Friend with benefits dilemma

xix

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I felt really bad for you reading this last post. You’re worried that she’s gonna get angry if you block her or him.
What happened to men?
They got convert to Fool, Soft, Simps = FSS.

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Daveboy

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Hi,
Here is a question for TERB members and I hope to get your take on that. Recently, I was contacted by a girl (via xhamster) who wanted to start a FWB relationship “to have fun”. Yes, I am not naive and I know it’s TGTBT, especially that I didn’t initiate it.

She sounded normal, but she asked me three times to switch to google chat or telegram apps to continue communication. I don’t use either, but this insistence kind of puzzled me. Is it a trick to get my personal information? I don’t know.

We never met and I would be hesitant to meet at this point. So, my question is -what it could be, a scam and a “girl” is actually a scammer? Or I am too suspicious?

Your input would be much appreciated!
Actually, you are very naive.
 

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Hi,
Here is a question for TERB members and I hope to get your take on that. Recently, I was contacted by a girl (via xhamster) who wanted to start a FWB relationship “to have fun”. Yes, I am not naive and I know it’s TGTBT, especially that I didn’t initiate it.

She sounded normal, but she asked me three times to switch to google chat or telegram apps to continue communication. I don’t use either, but this insistence kind of puzzled me. Is it a trick to get my personal information? I don’t know.

We never met and I would be hesitant to meet at this point. So, my question is -what it could be, a scam and a “girl” is actually a scammer? Or I am too suspicious?

Your input would be much appreciated!
Classic butchered pig scam
 
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Jami77

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This happened to me once. I flipped the convo to a burner number - she asked me a bunch of questions -
Name? Bond, James Bond
Where you from - I live in London but I can be anywhere - I travel a lot...
What do you do for work? International Exports

It continued for a while but I got bored...
 
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Boomboomrae

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Don”t worry about the chat bots feelings just dont open anything “she” sends you including anymore messages you are in fact a target period. Sorry
 
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The Options Menu

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That neither sounds like a friend, nor like you're getting any benefits. You're being set up to be ripped off.

Either pick a safer avenue for pay to play like an established agency or spa, or reputable independent, and avoid seeming 'thirsty' for the wrong things, OR pick up a hobby you're sincerely interested in that involves mixed groups of people and avoid breathing heavily on random women in an unwanted sort of way.
 

GameBoy27

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Women (or men posing as women) do this all the time on dating sites as well. They'll contact you, send a couple messages then they'll ask to take the convo off-site. They'll ask to switch to WhatsApp, text or email. Always asking for yours first. Don't give them anything. I'm not exactly sure what their end-game is, but it's a scam.

If a woman is on the up and up, she'll chat on the site for a while. You can usually get a good sense by then if you're talking to someone legit. Scammers won't invest a lot of time.
 

Cholla

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Women (or men posing as women) do this all the time on dating sites as well. They'll contact you, send a couple messages then they'll ask to take the convo off-site. They'll ask to switch to WhatsApp, text or email. Always asking for yours first. Don't give them anything. I'm not exactly sure what their end-game is, but it's a scam.

If a woman is on the up and up, she'll chat on the site for a while. You can usually get a good sense by then if you're talking to someone legit. Scammers won't invest a lot of time.
Thanks again, I blocked her. I wasn’t looking for FWB knowing well it’s impossible. I didn’t give her anything… Still, the idea of having someone reliable for kinky fun is still alive. 🙂
 

xix

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Women (or men posing as women) do this all the time on dating sites as well. They'll contact you, send a couple messages then they'll ask to take the convo off-site. They'll ask to switch to WhatsApp, text or email. Always asking for yours first. Don't give them anything. I'm not exactly sure what their end-game is, but it's a scam.

If a woman is on the up and up, she'll chat on the site for a while. You can usually get a good sense by then if you're talking to someone legit. Scammers won't invest a lot of time.
 
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