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victoryformation

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When My K-Girl ATF was about to take a month off for a long-awaited vacation to visit her family in SK ...I, thought I was slick. and I asked her for a reference (bad, bad move) .... so I could continue to hobby in the interim.
Well let me tell you ... it did not go over well!
She had a big puss on her face!😞
She copped an attitude... right quick!
Huh... whaa?
She snapped at me!
She lost it ... and got in my face!:eek:
She almost bit my head off!
She became apoplectic!
She was almost in tears!😢
I mean, she knew I was sweet on her (I routinely got into worship mode and lustfully ate her asshole) ... but still!
(I guess devout DATOers on their ATF... gotta think twice before asking for a reference!)
She read me the riot act!
She got extremely animated!
"Why do you wanna see somebody else? WTF ... Can't you wait until I come back?"
I never heard the end of it!:eek:
She was about to windup ....and slap me upside the head!😠
I had to back off!
(Providers: Is THIS normal behavior when a regular asks you for a reference?)
I was a bit shocked!
I never expected these histrionics!
I was led to believe it's all just a business (it's $$$ for sex)... and that providers are essentially indifferent to mongers :"cheating on them"!;)
No biggie!
It's all part of the game!
No?
She's usually mild-mannered, sweet-natured and demur!
(She pulled a "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde"!):eek:
She was totally pissed!



(I overplayed my hand .... I should have known better!)
 
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@victoryformation reminds me of the strip club.

entitled and narc.

"My K-Girl ATF" are you sure she is ATF??????
Sounds like something a skunk family would keep away from.
 
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victoryformation said:
When My K-Girl ATF was about to take a month off for a long-awaited vacation to visit her family in SK ...I, thought I was slick. and I asked her for a reference (bad, bad move) .... so I could continue to hobby in the interim.
Well let me tell you ... it did not go over well!
She had a big puss on her face!😞
She copped an attitude... right quick!
Huh... whaa?
She snapped at me!
She lost it ... and got in my face!:eek:
She almost bit my head off!
She became apoplectic!
She was almost in tears!😢
I mean, she knew I was sweet on her (I routinely got into worship mode and lustfully ate her asshole) ... but still!
(I guess devout DATOers on their ATF... gotta think twice before asking for a reference!)
She read me the riot act!
She got extremely animated!
"Why do you wanna see somebody else? WTF ... Can't you wait until I come back?"
I never heard the end of it!:eek:
She was about to windup ....and slap me upside the head!😠
I had to back off!
(Providers: Is THIS normal behavior when a regular asks you for a reference?)
I was a bit shocked!
I never expected these histrionics!
I was led to believe it's all just a business (it's $$$ for sex)... and that providers are essentially indifferent to mongers :"cheating on them"!;)
No biggie!
It's all part of the game!
No?
She's usually mild-mannered, sweet-natured and demur!
(She pulled a "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde"!):eek:
She was totally pissed!

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If that's her in the pic and your in the dog house can get a referral from you?

Yeah depends on the SP I guess. I have a couple that asks if I've seen this other girl. Maybe trying to setup a duo or something.
I made the mistake a of asking my SP if she knows this other SP who is in the same agency as was thinking of seeing her. Right after a great session no less with her. Got the stink eye. Best not to ask IMO
 
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This is a good example of why I prefer agency to independent, and why I have not repeated with an agency provider yet! For me it is very important to separate this world from the "real world" and not reaching those "intermediate level relationships" is part of it!
 
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This is why I find escorts asking for references from other escorts so silly. You're asking a guy who's been seeing another escort long enough for a bit of trust to be built to ask that escort if he can vouch for him to another escort. If I were in the escort's shoes I'd talk mad shit about the client so the other escort doesn't book him
 
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In the distant past I asked a regular if she knew someone of a different nationality she would recommend. She told me about a friend of hers; no problem.
 
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Shouldn’t ever be an issue to ask, tho the timing may be a little inappropriate immediately following a great session! Lack of possessiveness, jealousy etc is a prime reason why guys see escorts.
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Probably they are more upset seeing the money going elsewhere.
 
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Daddy2021 said:
Probably they are more upset seeing the money going elsewhere.
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Good point.

I’d imagine you’d be more likely to get a positive response from a SP who herself asks for and accepts references. Tho I accept that logic need not always apply in such situations.
 
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Maybe it’s because I work for an agency that I never had any requests for references but I always have encouraged my regulars to see other girls!

Variety is the spicy of life 😜
 
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I never even considered this would be an issue. At my very first session the SP asked me if I wanted any references so I could see other providers in the area

I assumed that girls are wary of guys who only come to them.
 
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If it's an SP (or SPs) you've seen often then they're likely to say yes. If you're asking an SP you're seeing for the first time, most likely a no.

