Are Providers Crestfallen When a Regular Asks for a Reference So He Can Hookup with Somebody Else?
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Let's, for a moment, take the converse of what happened:
If a woman was sweet-talking me and paying me $400 an hour to lick my asshole
and buying me flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets ... I wouldn't be too happy if she asked for a reference .... so she could go lick another guy's asshole and pay him $400!I might put up a little resistance!
The mere thought of her hooking up with somebody else .. would drive me crazy!
100%!
The competition is intense!
(And, they love to read negative reviews about their competitors!)
My ATF never bothered a soul!
It wasn't her fault if she was popular amongst the discerning cognoscenti!
(She earned her stellar reputation!)
And, she didn't intentionally poach clients from other providers!
But she had so many stellar reviews that she was on the radar of 100s of discerning mongers... and as a result would get bombarded with 100s of date requests!
(So much so ... that she had to hire a booker!)
Now, if a provider's client happened to hookup with My ATF ... and he wrote a stellar review of her ... the other provider would go ballistic!
My ATF would tell me stories about what jealous competitors would try to do to her ... just to f##k her up and ruin her day!
(Some of their tactics were quite creative!)
Ok I’ll say it again, of course she didn’t like it but the thought of the easy date going to another was what was off putting not that she had some attachment to you. This is where you are losing the plot. The ladies prefer us to spend the money with them. Of course they don’t want another sp to benefit from what is a very cushy weekly appointment. She’s not caring on a personal level which for some reason you seem dead set convincing yourself/us of.Let's, for a moment, take the converse of what happened:
If a woman was sweet-talking me and paying me $400 an hour to lick my asshole
I might put up a little resistance!
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The mere thought of her hooking up with somebody else .. would drive me crazy!
You're probably right!
But I've never seen such a heretofore reserved, demure, soft-spoken, sweet-natured individual ... morph into a "Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde"
"However much you paid for a beautiful illusion, you got a bargain."
That should tell you how much of an act the sweet girl is then.You're probably right!
But I've never seen such a heretofore reserved, demure, soft-spoken, sweet-natured individual ... morph into a "Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde"
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"However much you paid for a beautiful illusion, you got a bargain."
There Ya Go!
Ungrateful b##ch!
She ghosted you and jerked you around!
She played you!
SHAME on HER!
You were a reg ... that ain't right!
You being a reg ... she should have shone some respect and willingly complied!
But ...nooo!
That's what I'm talkin' about.
Providers being crestfallen
by being asked for a reference... is very real in the hobby!(No matter how much ... they might deny IT!)
No matter how much they say: "It's just a business transaction"!
(If the truth told: I maintain ... in more instances, than they are willing to admit, it's more than just "a business transaction"!)
A provider wouldn't be crestfallen ... if the monger didn't do a little somethin' for her!
Sure ... losing out on the $$$ from a reg ...certainly has something to do with it!
I find it most interesting, though, that so few providers (like two) ... were willing to weigh in on the subject!
WTF?
Why such radio silence?
Why are they MIA on this topic?
Is the truth being told?
So what can we glean ... from the lack of denials of being crestfallen?
(It's just a business after all!)
Right?
We can only assume that the answer to the thead question ... IS YES!
Providers are, indeed, crestfallen when a regular asks for a reference to go hookup with somebody else!
They, do, take it personally (for a multitude of reasons)!
(I'm sure a provider who has seen a regular 20 or 30 times is more crestfallen (especially if he eats her asshole) .... than a provider who has seen a monger 2 or 3 times (and he, didn't eat her asshole))!
The former has more built up "client/provider equity" ... than the latter!
Ya think?
If ya really think about IT: Some providers are probably so supremely confident in their GFE playbook and skill set and their bodaciousness and the bootyliciousness of their derriere ... and, their ability to procure (and keep) regulars ... they probably say to themselves: "I got him (another one) wrapped around my finger! He's so smitten with me ... that he eats my asshole! And, can't get enough of it! He always comes back for more! He'll never ask me for a reference to go see somebody else ... he's deathly afraid of getting on my bad side!"
They know they're in demand and highly coveted!
They gotta have big egos!
They read their reviews!
THEY KNOW THEY'RE HOT!
THE DATO GOLD STANDARD!
Always Game!
(Always Surgically-Scrubbed, Fresh and Minty!)
How many hopelessly smitten DATO/ASS WORSHIPERS ... does she have on her schedule?
(Once the word got out via reviews from discerning, DATO connoisseurs (like myself
) about her DATO delights... her email blew up ... she was so inundated with date requests that she had to hire the services of a booker to handle the screening of the DATO enthusiasts!)Methinks, she is rarely crestfallen, ... cuz she gets very. very few regulars (<0) asking her for a reference so that they can go eat another provider's asshole!
(Who ... in their right mind ... would wanna get on her bad side?)
GET REAL!
If she's that booked up. And has a personal booker on her payroll, are you not concerned you might at some point be looking from the outside in. Unable to persuade the booker to fit you in? Unless it's happened already and your pining for her here.How many hopelessly smitten DATO/ASS WORSHIPERS ... does she have on her schedule?
