I cannot think of a better teacher. The trouble is Asian Nicole will set a high bar for future women.
23M Virgin with no Romantic/Sexual Experience Looking For a Sexual Mentor or Escort Who Could Provide Guidance
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thisThis topic has been covered so many times since Covid 19. I get the feeling that young men are fed up with silly promises. I can see 50's year old men and 20's men feeling pressured for no reason and soon will break out of the mold.
To the OP practice what was typed here by the many. Try hypnosis and read emotion anonymous book/ pamphlets.
As to weather you should see a SW or not?
Honestly I got more out of life when I set a Goal, knew the consequences of SP that I couldn't go back and change it. I went the SW route because I knew regular women were not Virgins and so did a few friends. No regrets.
To the OP practice what was typed here by the many. Try hypnosis and read emotion anonymous book/ pamphlets.
As to weather you should see a SW or not?
Honestly I got more out of life when I set a Goal, knew the consequences of SP that I couldn't go back and change it. I went the SW route because I knew regular women were not Virgins and so did a few friends. No regrets.
It has been covered many times because they are often troll threads.
That having been said, I am amazed by the number of posters who act like a young guy seeing a sex worker is something like a chapter in the Southern Baptist preacher Rick Warren’s Purpose Driven Life, or a bunch of young teen girls discussing who will be Their First.
Jesus Christ, a young guy, virgin or not, should pick a sex worker with good reviews who most closely resemble what he currently fantasizes about. If he likes it great, continue allocating 5-10 percent of income to keep doing it. If not, then quit. Learn to compartmentalize life and not mention it to “civilian” girlfriends who may or may not come along in the future.
We are all different and we don’t know what is right for each of us until everything is attempted. Everyone’s life doesn’t have to follow the same pattern. Some people like dating apps, some don’t. Some guys are happy being single for life, others constantly pursue marriage.
Just don’t flaunt it… I think OP wants someone to like him for who he is, not for how much money he’s got in the bank. When I was actively dating and meeting new people, I would purposely understate my financial position. Let’s just say I weeded out a lot of gold diggers that way lol.
hey dude, it sounds like you're on the right path. as someone who was super anxious and depressed in their 20's, I am so impressed you're working out and doing therapy. I'd recommend telling your therapist your feelings about sex, etc. Figuring out how to date, talk about sex, etc is gonna be way more useful than a mind blowing sexual encounter with a professional escort. Just my two cents.. That said, there's plenty of amazing escorts if that's the route you go!
If the original poster isn’t a troll, we don’t know what he does with his time.
It might be something very beneficial.
I irritated the fuck out of all of the anti-Americans when I posted this. And I certainly don’t like everything about the USA either, but like it or not, there is plenty of truth to this article.
When you are a young man in today’s world, if you are going to be rich in your 40 plus years, you have to bust your ass harder than most of the 40 plus guys of today did back then. And the women of today are a lot different than the women of yesterday. A greater percentage are busting their ass in the same way and have little or no time for relationships. It is a known worldwide problem that has reduced young dating and relationships.
Are there young, fun, party girls? Yes. Are they waiting and suffering for their guy who studies and works hard for his future? Nope, they are partying with young, fun party guys their age. Pretty girls always come out on top. Unless they party so much that they look Rode Hard and Put Up Wet as they age, they will dump the guys who spent time and effort on them during their teens and twenties in favor of the wealthier guy, sometimes almost putting hum through Boot Camp to improve his social and interpersonal skills he didn’t develop earlier.
Life is shit, and it is really dangerous to give young people advice. If you tell someone who is young to focus on relationships and civilian dating, you are probably telling him to devote less time to studies and endeavors that might put him someday in the top 20 percent of income and wealth holders. We live now in a society where almost all of the benefits go to the top 20 percent. When older guys tell a younger guy to focus on wealth building, I think they need to recognize the sacrifices that entails while he is young.
Life is shit, but escorts make it far less shittier. We should express our appreciation for them more often. Young men who are trying to become successful have it very hard today. They are hard on themselves. They say they lack relationship skills, but the fact is that fewer relationship possibilities exist for that to improve, as the article XIX posted illustrated. If funds exist, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a young guy seeing escorts, at least in my opinion.
