Fun polls: Have you ever fallen for a provider?

mig65 · Mar 12, 2026

No. Strictly a business transaction & to give my left hand a rest. I have a SP & MA that I really like & visit when they are available.
In my younger days I would frequent a local strip joint & fell for a beautiful Polish dancer. I was single, had cash & naive. I spent hundreds on her. The things she did to me in that VIP room are still in my memory.

Assblaster · Mar 13, 2026

Nope never ever. Its a business transaction. I've had some excellent sessions with ladies who are not clock watchers and they are on my repeat list and that's where I leave it

farrell36 · Mar 13, 2026

Yes..but it only last for one hour at 400$

everytime for each girl. I am dealing with it.

gqboy68 · Mar 13, 2026

Yes, I have fallen for a provider, and she has openly admitted she has fallen for me - we're dating now, so I guess you could say it's been known to happen. She still occasionally escorts, when in dire need of money - it bothers me when she does this, but thus is life!!!

aviddavid · Mar 13, 2026

I did once. Then I messaged her from a text app and saw that she's just as funny and charming with everyone, so that pulled me out of the fantasy. Hurt my ego a little bit at the time but it is what it is.

Yes we enjoy ourselves, but at the end of the day, if I ran out of money, she would stop seeing me. Point blank. As long as you stay rooted in that reality, you'll be fine.

ProGooner · Mar 13, 2026

honeybear69 said:
Hey PG, you okay on that one? That is never easy to go through, just checking to make sure you are good!??!
HB69.....was here??!?!?! I would welcome you but you have been here for a bit....but welcome

Thanks HB, Yea Im recovering.... its been a year. But things are getting better

honeybear69 · Mar 14, 2026

ProGooner said:
Thanks HB, Yea Im recovering.... its been a year. But things are getting better

If you need to chat my PMs are always open, I do not have good advice but I have lots of it.....sometimes just getting it out helps!
HB69......was here?!?!?

pinkpanther800506 · Mar 15, 2026

Only if there is freezing rain and they haven’t salted their steps but other than that I have never fallen for one!!

Lord vader_1427 · Mar 15, 2026

Yes, with most of them, until my time is up.

prohibido · Mar 15, 2026

Sundercover said:
I really fell for a girl during COVID (selena at alpha) and chased finding someone like her again for a long time.

It looks like many of us have had just a couple of such companions in our life. The true gems. The times when things just clicked. There's a magic here that people who judge what we do from the outside don't get at all I think. I live for it lol.

This woman still roams in my mind. Was seeing her every week at alpha before COVID. And during COVID it was amazing to see her in Airbnbs.

itd131 · Mar 15, 2026

If you like someone enough to see them over and over again, chances are the conditions are there for feelings to develop fairly easily. I would think it would be pretty much impossible to see someone hundreds of times and not develop an attachement. Enjoy it for what it is but keep things in perspective.

medalllione · Mar 15, 2026

It's generally a bad idea to fall for a provider, it rarely ends well, and worse, if they realise or sense that you are heads over heels or starry eyed for them, they will exploit it and milk you dry (pun intended). Let's face it, to most providers it's strictly transactional, to meet a need, so one-way-street falling in love for a provider invites exploitation and broken hearts in the end for the vast majority of cases.

prettypennyc · Mar 15, 2026

You’d be surprised, an SP opening up about the working side of her life is very difficult, and sometimes it’s easiest to fall in love with someone who has already met our « alters ». It’s not something that happens often, but it does!

ArgoHater · Mar 16, 2026

prettypennyc said:
You’d be surprised, an SP opening up about the working side of her life is very difficult, and sometimes it’s easiest to fall in love with someone who has already met our « alters ». It’s not something that happens often, but it does!

I KNEW you'd fall in love with me...

Bradder780 · Mar 18, 2026

I’ve been around for 25 plus years and have always tried to keep it strictly professional etc. Never really had a regular, would see some a bit more then most but still not what I considered regular. This all changed New Year’s Eve 2023, that when I met the most amazing lady ever. To say I fell in love would be an understatement.The feelings I have for this person are what most people dream of. She knows how I feel and she also loves me just as much. We chat often, even though our visits are a bit less lately. We’ve met family, friends and partners.We will no doubt be in each others lives forever.

scarecrow119 · Mar 18, 2026

I have a regular provider that I have seen for years. I would not say that I love her, but I do like her very much. I really enjoy talking before and after a session. If she retired or I stopped hobbying, I would definitely miss her. But in the end I am aware it is a business transaction.

Sonic Temple · Mar 18, 2026

scarecrow119 said:
I have a regular provider that I have seen for years. I would not say that I love her, but I do like her very much. I really enjoy talking before and after a session. If she retired or I stopped hobbying, I would definitely miss her. But in the end I am aware it is a business transaction.

This is the right mindset to have and tbh - very healthy as you know your boundaries and accept the reality.

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Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?

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Yes , it has happened once or twice

There been that ONE that I will never forget...

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No, I actively avoid developing messy feelings

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