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The appeal of multi-day dates and trips with providers

miamijoe

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Hey,

What is the appeal of spending the vast amount needed on an SP to secure a multi-day experience and a trip? I mean if you've got it and want to spend it, sure. But for myself personally, I wouldn't want that much time with an SP. One, I'm no longer physically capable of having sex for the amount of times and hours that I'd really like to take advantage of all that time, and I'm not sure the provider would really indulge in all that I'd really want even if I could. Secondly for the money spent on this, I could have many, many other dates and feel like I'm getting much more value, in terms of what I'm looking for from an SP.

I'm guessing not many have actually done this, but if you have please share your experiences!
 

Sensual Monst

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I don't think you should look at a multi-day date/trip as purely about sex. It's more about companionship and spending time with with someone. If all you're looking for is a number of specific "acts" then you're absolutely correct - better value in multiple disparate encounters. If on the other hand you want time with a hottie that includes intimacy and companionship along with sex, then the multi-day trip could serve well.

You probably don't want to do to a multi-day with a provider that you haven't built a rapport and connection with before the trip. You'll be with her for an extended period of time, not all of which will be sex. You need to be sure that you AND her are comfortable with the extended time together which will include sleeping, eating, sharing a bathroom, going out for meals and/or entertainment, recreational activities and other activities outside the bedroom.

I have done this with a provider in the past. It was someone I had seen many times before and we'd built a decent rapport. She didn't charge me the excessive overnight rates that most SPs charge, in fact we didn't really discuss the economics of the trip, she just tagged along and met me during a trip(s) (we actually did this twice). The first time was a great time and we both had a lot of fun and thoroughly enjoyed a few days in the sun. The second time was a disaster. I think she wasn't in a good place and this surfaced on the trip. This made our remaining time really challenging. I don't think I'll be doing this again...

So while there is a place for the multi-day trips, I think it really boils down to what you're looking for. If you're simply looking to scratch the itch, then multiple short, no strings attached hour or two sessions will fit the bill. If you're looking for longer intimate engagement, then the multi-day option is there, but it's a large commitment, financially, emotionally and time. Make sure you're ready for the "commitment" before indulging...
 

miamijoe

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Thanks for sharing that. Your second trip is what I envisioned being the very real downside. Even with a provider I've built up a relationship with, this is still transactional and I'm not sure of how one would be able to correct for the provider being "off". Sorry that happened.

It's exactly that "commitment" that is why I wondered why some partook in these types of dates. The lack thereof is, at least for me, of why I see a provider. I'm looking for a fun experience without having that competent, one where I'm free to explore on my terms.
 

Ponderling

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The other side of it is the fly me to you experience.
You can have (pricey) fun with an indie that appeals to you for a shortish duration playtime.
And know she will not be texting you to try to drum up another date like if she is in the same city/area as you are.

And if you want, the fly to you does not require for you to be at your home base either.
 
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