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Michelle Gunn said:
First I sneak around her website and/or ads and then I get jealous of my client because he has such good taste in women, and I want to eat her ass too :p
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There Ya Go!
I guess My K-Girl ATF got a little bit spoiled!
(Maybe she got a lot spoiled!) ;)
And, didn't wanna give IT up!
Ya think?
(She ain't gunna share any of her regs .... with ANYBODY!)
The DATO (with Reddi Wip) became a big, well-practiced ritual during our rendezvous!
(No wonder she was always smiling from ear to ear with a big s##t-eating grin on her face and wagging her tail ... whenever she emerged from behind the door!):p
It was a DATO set piece!
i.e.
She would bury her face in the pillow; prop up her beautiful, worshipable ass; put a towel underneath her; and and let me have at IT!
Encouraging me ... with some serious derriere wiggle!:p
I would start out by giving her a back and shoulder rub!
(I even took a back-scratcher along ... for good measure!);)
I would caress her back and then move down to her legs and inner thighs !
I would work my way up to her cheeks and then lather up her asshole with Reddi Wip ... and go to town for a good 30 minutes (in full weed-whacker mode!):p
Going from the crack of her ass... down to her pussy!
(And sucking on her clit!)
Up and down ... down and up!
I'm relentless!:p
A complete, shameless slobberfest!
(She'd be doing some serious moaning!)
"Don't stop!"
I'd then flip her over and proceed to lick her soaking-wet, shaved pussy (with Reddi Wip, too)!
Essentially, I was doing all the work!;)
Until it was time for The Grand Finale and some serious pounding!!
(Where sticking my cock in her awesome, tight, soaking-wet doggy-style spread... was like a hot knife in butter!):p
It had to be good duty for her!
No?
It, most certainly, was good duty for me!
(She would routinely shoot me solicitous, Sunday-morning emails ... wanting to know when I planned to see her again!)
"Can I circle my calendar?" :)
So I guess, the mere thought of me indulging a competitor in the DATO (with Reddi Wip) treatment ... was just too much for her to handle!:eek:
And to think that she'd have to be a facilitator of it .... by providing a reference so that I could lustfully eat a competitors asshole (with Reddi-Wip, no less) ... was more than she could bare!:eek:
THAT set her off!
That's why she snapped!
She obviously viewed me asking her for a reference .. as an act of betrayal!😠
(She got soo wound up ... that I actually feared for my safety!):eek:
WTF!
I was glad there was no sharp objects around!
I could see how it could end badly!
She was in full- attack mode!
It got a little scary!:eek:
(She was like a barking Doberman ... in a VS Baby Doll in a pair of 5" CFM Louboutins!)
IT WAS QUITE a SIGHT!:p
To her credit ... she wasn't goin' down without a fight!😠
(She was probably saying to herself: "Get real ...there's NFW I'm gunna give you a thumbs-up reference 👍 and plant the seeds for demise.....so you could hook up with a competitor (buy her flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets) ....and eat the bitch's asshole ....GTFOOH!")
GFY!⚠

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As a shameless DATO Aficionado .... I knew I had IT good!
I KNEW I WAS LIVIN' LARGE!:p
(The last thing I wanted to do ...was get on her bad side!)
I have a confession to make:
I'M PUSSY WHIPPED!;)
I gave in and sheepishly relented!
I profusely apologized and admitted I'd made a big mistake!
(And told her ... that she was The Only One ... and that I would never cheat on her!)
Whereby, she affectionately patted me on the head ... and with a big smile and a self-satisfied look on her face said: "I knew my Gary would see things my way !";)
 
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I've done so when I've been overseas and asked a reg. She was OK with it.
Once booked my fave and another from same agency in a 2 day gta visit. Was in independent contact the fave. Explained the other lady offered Greek (fave did not offer greek) so I wanted a shot, then I'd book the fave the next day. So I did. But going in on day 1 passed fave and manager stepping out for lunch. I felt awkward lol. She seemed fine. Next day she was totally fine too. We joked about it too as I was clearly more stressed than she was. I made a joke: "I heard rumors whilst I've been out of town that you've been seeing other guys" and we had a great laugh and excellent session afterward.
 
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Ahri said:
Maybe it’s because I work for an agency that I never had any requests for references but I always have encouraged my regulars to see other girls!

Variety is the spicy of life 😜
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That's rather interesting!🤨
You mean to tell me if you were an indie looking to procure high-value regulars ... and had a well-groomed, well-behaved, well-mannered, play-by-rules, HNW gent who brought you flowers, chocolates and lottery tickets .... and, who was a DATO Aficionado ...you would actually encourage him to see someone else?
(Why would you wanna fold "a winning hand"?)
And, by extension be perfectly happy rolling the provider dice... with a total (and possibly problematic :eek: ) stranger (could be a Ted Bundy:eek:) .... stepping into your room instead of him (because he hooked up with someone else upon your encouragement)!
I gotta think you're, most definitely, an outlier on THIS!
(Indies covet their regular$!)
And don't take kindly to sharing!
In my experience, high-end K-Girls take great pride in procuring AND KEEPING such, high-value clients!
(They gleefully boast about IT!)
" My schedule is fully-booked this week with my rich regulars!":)
The last thing they want ... is for a snooty competitor to poach a high-value. highly-coveted regular!😠
How can any provider ... be happy with THAT?
Well-behaved, well-groomed, well-mannered, willing-to-give-pleasure, HNW gent$ ... are hard to find!
No?
(They don't grow on trees!);)
Why would you encourage such a highly-coveted client to see a competitor ... and put $$$ in her pocket?
(And to think ... if he were to write a glowing review about her ...her business might take off!)
And THAT .. could have been YOU!
Like I said, you gotta be an outlier on this!



ps
What ever happened to your "Ask Me Anything" thread?
That's a good one!
I, did, ask this question in that thread ... but you never answered it!
So, I'm gunna ask it again:
In your experience ...what % of clients are DATO aficionados?
(Looking at your pics ... the % for you has to be exceedingly high!);)
I like to think I'm a connoisseur; have a keen eye; and an expert judge of providing talent ...if I were in VC I'd be makin' a date with you, right quick!
You do look exceedingly YUMMY!:)
(You remind me of My ATF!)





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Best of luck in your future providing endeavors!👍
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