of crap - what do they keep in there?
- Not ordering french fries or desert then proceeding to eat mine.
- Taking the garbage to the door, but not to the curb.
- Leaving things in the washing up "to soak"
- Buying cool gadgets that we dont need and never use.
- Getting all their news from Facebook - because getting news from Karen is way more accurate than getting it from a reputable source.
I could go on....
- Getting to the checkout - and only then deciding to look through their purse to find their cards... and their purse is ginormous and full of crap - what do they keep in there?
- Not ordering french fries or desert then proceeding to eat mine.
- Taking the garbage to the door, but not to the curb.
- Leaving things in the washing up "to soak"
- Buying cool gadgets that we dont need and never use.
- Getting all their news from Facebook - because getting news from Karen is way more accurate than getting it from a reputable source.
I could go on....
Lol.
Always finding new and better mundane shit so that you end up with 6 different can openers and 7 salt shakers and pepper mills etc etc, even though the originals were just fine.
Okay so related question - kind of jumping on XiX quote about marrying out of fear of being along. So knowing what you know now on the "fun" of marriage, and the ease of getting an SP - what would you tell your 21 year old self? Would you get married? Was it worth it?
Personally - a) being married and having to constantly deal with her shit - or b) being alone in a tidy house with access to action (with all the money I'd save) I'd def go plan B.
Personally - a) being married and having to constantly deal with her shit - or b) being alone in a tidy house with access to action (with all the money I'd save) I'd def go plan B.
Agreed re plan B.
I already told my son, when he was around 25:
If you want kids, get married, but only if you're extremely confident that you and the woman are very compatible, with shared interests, dreams and expectations.
And, as mentioned in another post, see how she treats waiters and other service providers, as well as how her mother treats her father.
But if you don't want kids, don't get married!
Most of the time I've found its not a MAJOR issue that is until she does something so monumentally stupid and is so convinced that she's right that you're just left there stupefied and wondering what the hell.
Damn that’s a big list lol… I see why she’s an ex-wife then
Standing in front of thr TV to talk to me during a Leaf game
Good advice
For me on 1 - yes we were on board for having kids. Starting our adult life together and working towards buying our first home and building a family was a common goal.
I was pretty confident she was the one, she like the same movies, music, topics of conversation, laughed at my silly jokes.
I was blind to a serious conversation my mom had with me after I announced our engagement. Mom had some reservations that I couldn't see.
Overall I'm not disappointed in the journey. We have a wonderful bunch of kids and grand kids now. Great to go fishing or hunting with my son's later in life. Helping my daughter's out with repairs around their place and chatting about their day.or simply taking in a movie with them.
For the wife it took some time many years before our differences in interests actually were. Either she or I changed or maybe she couldn't keep the charade up forever and a big thing for me was the sex drive difference. But we don't have much in common interests anymore. But a big common is the family we built together that likely keeps us together and our friendship. But man she can be a bear at times so seperation is not out of the question at some point.
2. This is good advise. In my case I didn't know to observe this at the time. But if she was disrespectful service providers or waiters. Then that would have cautioned me to re-evaluate.
I believe my parents concerns had to do with what they observed with meeting her parents. And also what my sister's thoughts on what they observed of wife discussed with my parents when I wasn't around.
And I was a good boy. Never fucked around. Had an opportunity I believe in an awkward moment helping her sister get a new matrice into her bedroom. Lol boy did I exit the bedroom as soon as it got weird.
Also was to busy earning an income to support the mortgage and the family for any hobbies. And it was important for me to be true to her anyway.
