improving your chances of a good fingering experience

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Hi, I wanted to share what I learned about smoothing out nails, as I noticed that fingering can be YMMV, and I think having smooth and "dull" nails has helped make women more receptive to digits. Something I learned is that filing my nails incorrectly can make the nail feel rough or sharp even if it looks okay.

1. First, crystal nail files are recommended over the metal ones; they're gentler on the nails.
2. Avoid back and forth motions when filing (avoid the motion that's like sawing wood), because this can make the nails serrated/rough. Use a single direction instead.
3. Use a rounded motion to avoid creating new sharp corners. So move the nail file as if it's a moving tangent line on the circumference of a circle.
4. Use light pressure and check your nails regularly. I've sometimes over-filed my nails because I pressed too hard; I also realized that light pressure is sometimes enough to smooth out the nail. Heavy pressure can make the nail edge feel sharper.
5. Check your nails against another finger, or your face or lips (since these are more sensitive) to check if any nails feel serrated or sharp.
6. Specifically check if the corners on the left and right of each nail don't have any sharp corner that might be exposed when there's pressure on the finger
7. Non-filing motions can help make the nails duller/smoother. Washing your hair usually smooths out the nails; otherwise keep gently filing with light pressure to smooth out your nails.
8. I try to cut my nails at least 24 hours before the appointment, so the rest of the time I just gently file my nails to make sure they're smooth and "dull".
9. I use either the middle or ringer finger; not the index finger, to choose fingers where the nail is not protruding as much from the finger.

Also, just sharing my experience with someone who I later realized tends to not allow digits; I didn't try digits with her for several appointments, and only did so when she asked me to.

In general:
1. I usually show a woman my fingers to let her check before I ask to touch her inside.
2. I ask how many digits a woman is okay with.
3. I try to be careful with the "come hither" motion, because that also tends to expose the vagina to the fingernail. So I try to keep most of the contact on the fingerprint area of the finger and avoid pressing the tip of the finger too closely.

Hope this helps any of you improve your chances of having a good fingering experience ^_^
 

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Hi, I wanted to share what I learned about smoothing out nails, as I noticed that fingering can be YMMV, and I think having smooth and "dull" nails has helped make women more receptive to digits. Something I learned is that filing my nails incorrectly can make the nail feel rough or sharp even if it looks okay.

1. First, crystal nail files are recommended over the metal ones; they're gentler on the nails.
2. Avoid back and forth motions when filing (avoid the motion that's like sawing wood), because this can make the nails serrated/rough. Use a single direction instead.
3. Use a rounded motion to avoid creating new sharp corners. So move the nail file as if it's a moving tangent line on the circumference of a circle.
4. Use light pressure and check your nails regularly. I've sometimes over-filed my nails because I pressed too hard; I also realized that light pressure is sometimes enough to smooth out the nail. Heavy pressure can make the nail edge feel sharper.
5. Check your nails against another finger, or your face or lips (since these are more sensitive) to check if any nails feel serrated or sharp.
6. Specifically check if the corners on the left and right of each nail don't have any sharp corner that might be exposed when there's pressure on the finger
7. Non-filing motions can help make the nails duller/smoother. Washing your hair usually smooths out the nails; otherwise keep gently filing with light pressure to smooth out your nails.
8. I try to cut my nails at least 24 hours before the appointment, so the rest of the time I just gently file my nails to make sure they're smooth and "dull".
9. I use either the middle or ringer finger; not the index finger, to choose fingers where the nail is not protruding as much from the finger.

Also, just sharing my experience with someone who I later realized tends to not allow digits; I didn't try digits with her for several appointments, and only did so when she asked me to.

In general:
1. I usually show a woman my fingers to let her check before I ask to touch her inside.
2. I ask how many digits a woman is okay with.
3. I try to be careful with the "come hither" motion, because that also tends to expose the vagina to the fingernail. So I try to keep most of the contact on the fingerprint area of the finger and avoid pressing the tip of the finger too closely.

Hope this helps any of you improve your chances of having a good fingering experience ^_^
Just use your tongue no rough edges there. I hope
 
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Hi, I wanted to share what I learned about smoothing out nails, as I noticed that fingering can be YMMV, and I think having smooth and "dull" nails has helped make women more receptive to digits. Something I learned is that filing my nails incorrectly can make the nail feel rough or sharp even if it looks okay.

1. First, crystal nail files are recommended over the metal ones; they're gentler on the nails.
2. Avoid back and forth motions when filing (avoid the motion that's like sawing wood), because this can make the nails serrated/rough. Use a single direction instead.
3. Use a rounded motion to avoid creating new sharp corners. So move the nail file as if it's a moving tangent line on the circumference of a circle.
4. Use light pressure and check your nails regularly. I've sometimes over-filed my nails because I pressed too hard; I also realized that light pressure is sometimes enough to smooth out the nail. Heavy pressure can make the nail edge feel sharper.
5. Check your nails against another finger, or your face or lips (since these are more sensitive) to check if any nails feel serrated or sharp.
6. Specifically check if the corners on the left and right of each nail don't have any sharp corner that might be exposed when there's pressure on the finger
7. Non-filing motions can help make the nails duller/smoother. Washing your hair usually smooths out the nails; otherwise keep gently filing with light pressure to smooth out your nails.
8. I try to cut my nails at least 24 hours before the appointment, so the rest of the time I just gently file my nails to make sure they're smooth and "dull".
9. I use either the middle or ringer finger; not the index finger, to choose fingers where the nail is not protruding as much from the finger.

