Stranger Sex or Regulars what's your preference?

Endurance2024 · Feb 20, 2026

Different SP every time, finding that rush you might get with stranger sex .. or settling in on a few regulars?

For me I don't mind seeing new to me SP's especially when going out to experience the rainbow or different services offered. But my preference is repeats and sometimes often.

massman · Feb 20, 2026

Endurance2024 said:
Different SP every time, finding that rush you might get with stranger sex .. or settling in on a few regulars?

For me I don't mind seeing new to me SP's especially when going out to experience the rainbow or different services offered. But my preference is repeats and sometimes often.

Yup.

tml · Feb 21, 2026

I'm going to mix the two options and say finding a new regular is exciting.

OntGuy2010 · Feb 21, 2026

Since I started with agencies little more than a year ago, been on 40 appointments and have not repeated at all.
Before that tried a few independents and have repeated few times, but much less frequently.
Is one path better than the other? I don't think so, each has its own plusses and minuses.

Sonic Temple · Feb 21, 2026

BiggerTitsTheBetter · Feb 21, 2026

I am about 50-50.

One thing I like to do is to repeat right away (within a week) if I had a first session that stood out for whatever reasons. Allows me to 1) determine if it was a fluke, 2) build a rapport, 3) assess long term compatibility/perspectives for a new regular. Unfortunately I don't always get to do this owing to busy life/work, schedules don't align, etc.

Muchadoaboutnothing · Feb 23, 2026

I was just Reminiscing on this today actually. A few summers ago I had sex with three people
from ashley Madison of all sites lol. Never exchanged names. Only said meeting spot and that was it. Then one by one we ghosted eachother.
I don’t suggest though I got my
first Sti this way

MiguelRojas · Feb 23, 2026

Good to have regulars on rotation but so many great girls to try. There's no shortage of quality so just have a budget and stick to it. Never get too close to any girl in particular

JayRoam · Feb 23, 2026

I find that of all the SPs out there, I'm only attracted to a fraction (as some of you know, petite spinners). Maybe I'm too picky. Of that fraction, only a couple have locations within a reasonable drive from my home or whose schedules lines up with mine. So that only leaves about 1 or 2 SPs on any given day that I prefer and as a result I repeat often.

With regulars, I find that sex gets better each time. For instance, lfk will evolve into dfk and bbbjs tends to be longer and deeper with my regulars. The girl feels comfortable with me and I with her. We can relax together. We often have good or funny conversations afterward. One SP gave me excellent travel advice and I based my vacation last year around her suggested destination. It ended up being one of the best vacations ever. Yet another girl who was a mechanic in civilian life and gave me good advice about my car. So I enjoy the post coitus intimacy.

I'm always on the look out for new regulars but that means I can play the long game and i'm not too concerned with getting all my favorite acronyms on the first date.

My feeling is that if you invest in a girl, she's invest back.

The Options Menu · Feb 23, 2026

When I first got back to the GTA full time (more or less), and I was newer to seeing escorts, I was more of a kid in a candy store. I was seeing mostly new to me escorts, with the occasional repeat. People in the GTA really are spoiled for choices.

Now that I've been back for a bit I'm going for more of a balance between new and repeats. Hobbying in the GTA has been good to me, and there are a number of providers who I'd love to see again. That doesn't always have to be with an excellent (to me) provider. A convenient good time, with a safe bet can, can be the right call on some occasions.

Goodoer · Feb 23, 2026

When you meet a new SP who you hit it off with is the best. I’ve yet to find a regular who sticks around or whose service doesn’t diminish.

When the SP doesn’t remember you from last week is when you question what you’re doing…

drlove · Feb 23, 2026

I don’t think I could choose… I like both for different reasons.

LTO_3 · Feb 23, 2026

I stay more with regulars but if & when there's a new SP that interests me, especially if she's a petite spinner type I'll try to see her. If we connect, then I try and repeat with her as often as possible and possibly see if she can become a regular.

LTO_3

Gonzo_73 · Feb 23, 2026

My preference is regular/repeat. There is a certain vibe I really like and when that gels with the SP I’m with it is the main turn on for me.

However - I am all too often lured by the excitement of a new experience often due to availability or taking opportunity of a last minute booking.

Usually a little disappointed when I make quick decisions, but the adrenaline is pretty fun.

HolaMiAmor · Feb 23, 2026

Regulars in rotation. Some will get complacent knowing they're the only one you're seeing.

Brown Nose Bear · Feb 23, 2026

I prefer regulars for sure. Seeing new girls doesn't thrill me, I prefer someone that I already click with. However regulars can retire or change for the worse, and the only way to find new regulars is to try new girls occasionally. It's better to keep a pipeline open than get caught flatfooted if something changes with your favorites.

newguy2201 · Feb 23, 2026

I do both. I definitely have a regular who I like to go see at least monthly for 2 hours usually.

Then I do the odd girl that piques my interest as well to keep things fresh.

I agree with other, the regular sex definitely gets better and more like a GF vibe the more you see them. You learn each other's bodies and likes and dislikes, have conversations that carry over, inside jokes etc.

Just have to be careful not to get too comfortable.

Ahri · Feb 23, 2026

Muchadoaboutnothing said:
I was just Reminiscing on this today actually. A few summers ago I had sex with three people
from ashley Madison of all sites lol. Never exchanged names. Only said meeting spot and that was it. Then one by one we ghosted eachother.
I don’t suggest though I got my
first Sti this way

How was your experience finding hookups on Ashley Madison? Never heard much success stories from people using that site

The STI part does suck tho hope your fully recovered by now!

Goodoer · Feb 23, 2026

Ahri said:
...Never heard much success stories from people using that site ...

Probably the same for most people... I almost don't believe anyone who talks about it now. Apparently, it was amazing in the beginning 15+ years ago. Like-minded cheaters just fucking away on each other. Pretty hot!!!

Many moons ago, just after the Internet was invented, I remember logging on to LavaLife for the first time. I had just broken up with my long-term GF and wanted to try new things. It was amazing! Just setting up a profile in both the "Dating" and "Relationships" categories you were bombarded by real chicks; the same ones I was seeing in the bars... It was tough to keep up with the MS Messenger and then making the calls. I now wish that I had a set up an "Intimate Encounters" profile, but I realize I probably would not have my life or the kids that I have now

.

I ended up connecting with my (now) wife pretty much right away. I honestly chose her first because I had never seen her before. We hit it off and the rest is history... (Yes, I did find out later that she was using the Intimate Encounters portion of the site).

PS - I also signed up for TERB at the same time as I wanted to delve into truly seeing strangers, strippers and escorts. I was turned onto to raw sex aspect of it. Anyways, I was 'saved', got married and now came back.

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Endurance2024 · Feb 24, 2026

The Options Menu said:
I was more of a kid in a candy store. I was seeing mostly new to me escorts, with the occasional repeat. .

Kid in a candy store would describe me to. I was rather easy to please first starting out and accumilated a bunch of favourites in time. Then there is the dilemma when two of your favourites on working on the same day. Ahg which one do I go and visit? Sometimes I'll choose the the one its been the longest since I saw her or the one that the last session was just so hot it needed a follow up session sooner than later.

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