Fun polls: Have you ever fallen for a provider?

Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?

  • Yes, it happens frequently

    Votes: 4 3.0%
  • Yes , it has happened once or twice

    Votes: 43 32.6%
  • There been that ONE that I will never forget...

    Votes: 39 29.5%
  • No... Love would be too strong a word

    Votes: 27 20.5%
  • No, I actively avoid developing messy feelings

    Votes: 19 14.4%

  • Total voters
    132

Sundercover

On my knees for the Goddess
May 30, 2019
86
167
33
I'm curious about how feelings have come in for all of you... We are only human after all.

I mean it in a strong sense, where you really felt the tug on your heart, thought about her all the time etc...
 

BBM4LUV

Active member
Jan 21, 2025
70
112
33
Honestly, I found an absolute smokeshow down in DC and I'd have taken her home in a heartbeat. She was extremely nervous on the way in and I think we surprised each other with how well we clicked.

Fallen for? Not quite. But I've thought about her more than once.

 

guy112233

Active member
Jun 27, 2023
61
121
33
There was lady in saw exclusively during COVID. She was great. She retired and got married.

Honestly I think most of the ladies have boyfriend or husbands.

I had an early appointment at one of the MA clubs when a bunch of them started their shifts. It was a convoy of Cadillac, BMW, Lexus dropping them off
 

massman

Well-known member
Sep 8, 2001
5,265
4,451
113
I have developed “warm friendly feelings”, for lack of a better term, for a few regulars especially after a few visits where you get to know them a bit more as a person, but have always kept things within the context of a friendly business relationship.
 

ArgoHater

Well-known member
Jun 15, 2023
389
586
93
Not a SP/MA, but I DID fall in "like" with a dancer at The Playmate.
When I finally had the courage to approach her in the club, we seemed to hit it off instantly, going over the intimate details we keep hidden from friends/workmates, and finally going for some dances in the CR.
Let's just say that we were extremely "compatible", and much fun was had by all. We ended up becoming regulars, and would text throughout the week to catch up. She retired during Covid, and is apparently doing very well in her new civie career.
 

HoopyFrood

Don't panic
Sep 26, 2005
23
44
13
My missus and I became a little too familiar with an SP we indulged with and we collectively decided to skip the more... intimate... side of things. We still meet regularly socially though whenever she comes thru town!
 

Sundercover

On my knees for the Goddess
May 30, 2019
86
167
33
I really fell for a girl during COVID (selena at alpha) and chased finding someone like her again for a long time.

It looks like many of us have had just a couple of such companions in our life. The true gems. The times when things just clicked. There's a magic here that people who judge what we do from the outside don't get at all I think. I live for it lol.
 

honeybear69

Well-known member
Feb 4, 2019
763
1,428
93
not love, but infatuation. I tried to pursue her, but she rejected me it turns out you can’t make someone love you.
Hey PG, you okay on that one? That is never easy to go through, just checking to make sure you are good!??!
HB69.....was here??!?!?! I would welcome you but you have been here for a bit....but welcome
 

Mandalorian

My friends call me Mando
Nov 13, 2020
1,194
2,381
113
I’ve been in this game for a long time, and always prided myself on keeping things compartmented and professional but I too fell for one hard. We had many, MANY amazing sessions, crossed all sorts of boundaries, did many taboo acts. It was definitely reciprocated as during COVID we managed to meet for discreet sessions, had a few meals together, and I even dropped off supplies at her place. It was fun. Eventually it ended, she retired and disappeared. I respected that and did not pursue. She did reach out to me a year later as she contemplated returning to the business and I was thrilled but she eventually changed her mind and disappeared again. Sigh…
 

Requiem888

Member
Sep 27, 2023
41
34
18
I have been in the hobby back in 2006-07 then stop then i came back last 2-3 years. The 1st time i was very young (in my early 20s) and i was looking for fun only. Now getting more knowledge i am very careful. I love women too much and i know that can be a real danger for me. It seem for me that can cause problem cause like other guys problem to get friendzone / simp. Those women are real human with emotion too however they advertise for money and that what you have to remember here. They probably have hundreds of love declaration. Unless one of them want to meet outside their work environment you should keep it for fun only but still stay respectful and safe. Something to remember if that look too good to be real well that indeed too good to be real dont get scam.
 

Big Mull

Active member
Aug 2, 2015
193
192
43
Ottawa
I too have experienced a high level of "amore" for one particular provider. We text often outside of appointments but it's always in the back of my mind, is this genuine? As she claims it to be, or am I a fish continually getting hooked for future cash flow.
 

MikeO

Well-known member
Jun 9, 2017
595
1,024
93
Popular songs for those of us who 'fall' for providers. I'd say I haven't been foolish enough to 'fall in love' knowing full well all along that the ladies were well-reviewed and popular local indys... who were ha ha!... polyamorous with some of you guys ...but I did develop strong feelings for them, and helped a few out with matters beyond $$$.... substance abuse rehab, relocation, repairs/renovations, transportation and errands during the early stages of Covid and the like... and felt 'MASH' sad at the end of the 'last episode' of each series.

-Sea of Heartbreak
-You've Lost that Lovin' Feeling
and, finally
.... Dust in the wind!

P.S. Lyrics from a song by John Gorka...."Life is full of disappointments... Yes, and I am full of life."
 
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