Ok I gotta know - what are their most common mistakes and what is your most common guidance?
Sorry for the late response to this! I wanted to write a proper answer to your question
A common mistake I see is being too horny and coming in hot and heavy. It is too often that a man will just nose dive right into my pussy.
A big no no in my books moving your head up and down and not using your tongue. When you move your head up and down (those with a beard or stubble) will irritate my clit to no ends

It will do the complete opposite of getting me wet and horny.
I’ve also had people just shove their dry fingers into my dry pussy. You can get your fingers wet from spit or lube. Do not be afraid to ask me to get lube. It is painful to have fingers jammed into me.
Common guidance from me is that I enjoy a sensual build up so kissing my body, slowly going down to my legs. Kissing around my pussy will generally get me wet already. Slow and steady gets me wet
When you focus on my clit, licking and light sucking will do the trick and get me
Although did remember you saying that the civilian blokes you saw prior to this gig were not dato types or something. Maybe us punters are moths to the flame of your kitty and bum. I know I was lol.
Btw, a younger me would have loved a lesson. But, we had to learn it from dealing with actual women not learning it from porn.
Yeah !! The civilian guys I have previously hooked up with didn’t DATO at all but it’s not like I asked them or told them I enjoyed it
I think because I always say how much I love DATO here on TERB that I get a lot of guys who try it for the first time with me, which I love lol DATO + Digits get me soooo wet
