Anyone just have a session you regret?

Terbyguy · Feb 27, 2026

I went to a spa when I was in a poor head space. She probably felt my vibes and was cold and not into it, which made things worse for me so I couldn't get excited at all. I just feel bad on both ends because she kept asking me why I didn't enjoy it, and some related questions which I tried to answer but those didn't seem to appease her curiosity. Anyways, I just wanted to share and say don't use this hobby as a means to feel better if you're already really in your head. At least in my case, it doesn't work. I know this is more just a rant and might not be helpful to anyone, but I'm not feeling great atm.

Thanks for reading.

escortsxxx · Feb 27, 2026

Terbyguy said:
I went to a spa when I was in a poor head space. She probably felt my vibes and was cold and not into it, which made things worse for me so I couldn't get excited at all. I just feel bad on both ends because she kept asking me why I didn't enjoy it, and some related questions which I tried to answer but those didn't seem to appease her curiosity. Anyways, I just wanted to share and say don't use this hobby as a means to feel better if you're already really in your head. At least in my case, it doesn't work. I know this is more just a rant and might not be helpful to anyone, but I'm not feeling great atm.

Thanks for reading.

yes has poor sessions. Have used sessions to improve my mood but I guess it case by case. I have meet healing vibes from some ladies here that make things better in the past.

GreedyBoy · Feb 27, 2026

Terbyguy said:
I went to a spa when I was in a poor head space. She probably felt my vibes and was cold and not into it, which made things worse for me so I couldn't get excited at all. I just feel bad on both ends because she kept asking me why I didn't enjoy it, and some related questions which I tried to answer but those didn't seem to appease her curiosity. Anyways, I just wanted to share and say don't use this hobby as a means to feel better if you're already really in your head. At least in my case, it doesn't work. I know this is more just a rant and might not be helpful to anyone, but I'm not feeling great atm.

Thanks for reading.

It could be one of two things. You might just have had an off day. We all have them - in fact I had one today (I did not see anyone). I just got through it. Tomorrow will be better. Or the chemistry just was not there for you with the SP. That happens quite a bit. Either way, wait a couple of days and see someone new.

bagshahahmed · Feb 27, 2026

My first session and then my second greek experiences.

First one I just picked the wrong provider, very mechanical very boring. Walked out just feeling like shit. (some lady named athena from way back)
Second greek experience same thing, but even worse to the point where I just didn't even want to finish and left a few minutes into it (some lady who went by greekfreak or something)

Both were just on me getting into it without doing the research, but lesson learned just do your research before comitting and only go when you're in the right headspace

JohnAMacdongnot · Feb 27, 2026

Are you kidding?

After hundreds of sessions...I had many bad sessions, thousands of dollars wasted, and all my worst experiences come from spas cos that's where the hustlers work, they want hundreds of dollars for basic services without even putting out. Even those spa girls become full-service sps they try to squeeze more tips out of clients, and many won't even provide basic services like kissing or bbbj, which is complete BS.

It wasn't until several years into the hobby I start to give these bad sessions some deep thoughts and try to work out a system to reduce the risk and waste. It takes year of experience and tons of research to figure out how to get the girls and services that you want.

FarmerJoe · Feb 28, 2026

Garbage in, garbage out. Your partner will pick up on your energy and give it back to you.

Terbyguy · Feb 28, 2026

I appreciate everyone commenting, just needed to rant a little about my mistake.

xix · Feb 28, 2026

@terbguy think of it like PMS for men. I going through this week since Wednesday and last night was it. I went to bed early. Feeling better now but will wait for the up cycle to happen, which could be 3 days.

When I am down or going down I meditated which I did and it helped.
Comedy shows help to ease the unbalance mood. No Strip club, MP, SW or a regular date. I stay away from people.

xix · Feb 28, 2026

This thread is weird almost like the same person posted with 3 different handles.

Terbyguy · Feb 28, 2026

xix said:
This thread is weird almost like the same person posted with 3 different handles.

Me? Lol.

princekwekua · Feb 28, 2026

Terbyguy said:
I went to a spa when I was in a poor head space. She probably felt my vibes and was cold and not into it, which made things worse for me so I couldn't get excited at all. I just feel bad on both ends because she kept asking me why I didn't enjoy it, and some related questions which I tried to answer but those didn't seem to appease her curiosity. Anyways, I just wanted to share and say don't use this hobby as a means to feel better if you're already really in your head. At least in my case, it doesn't work. I know this is more just a rant and might not be helpful to anyone, but I'm not feeling great atm.