(Once the word got out via reviews from discerning, DATO connoisseurs (like myself
Methinks, she is rarely crestfallen, ... cuz she gets very. very few regulars (<0) asking her for a reference so that they can go eat another provider's asshole!
(Who ... in their right mind ... would wanna get on her bad side?)
GET REAL!
Here's is something to ponder, if your into see your regular and in conversation she asks do you think this other SP is pretty and asking wouldn't you like to see her. Is that a trick question?If she's that booked up. And has a personal booker on her payroll, are you not concerned you might at some point be looking from the outside in. Unable to persuade the booker to fit you in? Unless it's happened already and your pining for her here.
I do not mind at all. Variety is the spice of life 
But, please come back for more.
But, please come back for more.There Ya Go!
WWE is a rather apt analogy!
And if you are a devout and dedicated DATOer
..... and make it a habit of shamelessly eating your ATF's asshole ... asking for a reference makes matters exponentially worse!(Smoke was coming out of her ears!)
Like WWE ... it's all an act!
But it does possess an exceedingly high amount of entertainment value!
First and foremost - great thread to keep us entertained with those pics - she does look great. I am curious though and apologies if I missed the posts without the images oops but what did she say about her seeing other clients - did you get in her face and throw a dual personality?
oops but what did she say about her seeing other clients - did you get in her face and throw a dual personality?You don't mind at all?I do not mind at all. Variety is the spice of life
Let's say you have a well-mannered, well-behaved, well-groomed, devoted, HNW regular who never shows up empty-handed and showers you with flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets and he's a good companion, too (who does a little something for you
) and you've rendezvoused with him over 20 times... and he lustfully indulges you with the most-sinful and prurient, oral acronyms and brings you to multiple orgasms ... it wouldn't bother you in the least to provide him with a reference (so that he can give his $$$ and provide his talents to somebody else)?(It wouldn't bother you to be potentially planting the seed ... for a regular to be poached by a competitor?)
Really?
That's interesting!
ps
I've perused your website.
It is exceedingly well-thought-out with a very nice "Frequently Asked Questions" script!
Your photos are enticing!
Your 6 second teaser video is enticing, too (you have a sexy catwalk strut)!
(YOU'RE HOT!)
You gotta have a lot of smitten regulars!
Seriously? You won’t let it go lol she was upset at the prospect of you giving the appointment to another which means money. Also means she would have to fill the slot and god forbid do more in that time. She was not upset in the manner in which you are deluding yourself. She enjoyed knowing she was running to the bank with a good chunk doing the least amount. But nice fantasy you have going. She really knew how to lay it on and that’s well played on her part.You don't mind at all?
Let's say you have a well-mannered, well-behaved, well-groomed, devoted, HNW regular who never shows up empty-handed and showers you with flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets and he's a good companion, too (who does a little something for you
(It wouldn't bother you to be potentially planting the seed ... for a regular to be poached by a competitor?)
Really?
That's interesting!
ps
I've perused your website.
It is exceedingly well-thought-out with a very nice "Frequently Asked Questions" script!
Your photos are enticing!
Your 6 second teaser video is enticing, too (you have a sexy catwalk strut)!
(YOU'RE HOT!)
You gotta have a lot of smitten regulars!
Or maybe you are the lady in question? That would explain the shameless drop of pics throughout this stupid thread.You don't mind at all?
Let's say you have a well-mannered, well-behaved, well-groomed, devoted, HNW regular who never shows up empty-handed and showers you with flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets and he's a good companion, too (who does a little something for you
(It wouldn't bother you to be potentially planting the seed ... for a regular to be poached by a competitor?)
Really?
That's interesting!
ps
I've perused your website.
It is exceedingly well-thought-out with a very nice "Frequently Asked Questions" script!
Your photos are enticing!
Your 6 second teaser video is enticing, too (you have a sexy catwalk strut)!
(YOU'RE HOT!)
You gotta have a lot of smitten regulars!
Someone had to say it. I never thought maybe OP is an SP.
I assumed he was just jerking off to the replies or something. Either way, this is the weirdest thread I have seen in a while.
Thank you for the last bit about my page. I finally got to do a pro photoshoot. SoYou don't mind at all?
Let's say you have a well-mannered, well-behaved, well-groomed, devoted, HNW regular who never shows up empty-handed and showers you with flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets and he's a good companion, too (who does a little something for you
(It wouldn't bother you to be potentially planting the seed ... for a regular to be poached by a competitor?)
Really?
That's interesting!
ps
I've perused your website.
It is exceedingly well-thought-out with a very nice "Frequently Asked Questions" script!
Your photos are enticing!
Your 6 second teaser video is enticing, too (you have a sexy catwalk strut)!
(YOU'RE HOT!)
You gotta have a lot of smitten regulars!
the pictures turn out well. I am hoping to have a list of happy clients. But I have already given references to other ladies for my clients.I comported myself and behaved myself during the in-your-face, tongue-lashing, ballistic confrontation!First and foremost - great thread to keep us entertained with those pics - she does look great. I am curious though and apologies if I missed the posts without the images
(If the truth be told: She put the Fear of God in me!)
I realized ...I threw her (an unexpected curve ball)!
She lashed out!
Shit happens!
Who the f##k ... wants to get into her doghouse?
