Never been married, but I know what I don't want in a relationship..
Music - Must be same taste genre, not loud.
Movies - same as above; know this if she prefers her she own genre fine she can watch it alone don't want to be there to bother her and vice versa I expect the same respect.
Music 2 - if we have guest - no music, must be able to speak to others. Music can be low volume if it must be. ( controlling)
Music 3 - start singing to the song, or has it low volume then sings it loud. This happens at work to much, a notice had to be put out.
So, one time I saw several SW's ages ago several different ones with their Laptop/ cell playing loudly and couldn't hear her that much. Had to ask to turn it down. Like some people have a hearing issue ( yes me) but courtesy. READ the ROOM.
One time I had to knock on the door to the apartment/condo/hotel ( whatever ) because I was waiting like 3 mins on the hallway. Like really.....pay attention/focus.
Leaving garbage in my car.
Not cracking open the car window after they fart for a brief moment.