Thanks for reading.

Which is why its great to have regulars.
From the moment they see me, its like I am a gift. Huge smiles, bear hugs before action starts.
Imagine an old buggy like me being called sexy, sweetheart, love.
They never let me down. And always leave me wanting more.

JeanGary Diablo · Feb 28, 2026

Not me, but I remember reading one review from a guy who fell for a bait and switch during the Backpage days, and the "switch" turned out to be a woman with track marks and scabs covering both arms and legs who was tweaking hard hard when he arrived -- he basically turned and ran.

LTO_3 · Feb 28, 2026

Terbyguy said:
I went to a spa when I was in a poor head space. She probably felt my vibes and was cold and not into it, which made things worse for me so I couldn't get excited at all. I just feel bad on both ends because she kept asking me why I didn't enjoy it, and some related questions which I tried to answer but those didn't seem to appease her curiosity. Anyways, I just wanted to share and say don't use this hobby as a means to feel better if you're already really in your head. At least in my case, it doesn't work. I know this is more just a rant and might not be helpful to anyone, but I'm not feeling great atm.

Thanks for reading.

We've all been there especially if you've been doing this for a while. I've had some bad hook ups too and usually with supposedly well reviewed MPs that wanted to be SPs. All make my top 10 list of worst experiences. I'd suggest avoiding people (if possible) until your mood becomes more positive and then see someone you know because it's ALWAYS better with someone you know.

LTO_3

DesRicardo · Feb 28, 2026

The only sessions I regret are the ones I didn't take.

Lv Wmn · Mar 2, 2026

For sure but those usually occur when I didn't plan ahead and ended up scrolling back page or Leos trying to find someone that did require a drive across the city. Or similarly a drop in at a spa with no idea about who was on schedule and just making a selection

So basically - self inflicted bad sessions LOL

Mandalorian · Mar 2, 2026

I usually book on the day of since my sex drive fluctuates daily (I’m old!) and performance is largely dependent on my mood. The only seesions I’ve regretted were ones where there is a touring rockstar SP, or someone highly reviewed who gets booked up asap etc and I’m forced to prebook not knowing if I will be horny enough that day. Those sessions, which almost always cost more will sometimes result in a DNF for me which is huge frustrating.

philonius · Mar 2, 2026

I can honestly say I've not regretted any session I've had with a provider and I realize that's mainly due to luck. Don't get me wrong, I do my due diligence and research tf out of new providers, and I have a chunk of no-repeats but that's mainly bc of lack of chemistry or something small, not something that makes me regret dropping the cash. I imagine on a long enough timeline it's gonna happen to me tho. Bounce back and hit up an ATF when you're busting out of your pants to set your head straight.

madmaxfan · Mar 2, 2026

DesRicardo said:
The only sessions I regret are the ones I didn't take.

Amen brother

BBM4LUV · Mar 2, 2026

I had one recently I wasn't too happy with. I'd gone earlier to an AMP and busted twice. Decided that I'd like to follow that up with a provider I knew was into a-level. Got there and she was a little bigger than pictured and I'll say she wasn't motivated to help get my little champion to arise. It was a little combo of not having a long enough recovery, not being particularly attracted, and my expectation that the SP would be a little more ambitious in getting me horned up. I get it though.. most people are probably about ready to go when they walk in.

Anyways.. we ended up having a really nice chat, but I ended up with a glorified tug-job. Could've been way worse though.. and now I know that if I'm going for multiple providers.. I need two things: a better cool down period and a provider that I find more attractive. A-level isn't an option if you're pushing a rope.

BBM4LUV · Mar 2, 2026

whyagain said:
If she's not helping you get aroused she's not worth seeing again. And sadly there's only a few ladies in this industry who know how to provide a good service. I don't walk in already hard. I'm expecting her to help turn me on and book ones who offer kissing. I know a session is gonna be shit the moment she says okay take all your stuff off and lay on the bed. Yawn...

Amen to all that. Honestly, if it was my first shot of the day I might have been OK, lol. But I absolutely agree and learned a lot from being a little greedy that day.

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