1- there is no rate shaming needed, you don’t want to pay what someone is asking for simply move on.
2- tipping is never expected but always appreciated (same in any trade profession)
you guys seem to always forget anyone working at spas or renting an incall pays a fee to use the space.
We aren’t seeing that whole amount in our pocket
"Tipping is never expected but always appreciated" - It's a very "political-correct" line.
Unfortunately, it's not true for all providers.
Although there are a good group of girls who say that (it's a popular line amoung OIC and local girls, to say the least...), the fact remains that some girls put pressure on customers to get that tip.
And if the tip is not to their liking, they bashing, putting the atmosphere in the negative.
Yes, in that case, I personally move on from those ones. That's also the reason why I stopped tipping, in general. I save it for round #2 if I feel it will happend.
On top of that, you have the girls who message you directly asking for tips/gifts or what ever.
"It's my Birthday" - "It's Valentine Day" - "It's Xmass" then "It's New Year eve" - "Easter, I need to give chocolate to my kids" - Oh yeah I forgot "It's Mother Day + Women International Day"
Blabla, blablabla... every reasons are good.
If I have a regular that I see often, I will do it because that's something else. I will often bring GC to my regulars, but I don't see that as a tip.
But a first time girl asking for a tip, the service must have beeing way above expectations.
By the way, Yes we know that all the amount doesn't go in your pockets.