Nope never ever. Its a business transaction. I've had some excellent sessions with ladies who are not clock watchers and they are on my repeat list and that's where I leave it
Fun polls: Have you ever fallen for a provider?
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Yes..but it only last for one hour at 400$ 
everytime for each girl. I am dealing with it. 
everytime for each girl. I am dealing with it. Yes, I have fallen for a provider, and she has openly admitted she has fallen for me - we're dating now, so I guess you could say it's been known to happen. She still occasionally escorts, when in dire need of money - it bothers me when she does this, but thus is life!!!
I did once. Then I messaged her from a text app and saw that she's just as funny and charming with everyone, so that pulled me out of the fantasy. Hurt my ego a little bit at the time but it is what it is.
Yes we enjoy ourselves, but at the end of the day, if I ran out of money, she would stop seeing me. Point blank. As long as you stay rooted in that reality, you'll be fine.
Yes we enjoy ourselves, but at the end of the day, if I ran out of money, she would stop seeing me. Point blank. As long as you stay rooted in that reality, you'll be fine.
Thanks HB, Yea Im recovering.... its been a year. But things are getting better
If you need to chat my PMs are always open, I do not have good advice but I have lots of it.....sometimes just getting it out helps!
HB69......was here?!?!?
Only if there is freezing rain and they haven’t salted their steps but other than that I have never fallen for one!!
Yes, with most of them, until my time is up. 
This woman still roams in my mind. Was seeing her every week at alpha before COVID. And during COVID it was amazing to see her in Airbnbs.
If you like someone enough to see them over and over again, chances are the conditions are there for feelings to develop fairly easily. I would think it would be pretty much impossible to see someone hundreds of times and not develop an attachement. Enjoy it for what it is but keep things in perspective.
It's generally a bad idea to fall for a provider, it rarely ends well, and worse, if they realise or sense that you are heads over heels or starry eyed for them, they will exploit it and milk you dry (pun intended). Let's face it, to most providers it's strictly transactional, to meet a need, so one-way-street falling in love for a provider invites exploitation and broken hearts in the end for the vast majority of cases.
You’d be surprised, an SP opening up about the working side of her life is very difficult, and sometimes it’s easiest to fall in love with someone who has already met our « alters ». It’s not something that happens often, but it does!
I KNEW you'd fall in love with me...
I’ve been around for 25 plus years and have always tried to keep it strictly professional etc. Never really had a regular, would see some a bit more then most but still not what I considered regular. This all changed New Year’s Eve 2023, that when I met the most amazing lady ever. To say I fell in love would be an understatement.The feelings I have for this person are what most people dream of. She knows how I feel and she also loves me just as much. We chat often, even though our visits are a bit less lately. We’ve met family, friends and partners.We will no doubt be in each others lives forever.
I have a regular provider that I have seen for years. I would not say that I love her, but I do like her very much. I really enjoy talking before and after a session. If she retired or I stopped hobbying, I would definitely miss her. But in the end I am aware it is a business transaction.
This is the right mindset to have and tbh - very healthy as you know your boundaries and accept the reality.
Falling in love with a provider must be such a complex and challenging relationship emotionally and professionally. I wonder If both individuals who have fallen for each other, both or either one, continue on the same path and continue to see others, I wonder and imagine this would just be another level of complexity and understanding. Wondering if anyone has ever experienced this type of relationship.
I wouldn't say that I have fallen (in love) with a provider. I would rather say that I have developed feelings for some providers in the sense that I enjoy visiting with them and I care that they are well and nothing bad happens to them.
I understand that visiting a provider is a transaction and not a 'relationship' as such. However, if a good 'connection' is established between both provider and client, I believe it makes for a more enjoyable 'transaction' between both parties.
There are a few ladies whom I consider 'regulars' and with whom I have a good 'rapport'. I know I'm happy to see a given provider when I visit and I believe they feel the same way. For me, there's a feeling of familiarity and comfort and knowing what to expect; I believe it's similar for the provider as well as security and reduced risk.
I understand that visiting a provider is a transaction and not a 'relationship' as such. However, if a good 'connection' is established between both provider and client, I believe it makes for a more enjoyable 'transaction' between both parties.
There are a few ladies whom I consider 'regulars' and with whom I have a good 'rapport'. I know I'm happy to see a given provider when I visit and I believe they feel the same way. For me, there's a feeling of familiarity and comfort and knowing what to expect; I believe it's similar for the provider as well as security and reduced risk.