It might be something very beneficial.
I irritated the fuck out of all of the anti-Americans when I posted this. And I certainly don’t like everything about the USA either, but like it or not, there is plenty of truth to this article.
When you are a young man in today’s world, if you are going to be rich in your 40 plus years, you have to bust your ass harder than most of the 40 plus guys of today did back then. And the women of today are a lot different than the women of yesterday. A greater percentage are busting their ass in the same way and have little or no time for relationships. It is a known worldwide problem that has reduced young dating and relationships.
Are there young, fun, party girls? Yes. Are they waiting and suffering for their guy who studies and works hard for his future? Nope, they are partying with young, fun party guys their age. Pretty girls always come out on top. Unless they party so much that they look Rode Hard and Put Up Wet as they age, they will dump the guys who spent time and effort on them during their teens and twenties in favor of the wealthier guy, sometimes almost putting hum through Boot Camp to improve his social and interpersonal skills he didn’t develop earlier.
Life is shit, and it is really dangerous to give young people advice. If you tell someone who is young to focus on relationships and civilian dating, you are probably telling him to devote less time to studies and endeavors that might put him someday in the top 20 percent of income and wealth holders. We live now in a society where almost all of the benefits go to the top 20 percent. When older guys tell a younger guy to focus on wealth building, I think they need to recognize the sacrifices that entails while he is young.
Life is shit, but escorts make it far less shittier. We should express our appreciation for them more often. Young men who are trying to become successful have it very hard today. They are hard on themselves. They say they lack relationship skills, but the fact is that fewer relationship possibilities exist for that to improve, as the article XIX posted illustrated. If funds exist, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a young guy seeing escorts, at least in my opinion.
Really, do any "mixed group" thing you actually like, and learn to say 'yes' (to that group coffee / meal / drink / hang out afterwards). Don't even do it with an eye to dating / getting laid. As often as not that will be enough.
Therapy is all well and good but at the end of the day, unless you have people who aren't your mother trying to fix you up, you really do need to get out and about with people that include potential romantic / sexual partners. Yes, anxiety is really not going to help with that, but forcing yourself to get out there to do something you like, with mixed groups of people, is something I can't suggest strongly enough even if it's hard at first.
If you're facing the prospect of being a 30 year old virgin, come back to TERB at that point, but get out there and give it a shot until then. It's worth it for the social skills even if it doesn't immediately translate into love and sex.
Expect for it to take some time to find your groove.
Everyone agrees that on line dating sucks! I’ve taken a few classes offered by the City of Toronto. Without any agenda at all its so easy to meet and interact with women. The weekly courses offer familiarity and the opportunity to discuss your common interests. It will never lead to quick sex but it may lead to something better!
The last two posts highlight something very important: getting out of your shell and interacting with people. Do NOT look at any of these interactions in a sexual way. Learn to talk to people. Learn to understand cues. Visual or otherwise. 70% of communication is non-verbal. What everyone's telling you here will lead to skills that you take to business, new friendships and teach you how to deal with the good and bad of other people. Including "conflict resolution". You're young... get out there and interact with other people!
Then if none of that works, book an hour with Kate Collins and cum all over her tits!
Then if none of that works, book an hour with Kate Collins and cum all over her tits!
Replace therapy with whores for a while... silence the fairytales you tell yourself.
Then come back to earth with new perspective.
Then come back to earth with new perspective.
I’m going to go against the grain and tell
OP to lose your virginity the traditional way. This will turn into an addiction and you will have zero skill set to pull Civies and grow as a man. I know it’s tough to date in this era due to everyone being terminally online but you need rejections to motivate you to get better looking (gym and fashion) and learn how to communicate
OP to lose your virginity the traditional way. This will turn into an addiction and you will have zero skill set to pull Civies and grow as a man. I know it’s tough to date in this era due to everyone being terminally online but you need rejections to motivate you to get better looking (gym and fashion) and learn how to communicate