Also, just sharing my experience with someone who I later realized tends to not allow digits; I didn't try digits with her for several appointments, and only did so when she asked me to.

In general:
1. I usually show a woman my fingers to let her check before I ask to touch her inside.
2. I ask how many digits a woman is okay with.
3. I try to be careful with the "come hither" motion, because that also tends to expose the vagina to the fingernail. So I try to keep most of the contact on the fingerprint area of the finger and avoid pressing the tip of the finger too closely.

Hope this helps any of you improve your chances of having a good fingering experience ^_^
I can finally get to third base!:D:ROFLMAO:
 
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I don't understand the appeal of fingering. I would rather just be fucking or give oral. Fingering is tiring on the hand.
I would have agreed with you up until a recent experience. I was with a woman (not an SP) who was very enthusiastic about what she liked.

She was in doggy position and before I could get the condom on I started fingering her. She asked for a second finger, then she asked me to go faster and harder, until I was going as fast and hard as I could.

After about 2-3 minutes where I was sure my arm was going to give out, she had a very loud and (I can only imagine) very satisfying orgasm

Other than the sore arm, I thoroughly enjoyed that and would gladly repeat any chance I could.
 
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I don't understand the appeal of fingering. I would rather just be fucking or give oral. Fingering is tiring on the hand.
I would have agreed with you up until a recent experience. I was with a woman (not an SP) who was very enthusiastic about what she liked.

She was in doggy position and before I could get the condom on I started fingering her. She asked for a second finger, then she asked me to go faster and harder, until I was going as fast and hard as I could.

After about 2-3 minutes where I was sure my arm was going to give out, she had a very loud and (I can only imagine) very satisfying orgasm

Other than the sore arm, I thoroughly enjoyed that and would gladly repeat any chance I could.
Some chicks are really into it!
 

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Nice fingering that is genuinely enjoyed by the woman is pretty much a must for me. It is almost a no-repeat if the attendant doesn’t allow pussy play with fingering.
And yes, I have suffered from a tendinitis once after extensive fingering. I had to find another explanation for the physiotherapist treating the injury. LOL
 

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Ok. Another one of my weird but true stories.

During the Covid spas lockdown, I was getting pretty bored with no spas being open.

So I went to Aren't We Naughty to see if there were any good toys for guys.

The only ones I saw that might be interesting were the pocket pussy "Fleshlights".

So I bought one, with the optional Fleshlight warmer (cuz who likes a cold pussy?)...

Brought it home, put some porn on the big screen TV, warmed up the toy, lubed it up with water-based lube, and put it on my dick.

My dick said "Meh! This doesn't feel like a real vagina to me :( ", especially when the warmth wore off, like in about 10 seconds.

But weirdly, when I put my finger inside it, it did kinda feel a bit like the real thing, as far as fingering went, which did slightly arouse me.

Anyways, I only used it once.

I was trying to figure out who to "re-gift" it to, but thought better of it, and just tossed it in the trash. :cry:
 

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Hi, I wanted to share what I learned about smoothing out nails, as I noticed that fingering can be YMMV, and I think having smooth and "dull" nails has helped make women more receptive to digits. Something I learned is that filing my nails incorrectly can make the nail feel rough or sharp even if it looks okay.

1. First, crystal nail files are recommended over the metal ones; they're gentler on the nails.
2. Avoid back and forth motions when filing (avoid the motion that's like sawing wood), because this can make the nails serrated/rough. Use a single direction instead.
3. Use a rounded motion to avoid creating new sharp corners. So move the nail file as if it's a moving tangent line on the circumference of a circle.
4. Use light pressure and check your nails regularly. I've sometimes over-filed my nails because I pressed too hard; I also realized that light pressure is sometimes enough to smooth out the nail. Heavy pressure can make the nail edge feel sharper.
5. Check your nails against another finger, or your face or lips (since these are more sensitive) to check if any nails feel serrated or sharp.
6. Specifically check if the corners on the left and right of each nail don't have any sharp corner that might be exposed when there's pressure on the finger
7. Non-filing motions can help make the nails duller/smoother. Washing your hair usually smooths out the nails; otherwise keep gently filing with light pressure to smooth out your nails.
8. I try to cut my nails at least 24 hours before the appointment, so the rest of the time I just gently file my nails to make sure they're smooth and "dull".
9. I use either the middle or ringer finger; not the index finger, to choose fingers where the nail is not protruding as much from the finger.

Also, just sharing my experience with someone who I later realized tends to not allow digits; I didn't try digits with her for several appointments, and only did so when she asked me to.

In general:
1. I usually show a woman my fingers to let her check before I ask to touch her inside.
2. I ask how many digits a woman is okay with.
3. I try to be careful with the "come hither" motion, because that also tends to expose the vagina to the fingernail. So I try to keep most of the contact on the fingerprint area of the finger and avoid pressing the tip of the finger too closely.

Hope this helps any of you improve your chances of having a good fingering experience ^_^
Appreciate your preparation details and your approach. While not to this detail I to have added fingers to my grooming.
I like slipping one or two in with DATY before FS and if she is really responding it gets me really turned on.
Then with just digits. Using one finger I like the feel of the inside of her pussy walls and how it closes around your finger, sometimes the sensation sucktion holding your finger in place. I'm going to say that I like feeling the subtle differences from one pussy to another.
After some pussy play it gives me a visual of whats in store for my member and more than ready for FS
There was one occasion that an SP pulled out a new bottle of baby oil to finish the session off. Doused us both and I had 3 fingers in motion while she HJ/BJ me. Both orgasmed to finish.
 
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